Summary

The article emphasizes the importance of personal growth and change as the key to a better life.

Abstract

The web content titled "Who Is Knocking on My Door?" delves into the reasons why individuals choose to change from within to improve their lives. It suggests that instead of trying to change external factors such as the world, family, or friends, one should focus on self-improvement. The article outlines ten reasons for embracing change, including the desire to provide for loved ones, the persistence of one's inner voice, the importance of building strong relationships, and the belief in one's own ability to achieve goals. It encourages readers to take responsibility for their lives, to be humble and open to learning, and to argue points constructively rather than defensively. The text also advises on staying focused on goals without distractions, caring deeply about one's outcomes, and believing in one's deservedness of success despite past failures. The final thoughts section suggests that small daily victories, such as adopting a morning ritual or taking a cold shower, can lead to significant personal growth and achievement.

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Personal change is more impactful than attempting to alter external circumstances.
Clarity in one's goals and the discipline to pursue them are crucial for success.
Being 'weird' or different in the pursuit of personal growth is encouraged.
Persistence in the face of failure is a common trait among successful individuals.
Building strong relationships and networks is important, even for introverts.
Humility and the willingness to learn are seen as valuable traits for personal development.
Constructive argumentation is preferable to defensive behavior.
Avoiding distractions, particularly from social media, is essential for focusing on goals.
Taking responsibility for one's life and outcomes is a sign of self-discipline and courage.
Believing in the possibility of achieving goals, despite obstacles, is a key mindset for success.
Consistency and commitment to daily habits can lead to larger achievements.
Self-worth and the belief that one deserves success are important for overcoming past failures.
Small wins, like morning rituals or cold showers, can have a significant impact on one's mindset and daily performance.

Who Is Knocking on My Door?

10 reasons you agreed to change for a better life. It is from the inside.

We are growing at a tremendous face pace world, and we are like chasing after the wind.

We cannot slow down, but instead, concentration is our aim.

Who should you change? Is it the world, your spouse, your kids, your parents, your college, or your friends…? None.

The answer is YOU.

We all faced set back. Life is important. We only live once. Let’s not soak in the failure state.

Change the state you are in. Too many times, we fail, but there’s something in you that is going stronger.

1. You Want To Provide For The One You Loved

You wish you could provide more for your family and help them.

Have clarity of what you want.

Your short-term goal that doesn’t have a result remove it from your planner.

Top it up with being ‘weird.’

Be that different person; you’ll have to become uncomfortable to be weird in others’ eyes.

I’m not advocating you to drive your car and stunt over the bridge.

Meaning of weird, disciple yourself — wake at 5 am, do some workout, do your writing, do your meditation, read a book, write what you are grateful for in life, drink more water.

Do things you don’t want to do in the past. See yourself as incredible and visualize you have conquered your goal.

We all have weak boundaries and are not confident with our desire and goal, so we are not making it yet. Be different; your small voice calls you and set yourself up and be a trump in your life.

Have Clarity.

2. Your Persistent Voice is Calling

You are like Einstein. You tried a thousand and one times, but you fail.

No problem. No one says you will win in one try. Bruce Lee practices his one powerful kick to be powerful. Nothing else but the same move. All successful, famous ones, they did the same thing repeatedly.

You will tell your success story one day to your grandchild or write a powerful book. Or like Tony Robbin that touches the world with his life teaching.

You are on the way to win. Keep listening to your persistent voice because it will be pay off.

Be specific to relationships, money, and confidence. Do not get distracted by other noise like; ‘you are not good enough,” ‘you’re are a failure,’ that sort of toxic voice.

3. You want To Build Strong Relationship or Networking

You are not a people person. And that’s ok. So am I. I am an introvert. I’m not particularly eager to talk in a group of 3 and more.

Don’t freak out if you’re not an extrovert. It’s ok.

Join the Facebook group in your niche or your career topic.

For example, If you’re a parent, join a friendly mummies group. If you’re a writer, join a writer group. They’re friendly. People like to help people.

Start from there. Build your confidence. Learn to speak and help people with value.

4. You Know What Humility Is

We don’t know what everything is. We are not all experts.

But you have a heart that opens to the unknown and is willing to learn and to change.

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5. You Want to Argue Your Point in a Friendly Way, Not the Defensive One

No doubt that we are all defensive in a way or another.

Not everyone likes to argue. Most of the time, we hid under the blanket and didn’t want to bother.

My point here is not asking you to fight every argument like fighting over a parking space on top of your lung — Meaningless.

I mean, the healthy one. We can always argue on the excellent point if you are being challenged, with peace.

And of course, take in every good advice and comment if someone corrects us and our mistake. Be thankful. The best way to improve is by hearing.

Never do the unhealthy argues, the defensive kind only to ruin.

6. You Are Not Distracted From Achieving What Your Goal

We all agreed to this one. We are addicted to social media. You can read here — If you want, you will find ways to overcome it — no more excuses, from my previous post.

You knew it. You’re already felt it’s boring on the social platform.

That a good sigh, you are reading an encouraging article instead of wasting time watching that funny dog pictures.

You are on the right track. It is focusing that leads us to go to where we’ve planned.

7. You Want To Take Responsible For The Outcome in You Life

You dreamt of your dream for the longest time. You are still fighting for your goal.

Yes, successful people don’t blame their situation nor give up if things don’t work out, but you pressed on.

You like to take charge of your own problem, that the courage of your inner voice to keep you going.

You don’t blame everything. It is the self-discipline you have build. Keep going.

8. You Believe It Is Possible

When everything seems impossible, you know God is able.

You have equipped with the strength and right learner attitude that is within you.

You have been through the uncertain time, the failure, the embarrassment, the lack.

But still, believe it is possible. And that’s your subconscious mind working in you. That is the plunge to the next level of success.

9. You Want to Care As Much As You Want to Reach Your Out Come

Commit and determine the outcome.

You care for your goal. You know you will have a better life if you continue to commit to growing your goal and outcome.

Be consistent. Show up when the weather is down.

10. Deep Down You Know You Deserve What You Want

You have failed many times. Perhaps it is your business, and maybe it is your relationship, could be your job. You didn’t get it right nor on the right track. That’s ok.

People will often fail at this state and fall into this trap — ‘maybe’ I don’t deserve it. And give up.

But no. You know we deserve it. Life is sometimes like a puzzle, like a treasure hunt. We need to find and careful planning to reveal the answer.

“If ignorant both of your enemy and yourself, you are certain to be in peril.”

Sun Tzu

Final thoughts

It is all the setbacks and failures that help us grow and achieve goals. This is life has to give us. There won’t be pinky and rosy every day.

I know you’re like me. You have a crooked journey. The inner you will help you when you ask for help. Listen to that still small voice.

To achieve a better life, start to do small wins. Start with one simple morning ritual.

Challenge yourself every day — Cold shower.

After your warm bath, turn on the cold tap, let it runs on you, start with 30s, then increase to 40s, 50s, 60s the next 30days.

This small win will boost and kick start your day.

Good cheers!