When You Tried Everything, But Your Problem Persists!
How to never get discouraged by problems again!
It can be unnerving to stand before a problem and not move past it. Every time you look at it, it stares back at you. Here it is. Taking space up in your life.
The moment we identify something as a problem, we usually wish for a solution. So, when we try everything, without any success we feel helpless.
The wish to understand why we can’t move forward still exists though! Because it can help us to move forward!
Take a step back! Clear the mental clutter and calm down the inner overthinker! Let’s try to be objective!
We can get too obsessed with our problems and then overlook the opportunities! It’s important not to beat down on yourself or create new negative life philosophies ….
You need to figure out when to let go because you can’t change anything. But first, you must deceiver whether there’s a way to change it. Maybe you didn’t find how, yet!
You need to realize when you’re just not consistent or patient enough. Quite often you also have to realize that you don’t even have a problem! Our expectations tell other stories to our egos, feeding the fears!
Is it a problem?
I’ve seen many people chasing happiness or solutions even though there wasn’t a “problem”.
People tell themselves they have to live or be a certain way. Otherwise, they're a failure. But that’s a form of attachment!
At some place and time, this and that makes you worthy. In another time and place, it’s the opposite!
But the broken-heartedness of a person that doesn’t love themselves is always devastating. No matter where or when!
There are so many ways to earn money and look beautiful. But there’s only one way to feel happy with yourself! It always starts with acceptance and compassion!
When you attach your own sense of self to an identity you created and you can’t live up to that, it gets existential. Because you don’t see you’re more than that!
Searching in the wrong places!
Time for a bit of mental distance! Is that person or job really resonating with you? Do you need to lose weight or gain followers? Is it worth it? What are your true intentions?
I see you set your mind on something. But be honest with yourself!
Do you want it because you want it or because you think it’s needed? Because it seems to be the key to being happy and worthy?
Observe the resistance! Try to understand whether you have a problem or a big “stop!” sign that protects you from worse. A life that’s not aligned with you!
You (and the universe) know the truth! We can tell ourselves that we only need more. That we don’t have enough already. That something can fix us or the situation.
Behind that hides insecurity and fear. An age-old story humans tell each other. But often we just search in the wrong places!
Some seek external things to make them happy. But when do we really need more?
See the best in you!
If we’re honest, we know when we (don’t) have enough! Most of us don’t lack anything really. Do we know what real hunger or danger feels like?
Still, we think the key is to search for more material wealth. Rather turn inside for a few moments! All you need is usually there!
You probably even got the abilities that can get you to the wealth you badly desire…If you put the fear away and stop procrastinating!
See the best in yourself, so you can recognize how to use and invest it in the best ways! Don’t let your talents be your blind spot!
Nothing is wrong with you! Maybe you rather need to understand how to work with yourself and what you have right now!
Don’t focus all your time, energy, and money on finding a solution to a problem that doesn’t even exist. With tools that couldn’t even fix that issue in the first place!
By misdirecting your inner and outer resources you’re going to feel misplaced and disconnected!
Look inside. Stop hunting for more on the outside. It’ll just bring the same messages again. The same experiences and cycles!