What is Love?

Summary

This web content narrates a teenage girl's journey through understanding love, from her mother's initial disapproval and her father's subsequent advice, to her eventual marriage and starting a family with her childhood friend.

Abstract

The story begins with Jenny, a 15-year-old student, facing her mother's discontent over her spending too much time with Derrick, also 15. Despite Jenny's insistence that they are just helping each other with homework and her declaration of love, her mother remains skeptical. Her father later steps in, offering a more nuanced perspective on love, emphasizing respect, selflessness, and the importance of understanding the consequences of one's actions during teenage years. He advises Jenny to focus on her goals, contribute to the community, and develop relationships with Derrick's family. Fast-forwarding eight years, Jenny and Derrick are shown to have pursued higher education, established careers, and tied the knot. Now married, they are raising two sons together, enjoying the support of their families and the enduring beauty of their love.

Opinions

Jenny's mother is initially concerned about the depth of Jenny's relationship with Derrick, implying that she believes teenagers may not fully understand love.
Jenny's father acknowledges that love is a significant emotion that can guide and transform lives, treating it as a gift.
The father emphasizes the importance of self-respect, respect for others, and selflessness in a loving relationship.
He also stresses the need for setting personal goals, community involvement, and understanding the repercussions of teenage behavior.
Jenny's father advocates for open communication about the challenges and concerns that may arise in relationships.
The narrative concludes with an implied opinion that love, when nurtured with maturity and responsibility, can lead to a fulfilling and stable family life.

She said they had feelings!

Here is an image of the teen students at ages 15yrs.- author’s picture

Jenny’s mother was not happy because Jenny spent too much time after school with Derrick. They are both 15-year-old students.

“But you said it was OK, Mom, we are helping each other with homework, and I love him!” Jenny declared.

“Oh, yea! So what is love? May I ask?” was her mother’s response.

“Well, I know Derrick feels it too.” and she proceeds;

“Love is a feeling you feel when you feel that what you feel is a feeling you never felt before — we can’t help it. It is just there!” was Jenny’s explanation.

“Oh boy! You have no clue. Your dad will talk to you after dinner. Case closed for now!” responded her mother.

Jenny’s dad laughed when he heard her explanation. But, he agreed that love leads our hearts & changes lives. Love is a gift.

Her dad told her about respect for herself & others, being selfless & doing what is best for the other person.

They discussed acceptable behavior & repercussions for irresponsible actions in the teen years. He encouraged his daughter to set goals for a career, contribute to the community, and get to know Derrick’s family.

He encouraged openness to feel free to ask & discuss concerns that arise in their lives.

Fast-forward, Eight years later, after a college education & profitable careers, the two were married.

Wedding 2018.

Today, the sweet couple are the proud parents of two little boys. They purchased a home, & they have the emotional support of their parents.

Derrick continues gainful employment, and Jenny is a breastfeeding stay-at-home mom.

Their love ‘feelings’ are present & beautiful!

Big brother meets new baby brother on 12/21

Thank you, readers, for viewing my true story.