When you feel unworthy of someone’s kindness

A sincere apology for your wrong could be the solution

“Your conscience is the measure of the honesty of your selfishness. Listen to it carefully” — Richard Bach.

Your conscience is a powerful thing. It plays on your mind all the time.

When your actions toward another are unkind, your conscience cannot bear the guilt when that person is kind toward you.

I’m a stickler at being kind to others who knowingly judge, criticize, or done me wrong.

I get a kick watching them suffer being tormented with all the kindness and good I direct towards them.

Unbeknown to them, It’s my way to get back by playing with their emotions and prove they were wrong about me all along.

I play with their conscience.

But put aside me being mean. That is never my intention whenever I extend my hands of kindness. I always do it with a genuine and compassionate heart.

I just wanted to bring an awareness of how our conscience works on our minds, so we can be more mindful of the things we do in our daily lives and avoid carrying the burden of a guilty conscience.

The Oxford languages define conscience as — An inner- feelings or voice viewed as acting as a guide to the rightness or wrongness of one’s behavior.

Today I observed a family member who became overwhelmed by my kind response to her needs. She needed help with something, but her conscience couldn’t allow her to ask me for what she needed.

It all started a few months ago; we had issues where she did me wrong. Those issues were shoved under the rug without being fully resolved.

Today, I just want to give you my advice and a little therapy for your mind.

Whenever you have issues with others, try an amicable resolution and work it out.

A simple and sincere apology isn’t that hard to articulate.

Saying “I’m sorry” set the tone for further dialogue. It often brings a resolve to most conflicts among us and relieves you from living with a guilty conscience.