Why Date a “Sugar Daddy” When a “Zaddy” Comes With Full Packaging
I can’t help it. Zaddies top my list of honey traps.
Oh, I love how Gen Z world is killin’ it! If you are not updated on the Gen Z slang and its meaning, you are missing out on the drills of coded meaningful conversations.
Some of us may be familiar with words like “Yikes,” “No Caps,” “Hands Off” and “Boomer.” But we look bewildered when we hear words like “Zaddy” or “Karen.”
Well, don’t beat yourself up if you don’t know the meaning of the slang thrown at you. The internet is there to keep you updated about the latest newest words, their meaning, and how to use them correctly in conversations so you don’t sound weird when you speak.
I recently learned about Zaddy from a women only Facebook group. The post suggested that women show their hottest zaddy. When I checked the comments, most of these men were not just stylish but were unbelievably sexy as f*ck.
Like the curious cat that I am, I quickly Googled the meaning of Zaddy and right there, I knew this was my preference in dates.
What is the meaning of Zaddy?
If you are familiar with the old DILF (Dad I’d Like to Fuck), then meet the cousin “Zaddy.” The definition of zaddy has taken different forms from an old and charming man to a young sexy guy.
According to Urban Dictionary, a Zaddy is “A handsome, fashionable, sexy man with swag.” It can also mean a dominating male sexual partner who knows how to make a woman moan in the bedroom.
TikTokers often use the term “zaddy” to describe an elegant rich older man. Men with swags who can seduce a woman without speaking a word.
One glance at a zaddy, and your heart starts racing. You dream of him, you think of making babies with him and you want your world wrapped around each other.
The thing about zaddy is that you feel it in your heart right away when you see them. If you think the term daddy is attractive, imagine a “hot daddy.”
However, a zaddy does not just apply to fathers and older men. Most of the celebrity zaddies are Idris Elba, Ryan Reynolds, Chris Hemsworth and the youngest of them all Zayn Malik.
These men have one thing in common, they melt women’s hearts. To sum it up, zaddy is an attractive, fashionable and wealthy man.
Why Zaddies make the perfect love match
For as long as I can remember I’ve always been into older men. But not just any old man, he has to be exquisite — rich, intelligent and incredibly handsome.
My mind often goes to how cute my children will look if one of them got me pregnant. Luckily, I got knocked up by one of them. My daughter’s father is 100% zaddy personified. His aura of fineness, confidence and charm was what got me attracted to him twenty years ago.
And since then, my choice of men has revolved around that class of men. Some people use sugar daddy and zaddy interchangeably, however, there is a difference between the two slangs.
While a sugar daddy could pass off as a zaddy, they do not embody the jaw-dropping swags that drip off a zaddy. But that is not all that makes zaddy the perfect mating candidate and I will share that below.
Their confidence is contagious
One of the most attractive qualities women look for in men is modesty. Women like men who are confident, outspoken, and intelligent because these qualities boost a man’s worth.
Nothing trips a woman more than a man with a great sense of self. When a man feels confident in himself, the woman he’s dating feels secure being with him. And since confidence is addictive, the woman emulates what he does and how he perceives himself.
You are excited about life when you date a zaddy
Zaddy possesses contagious positive attitudes and energy towards life. They are enthusiastic about people, events and things that stimulate their happy hormones.
And they surround themselves with people of like minds- who lift them up and do not drag them down. When you date a zaddy you can’t help but think as they do. Their positive and optimistic mindset to life makes you excited about every waking day.
They are gentlemen and treat women as such
Another great quality women seek in relationships is respect. Women want to be heard and feel the importance of their presence in the relationship. When you date a zaddy, he fulfils this need.
Because he understands how women feel and what makes them happy. He knows your needs and wants are just as important as his so he makes sure to seek your opinion in decision-making.
They are great sex mates
Yes, zaddies are great “in and out” of the bedroom. They take pleasure in looking fine and learning how to pick a woman’s interest. They have mastered the art of female arousal.
Some of the amazing sex I have had since I started having sex were from zaddies. They will tease you with their voice, caress your body with their hands and fondle you with their tongue.
I have only dated older zaddies. Although they are often busy and do not have sex regularly like younger men, however, when they do have sex, they are more interested in pleasuring you to make the sex unforgettable.
They make you happy
Men are like wine. They get better with age. Their sense of humour and grit makes being around them fun. They tease you without pushing your trigger button.
You feel safe and comfortable to open up about anything because they are wise enough to know when a conversation is getting serious. Being with a partner who gets you and makes you feel at home is why women get hung up on zaddies.
They help you climb the social ladder quicker
Women want men who are socially dormant and zaddies are social animals. They run in circles of powerful and prestigious groups. They often attend high society events and are a strong influence in their community.
I’ve met a couple of zaddies at fundraising and charity events. They frequent these events weekly to make their contributions to society.
So if you are looking to rub shoulders with the elite of the elites, you don’t want to say no to a date with a zaddy. And when you start dating one zaddy, you easily meet more like him.
Your children will be cute and well mannered
As I said, my first thought when I meet a guy is how pretty my children will look. Even though I’m on birth control pills, I’m usually on the lookout for cute male dates. Maybe because from a young age, my dad advised that I date men I can marry if the worst comes to it.
So even if I’m not looking to get pregnant anytime soon, my attention often falls on the guy’s physical attraction. Cute babies are the dream of mothers and zaddies fit that clip perfectly. Plus they raise their children with love and discipline making your job easier as a mom.
You live a more sophisticated lifestyle
I get excited about my dates when I’m in a relationship with a zaddy. They know how to pull up surprises that make you feel special. I get to live a fabulous life without paying a dime.
I can fly first class, book a private masseuse, hire a personal trainer, shop in luxury boutiques and attend extravagant events all funded by him. When they plan a romantic date, you can expect fireworks that make your date magical.
They help you’ve achieved your dreams
When you are choosing a partner, the best thing you can do for yourself is to choose someone who will support your goals. Having a partner who takes interest in your career is the pride of most women.
For this reason, zaddies make the perfect dating mates. Zaddies are well traveled, intelligent and cultured. They have more experience with life and how the economic sector functions. Climbing the success ladder is a smooth ride when you are in a relationship with zaddy.
If you need a guide on planning and executing a project, or simply someone to give an unbiased opinion about something, you can count on zaddy for that.
They genuinely care about your success so they offer advice based on their experience that will help you achieve your goals. If something is going wrong, they will point it out and will let you have the final say.
They make you feel proud of yourself
Not only will you feel proud for being the woman the zaddy chooses, but your self-esteem will also skyrocket because you feel confident and respected in the relationship.
You feel content and happy when you are around him. There is nothing more rewarding than knowing you are with a wonderful person who also helps you become the best version of yourself.
Zaddies are confident and intelligent men. Being with them will make you take risks you otherwise wouldn’t have taken. They push you out of your comfort zone.
Now tell me, will you date a zaddy if you get the chance?
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