What Is A Sadist — Are You One — These Are The Signs

Sadistic behavior is everywhere and part of Dark Tetrad personalities.👏

Here are some common things people do to others and how you can spot their malevolence.

1. Can I borrow some money from you?

Question: Why do they need money from YOU?

Bad memory of their bank account balance?

That indicates low conscientiousness. Those are usually people suffering from poor impulse control. Substance abuse. Psychopathy, Narcissism, Machiavellians and you guessed it, Sadism.

These are the ones in a job not working or letting others do their work.

Why can’t they go to the bank to get money?

Most likely due to a reason. This is also Sadism in that they could not care less about you and your needs since you might need to feed your family and survive on your own.

That does not mean you need to help someone at times with money.

You should be aware and critically analyze.

If you expose yourself to the wrong individuals you will end up in these situations and put yourself, or worse your family, at risk. This is harder for women because women have a flat hierarchy and do everything to keep the group together. That is also known as Diversity Equality of Outcome and Inclusion also driven by psychopathic banks with men at the top(there are a lot of women as well) that feed off women's psychology.

That is also their Achilles heel.

Getting rid of a malicious individual that is a woman takes more effort from a woman than a man. It goes against the compassionate mother's behavior.

2. Can I borrow your machines since we are relatives or friends?

Question: Why does he or she not buy their machines if they need them?

In a perfect world, we could share equally.

Sorry to say that we do not live in the world. Why pay for machines when someone else can pay for them, right?!

These people are not your friends. They want to use you for your resources and your compassion or desperate need to feed your low self-esteem. Not to say that you can’t or should not help others in need. But you did work hard for that money to buy those machines for a good reason.

Now someone not as hard-working as you want to parasitizes on your hard work.

I have seen this done to my father so many times. Just stop being a good samaritan and understand you are too high in Altruism in your personality. Guess what? Altruism is self-centered (ego and virtue signaling). You do it too feel good about yourself. It might be due to low self-esteem.

You might be a narcissist. Which is an effect of what Fillmore H. Sanford wrote back in 1951. He explains how people seek their friend's approval and attention and in that process become followers or sheep as I call them. Void of critical thinking.

3. Women showing other women a disgusted face

Question. Why is a woman displaying a disgust expression in her face towards another woman?

According to Jaimie Arona Krems and her fellow researchers found these results.

When a woman makes a disgusted expression in her face towards another woman. She will use indirect female aggression to try and exclude her socially.

“Women (more than men) interpret same-gender disgust (but not anger) facial expressions potentially directed toward them as cues of impending social exclusion, and report being hurt in reaction to these expressions, whether imagined or recalled.”

This finding should freak most men out in countries where the courts believe in verbal abuse. It is also one of the reasons why “Why “Normal” Men are Turning Their Backs on Women”.

Jaimie Arona Krems and her fellow researchers go on to say.

“Women (but not men) who are more dispositionally concerned with social belonging (but not vulnerability to disease) report greater hurt. Women seem to possess distinct interpretations of and reactions to aggression tactics that they uniquely and recurrently face. Identifying these often lesser-studied challenges women face may reveal additional, overlooked features of women’s strategic social cognition and behavior.”

As you can see. They found no eveidence that men do this. So this is one fact that women bully other women in a social context and it is sadistic.

Here is an example of the disgusted facial expression.

4. Men are High and Women Low in Dark Tetrad

Question: Are some women as bad as some men?

The answer to that question is there is no clear answer.

According to Raquel Gómez-Leal when she and her fellow researchers studied 1149 participants (50.1% women, 18–79 years) using the Short Dark Triad and the Assessment of Sadistic Personality test. They found that more men than women were in the high dark tetrad personality group. More women than men were in the low dark tetrad group.

They also found that high dark tetrad individuals were higher in extraversion and lower levels of agreeableness and conscientiousness than the group in low dark tetrad personality.

Remember that Sadism is part of the Dark Tetrad Personalities in that they wish you harm and pain and enjoy it. You should most likely learn how this manifests in you and in others around you and call out yourself and others on this malicious behaviour.

But remember to be careful since they might retaliate.

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If you want to read more about how to identify narcissism you can do that in my article “How To Identify Narcissism With Ease” and teach yourself and your children.

If you want to learn more about all the Dark Tetrad Personality traits then read about “How To Survive Toxic People — Dark Tetrad Personalities”

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