What Women See In You And You Do Not Realize

From fancy sports cars to highly successful jobs. The debate about what women look at when they see you is something that has been raging on for decades

Every social scientist and influencer has their opinions and only some of them get it right when it comes to women, the way they look at men varies greatly.

There are numerous influencing factors, including who she is, and how she was raised. Ultimately, the influences around her, explore some of the important traits that every man should work on.

These are basically all women looked at regardless of their background.

Appearance

Let’s get the obvious one out of the way. Women are visual creatures much like men. The appearance of the person they see tends to make a big impact on them.

You might not make someone fall in love with you by the way you look. But it is one of the first things they will notice. You can be the smartest and most charming guy in the room, but if it doesn’t look like you truly care about your appearance, you will find it hard to snag a woman.

It is best that you spend some time in the gym and make sure that you take care of your body and appearance.

Body Language

If we are to continue this trend of a woman noticing you without speaking, the next thing she will see is the way you carry yourself. Psychologists refer to this as the body language you portray.

You see women are highly attentive to even the smallest of gestures and they tend to pick up on virtually everything. Since women are negative creatures by nature, they seek some positivity. And this is why someone who is frowning and dropping their shoulders whilst walking can be a massive turn-off to her.

Women tend to pick up on your body language and you should try to make it as positive as you can, so dress to impress. Once she has seen your body language and your basic appearance is on point, she will automatically shift her focus to your sense of fashion.

Fashion

Every woman wants a man who looks like he is in control and has the acute nature of dressing to impress.

This doesn’t mean you should buy a very expensive suit, although it might be very helpful in your endeavors with her. You do need to look the part and seem as if you have a little bit of style. Women love it when a man can also dress up and much like lingerie can trigger a man, a well-dressed man who is caring for himself will naturally impress any woman.

You should make sure your clothing fits you well and it should not feel baggy or be too big for you. As a man, you need to be able to show off some of your hard work in the gym but don’t be too egotistical about it.

How you treat others

If she doesn’t have the opportunity to directly converse with you. The next thing she will do is focus on the way you treat others. Women will sit and scout and look at your every move, including the way you speak to those around you.

This gives her the information she needs to figure out if you are a nice guy or not. Women secretly love it when a man treats others around them with respect, even if she is the jealous type and doesn’t want you to converse with any other woman.

The little bit of jealousy that it creates will still be great for building even more attraction. Make sure that you respect everyone and treat them well.

Who are you surrounded by

You might not think that this is important, but it truly matters to women who you are surrounded by. Since women are resource-hungry, they often feel more drawn to a man with many contacts and someone who can offer them something on their path to success.

It is for this reason that you should surround yourself with like-minded people and ensure that you and your friends have the same mindset.

Even without speaking to a girl, you can ultimately lose her. If a bunch of thugs surround you, a woman could automatically judge you by your friends. Additionally, science has shown us that we become the amalgamation of our closest friends.

How you present yourself to her

Perhaps the most important point we could make is how you present yourself to her. If you do it in a kind and calm way, you will have her attention.

The days of old pickup lines are now simply dying out and most of them sound corny anyway, don’t use any generic pickup lines. You must present yourself to women in a respectful manner and show some confidence.

Confidence is the one important thing she will immediately pick up on and you need to make sure that you can portray a confident person that she could fall in love with.

If you look at yourself and work through some of these issues, the way women perceive you will be different. Women will flock toward you and have more respect for you.