When a man’s pants are “hard”, then his heart will always be “soft”
What does this really mean? This means that if you started a relationship with a man and have not yet reached sex with him, then most likely this man will tell you very pleasant things, he will say how he has been looking for you all his life and how happy he is that here you are so beautiful and not at all like everyone else.
And, of course, he will not forget to say that he has never had such feelings for anyone as for you. This doesn’t necessarily mean he’s lying to you, far from it.
It’s just that most men are designed in such a way that “when it’s hard in his pants, it’s very soft in his chest and heart,” that is, he wants you so much that he’s ready to tell you anything and even a little more. That is, everything that you want to hear from him, and sometimes he even believes in all of it himself.
But when everything happens between you, then his ardor may subside a little and the man will not always remember after that all those mountains of gold that he so sincerely promised you. Therefore, in my opinion, you shouldn’t fall for all these “sweet speeches” that a man so skillfully sings to you. He won’t even promise you anything like that in order to move on to “dessert” as quickly as possible.
It is much more important how he will behave in serious situations, whether he will really be ready to help you when you need it. It’s better if he’s ready not only to talk a lot, but it’s better to just show you once in practice that you are really very important and valuable to him.
In addition, if your man constantly only reduces all conversations to sex, and even praises himself about what a “guru” he is in this matter, then, most likely, everything will be the other way around — a lot of conversations, such as private parties, and little of the actual process.
You know, like in that joke: “we had sex all night, because we tried all night, but nothing normal worked out for us until the end…” Therefore, dear women, never rush, it’s better to take a closer look, value and love yourself, and first of all, look at the man’s deeds, and not just what he tells you there. Good luck to you!
