What is an ideal relationship??

In this world of romance between a man and a woman or man man, woman woman?

An ideal relationship, in my opinion, should be based first and foremost on the foundation of friendship. You should be good friends first. You should look beyond the physical appearance and the fashion.

And you should look at the character of the person, not just the personality. Character hardly ever changes. Personality can change depending on age and so on. But the character remains the same. Character is what defines a person. So I always tell my friends to look at the character of the person. Does it match yours? Is he or she as outgoing as you are?

Or is she here or she? If you’re spiritual and if your partner is constantly going out and after that you will have a lot of clashes. She or he will not enjoy your presence and vice versa.

So if you are a very spiritually inclined person, look for someone with spiritual character. And that can become very good. But at the start look at the foundation of friendship. Try to be good friends first. Yeah. Loving is easy. But liking someone, I think is a little bit difficult.

For that long. Yeah. For that long life. Yeah. So if you do happen to have some turbulence in your relationship, you can fall back on friendship because the honeymoon period only lasts for so long.

Yeah. Once it loses appeal, then you’re kind of like, you know, the things that you never noticed before might start noticing and you will use an excuse. You never used to come so late. Used to call me or call me honey all the time. Used to open the door for me. Used to this and that or whatever. So that, you know, changes. At least you can fall back on friendship. I guess.

I think, um, sadly these days, relationships have become very disposable, and people are not really treating each other humanely.

We are people. We are supposed to be humans, but that sense of respect to another human is gone,

because see, when you get engaged with someone, romantic relationship, marriage, going out, wife and girlfriend, whatever you want to call it, you’re basically attaching a hook into someone. I love you. I also love you. Yeah. And it’s caught deep within a flesh.

It goes to your heart. And then if you’re not careful, if you keep tugging it too much, if you misbehave and so on, it creates a lot of pain. But what happens these days, as soon as you find someone more attractive, you attach another hook to that person and you literally rip it off without even thinking about the consequences of your actions, what might happen to that person at a physical level at an emotional level, which is worse. So that’s what I see happening these days.

So, When you love someone, I think you should trust that person and build a friendship first. It should be based on giving and not focusing solely on receiving and receiving and receiving and it should be open and free.

Anyway, if you enjoyed this article and want to know how I have spiritually evolved …plz consider this book Atomic Habits by James Clear.

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