What is the Essence of Independence?

It is often expressed as independence from, but it can just as easily mean independence to . . .

Independence from . . .

How often do you hear people say, “Happy Independence Day?” Even around July 4th (in the U.S., at least), this is not a common statement that is readily heard. Sort of ironic, given how many value freedom, though freedom often implies a certain freedom from something . . . previously unpleasant.

In some ways, this makes a lot of sense, as declaring, fighting for, or achieving independence often focuses us on what we are struggling to be independent from.

Makes sense, as the state of independence means having some capacity for self-governance, not being beholden to something outside ourselves. Being dependent on another, either through some sense of servitude or forced action or lack of options.

To be independent suggests what previously had control over us no longer does. We are now free from that awfulness that used to maintain a status quo where we were determined in some way.

Independence to . . .

However, I prefer to think of independence as being free to, in other words, we are less focused on that former thing that controlled us and instead are able to look forward into a new world for ourselves.

We are independent to . . . what? To live our lives as we wish? Determine our next steps? Act upon our own desires and wants? Create a future to be proud of? Strive to make the world a more just and fair place for the next generation?

This is the positive and future orientation of independence, that of our moving into a world where we do not know that outcome as we have not yet decided on it.

What is your state of independence?

With this said, what are you independent from (looking back) and as a result, what opportunities does this mean for your next steps (looking forward)?

How do you see independence as a forward opportunity?

We are never who we were — as our lives, experiences, and what we learn always have us becoming newer versions of ourselves — yet the future is never certain, and in this way being independent gives us liberty to shape where we go in life.

So, what are you independent from?

Where will you take that independence to today? Tomorrow?

We only have one turn at this life, so what will you do with this freedom you have? It is, after all, up to you, especially if you know what holds you back and from which you need to be independent.

So, I ask you, what do you make of this? If you are not as independent as you could be, what will you do about it? Moreover, what will you do with it once you get it?