What is a Comfort Box or Self-Care Health Kit?
Are you sometimes feeling anxious or exhausted? Do you find yourself wishing you could feel good instantly?
Perhaps you need a comfort box, alternatively labelled a self-care tool kit, for when emotional crises occur, for better or for worse.
You don’t necessarily need to have a mental health problem to have a comfort box. In fact, anyone of any age can make one, just in case anything bad happens.
However if you do have some kind of emotional distress, it will be hard to come up with coping skills in the heat of the moment as more cognitive resources are used. It’s best to create a comfort box ahead of time.
Pros of the Comfort Box
- You can learn to identify your potential coping mechanisms.
- It is a proactive plan for potential mental health crises.
- You can design the box however way you want.
- You can put anything inside of it, including physical first aid items.
- It fosters creative thinking.
- It acknowledges that distress can occur in anyone’s life.
- It’s a reminder of the things that make you happy.
- It can be a conversation starter with close family and friends.
Making a Comfort Box
Comfort boxes can be any shape or size, but are usually the size of a shoe box, a purse or a backpack. If you’re using a box, any design can be drawn inside or outside it, based on what the box means to you.
You can design it in various ways by adding:
- Meaningful quotes
- Positive affirmations
- Drawn or printed pictures
- Stickers and badges
What Goes into the Comfort Box
Anything that improves your emotional and physical safety can go inside the box. These include items that are associated to our five senses:
- Sight — Letters, cards, and pictures of nature, family, and pets.
- Taste — A packet of gum, nuts, granola bars, or even some tea bags.
- Touch — A stress ball, a stuffed animal, a small blanket, silly putty, tissues, or even a calming jar.
- Smell — Candles, scented lotion, sunscreen, perfumes, oils, etc.
- Sound — Bells, whistles, dice, trinkets, etc.
It can also include other essential items, including but not limited to:
- Art journals, coloring books, pens, and highlighters.
- An extra set of headphones and/or a backup phone charger.
- Pamphlets for various crisis lines, flash-cards, etc.
- A list of positive affirmations, current goals.
- A hygienic kit, including make-up, eye-masks, and body spray.
- Regular first-aid items including band-aids.
If you’re overwhelmed at the sheer volume of items mentioned, you don’t have to use many items during a crisis. If your box only contains a blanket, band-aids, and water bottles, that’s ok as well.
I think comfort boxes, bags, and purses have a place in society. What kinds of things would you put in your comfort box?






