avatarDrashti Shroff

Summary

The article discusses the emotional pain of unreciprocated feelings in relationships and the personal decision of whether to continue being considerate despite the lack of mutual affection.

Abstract

The text delves into the difficult experience of valuing someone more than they value you, often leading to hurt when the affection is not returned. It acknowledges the potential for someone to be just another relationship in another's life, emphasizing that this situation is not necessarily anyone's fault. The author reflects on their own journey of forgiveness after being upset for over two years with someone close to them, expressing a sense of freedom and contentment after moving on. The piece concludes with a personal note from the author, inviting support for their writing through a Ko-Fi link.

Opinions

  • The author suggests that it's a personal choice whether to continue being extra considerate to someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings to avoid being hurt.
  • There is an acceptance that not all relationships are equally valued by both parties, and this can be a natural part of life.
  • The author shares a personal experience of forgiveness and moving on from disappointment, indicating a resolution and growth in their emotional journey.
  • The article implies that holding onto resentment can be emotionally taxing, and forgiveness can lead to a sense of liberation.
  • By providing a Ko-Fi link, the author expresses openness to receiving support and appreciation for their writing, suggesting a connection between their personal experiences and their work.

What Happens When Your Love And Affection Is Not Reciprocated

The lack of or absence of reciprocity of feelings hurts

Photo by mohammad alizade on Unsplash

Someone in your life will always be more important to you than you are to them.

You will go out of your way to be there for that person, no matter what.

You are just another relationship for them. Nothing special, nothing extra.

Who’s fault is that?

Well, no one’s.

Should you stop being extra considerate for that person to stop yourself from being hurt?

Well, that is up to you.

Today, I finally forgave someone with whom I was disappointed/upset for over two years. He is one of my own. Feeling free, content, and moved on……

You can support me in my writing journey by buying me a coffee on Ko-Fi here.

©Drashti Shroff, 2022.

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