When dealing with a narcissist, ask yourself this question

It may be difficult for you to give up on a narcissist. The problem is that if you don’t give up on him, you will be putting yourself at risk.

Don’t you have enough lies, him cheating on you, empty promises, or maybe you don’t have enough criticism and devaluation.

Or maybe you don’t have enough stress and problems with sleep and health

Can you count on him?

Is he there for you when you need him?

Does it take your needs into account?

Does it help you with your problems?

When was the last time he asked how you were feeling?

Was he with you when you got sick?

A narcissist won’t be there when you need him most, which is when he usually disappears or makes up excuses.

Did the narcissist respect your opinion, or was he always trying to push your boundaries?

And how did he react when you refused him, when you said no, did he explode with anger, slammed the door, punished you with silence, took revenge on you,

If you were going through a difficult stage in your life, did he help you? Unfortunately, a narcissist is unreliable because he only focuses on himself and has no empathy. A narcissist will not sacrifice himself for you. He will want you to sacrifice for him, and he will want you to sacrifice.

A narcissist will only be nice when he wants something from you. If you can’t count on him, why would you want someone like that, he’s not the partner for you. If he keeps telling you that you are such a bad person, why does he want to be with you, and why does he come back to you? Just because you spent some nice time does not mean that you will be happy with someone like that. Doesn’t your relationship sometimes resemble constant ups and downs, a repeating pattern of sometimes good, sometimes bad, sometimes tragic, of which the good is a definite minority.

If something bad happens, a narcissist will leave you to the wind, abandon you, and disappear.