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James Boylan reflects on the role of music in his life, particularly the song "What's Going On" by Marvin Gaye, and how it relates to his pursuit of happiness and mindfulness, influenced by his spiritual practice and community involvement.

Abstract

James Boylan shares a personal essay on the interplay between music and his emotional well-being. Despite not having a naturally gifted singing voice, music has been a source of joy and freedom for him. He recounts how singing snippets of songs, especially Marvin Gaye's "What's Going On," can uplift both himself and others around him, such as during his volunteer work at the Flint East Side Soup Kitchen. Boylan connects this to the concept of mindfulness, as discussed in Reverend Stephanie Sorensen's talk titled "What's Cooking?" at the Life Enrichment Center. He emphasizes the importance of being present and choosing one's experiences, which aligns with his own practice of the AA 3rd Step principle. Boylan attributes his happiness, joy, and freedom to his spirituality, the love of family and friends, and his willingness to let God guide him.

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  • Boylan believes that music is deeply connected to his sense of self and emotional state.
  • He values the power of music to bring people together and create shared moments of happiness.
  • Boylan appreciates the teachings of Reverend Stephanie Sorensen on mindfulness and vigilance, seeing them as tools for living a fulfilled life.
  • He is a proponent of the AA 3rd Step, which he interprets as surrendering control to a higher power for guidance.
  • Boylan is grateful for the positive relationships in his life and sees them as a source of love and support.
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What’s Going On

and whenever someone asks this, I think of Marvin Gaye’s song of the same name

Photo by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash

I have dabbled, over the years, with many instruments. It seems like I have always loved music. Like it is a part of me. Piano, coronet, trumpet, acoustic guitar, string bass, harmonica.

As good or bad as I ever got on any of these instruments, I never could get any good out of my natural, inborn instrument, my voice. I, once, even had a daughter ask me not to sing Happy Birthday to her with the others at her birthday party.

She gave in when I told her no song, no present. I want to be happy, joyous, and free and, with the help of music, I always have been and I still am.

So, what does this have to do with the topic What’s Going On? For me, almost everything. It seems like wherever I am and I hear someone say something, it reminds me of a song. Of course, many are from the 50s-70s.

Even today’s title “What’s going on” Brings to mind Marvin Gaye’s Motown version of this. My head has been full of Marvin’s voice as I am writing this.

What happens when I am reminded of a song? Of course, I have to sing a few words of it no matter where I am. Drives them bonkers when I am working in the Flint East Side Soup Kitchen.

Other volunteers and homeless, hopeless patrons alike say “Oh, that’s just Jim again, and laugh.” But soon, some are singing the same song and we all are happy together in the moment.

Last Sunday’s talk about Mindfulness by Reverend Stephanie Sorensen at the Life Enrichment Center in Flint, MI was titled “What’s Cooking?” Click here to hear it. “What’s cooking” is another way of saying “What’s going on?”

Reverend Stephanie said “Vigilance allows us to pause between stimulus and response so that we can choose what we want to experience in the moment. Being mindful is inner vigilance.

It’s paying attention who we are being and how we are being in the moments of our life as we live them. If we decide to practice mindfulness, by the time this not-so-new-year ends, our life will still feel new.

In this way, every day we’ll feel enriched and blessed. There won’t be one iota of regret or remorse because we’ll know that in each moment we were free to choose and we did!”

So, “What’s Going On” with me? I have surrounded myself with people that I really enjoy being around. This contributes to my being happy, joyous, and free.

I have family and friends who just plain love me. Having been on the other end of the love-hate choice before, I am eating this up and will do my best to keep it only getting better.

How can I make this all even better for all? I live with the AA 3rd Step, shortened version, by simply saying “God, help me,” then stepping aside and letting Him. Couldn’t be any simpler.

As long as I remember that God is not my co-pilot, as I have seen on many bumper stickers, but that He is my Pilot, I remain happy, joyous, and free. Thank you, God!

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