What If My Partner Hasn’t Experienced A Spiritual Awakening?
In this blog, I share some insights to assist those with unawakened partners.
I recently saw a video of a woman expressing her struggles with having a partner who is unawakened. As I scrolled through the comments, I realized many share her experience. A spiritual awakening is personal and often happens without warning. When a soul awakens depends on various factors like soul level, completed life lessons, and where we left off in previous lifetimes.
Experiencing an awakening is quite startling on its own, so potentially losing an intimate partner, close friend, or family can add stress and redirect our life experience. Essentially, an awakening is a huge wake-up call that impacts everyone in our circle.
How should I move forward?
The first step is to be honest with yourself and your partner. Be transparent about your feelings, desires, and life goals and expectations. Awakening is a life-altering experience — and once conscious, you can not be unconscious. If a meeting is necessary, it may be uncomfortable because the other party (or parties) may not comprehend your spontaneous life changes. These individuals may laugh at you or ask if you are having a mental health episode. Please don’t take offense to these types of responses. Remember, they have no idea where you’re coming from since they are still unconscious.
If someone approached you eight years ago and told you we are eternal souls borrowing a flesh suit for a human experience — how would you reply? To the conditioned mind, it does sound bizarre. Most humans will not accept this knowledge until they unlock higher awareness. They can access this awareness once they pass and learn from their life lessons. Therefore, go easy on them because they simply can not know what you are experiencing.
We should ask for direction from our Guides and follow our hearts. If our heart tells us to end a relationship, we should listen. Holding on to things or people not meant to stay hinders our spiritual growth, keeps us stuck in the past, and prolongs our journey. My Guides confirmed that many souls are on a reincarnation loop for two reasons — they refuse to let go of things that no longer serve them and have not learned from their life lessons. Lifetime after lifetime, they repeat the same patterns.
There are many individuals who have been on their awakening path for many lifetimes. These awakened souls have endured many trials and tribulations and passed many lessons, but some are somewhat stagnant. These souls are stuck because they continuously allow outside distractions to hinder their spiritual progress. These distractions come in the form of people, materialism, and other earthly vices.
For me, this time around, I have finally learned to let go. I no longer dwell on any relationship that has run its course. I take note of any lessons learned and use them to elevate. One of the primary reasons I did not have a romantic partner for a long time was because it was too much of a distraction. My Guides (and I) decided against it. I needed to focus on my spiritual progress, trauma healing and rediscovery, and self-mastery.
Initially, I did not understand why I walked along for so many lifetimes, but now I remember. I made the difficult choice to remain single until I reached a particular timeline. Most souls do not choose this route because it is very challenging to forego the love of a family. If you are a person who resonates, you likely are walking a similar path.
You either decided against a family altogether (because you’ve experienced it in a previous lifetime), or you will wait to unite with your divine counterpart once you enter your highest timeline. If you chose the latter, you will not be permitted to meet the one until you reach a particular level, and any attempt at a relationship (outside your person) will not succeed.
This is off-topic, but I feel guided to mention it because it is tough. You can not figure out why nothing is working, so you may blame yourself, and it can lead to depression. It isn’t you. It’s the Universe blocking and protecting you on your journey. You don’t remember, but you are meant for one person. Stay focused, heal, and when the time is right, the Universe will bring you together.
Refrain from finding a partner and throw 120% into your passion. The longer you dwell on finding a partner, the more you delay the Universe from working on your behalf. Learn how to play the game; everything works in reverse. For those on a similar journey to mine; here is the secret — if you look for a partner, you will not find them. A divine counterpart will only manifest in divine timing. You don’t have to do anything. You will miraculously run into each other at a predetermined time.
Closing Remarks
My loves, it is time to leave the world behind. We are in the world, but we are not of the world. The longer we attach ourselves, the more challenging it will be to remain in higher consciousness. It is tough, but it is time to make big decisions. Is that lover, friendship, or career worth it? Are those material possessions more important than ascending to a higher timeline?
I had a vision of a huge split. On one side, people are experiencing the toughest of times. I saw chaos, confusion, and immense sadness. On the other hand, I see people forming communities and connecting with their soul tribe. They are at peace, and there is no sorrow. We will all be on the same planet but in totally different worlds. Please follow your heart. Love, Ari.




