What Everyone Ought to Know About Stress Relief
Your coworkers will be baffled by how relaxed you are. Trust me.
Picture this: Everyone at work is buzzing around the office, like toddlers running from the babysitter. They have files to scan, cases to work on, people to call, meetings to attend, and…their stress is through the roof.
What they really need is a fool-proof way to de-stress and prioritize their tasks. Here’s what happens at work when feel like you have everything piled onto you at once:
- The stress causes emotional responses (such as frustration) that cloud your ability to make rational decisions
- The emotional responses affect your body and cause physical reactions, such as tension in your neck, frowning, increased blood pressure, those sorts of things.
- You don’t want to set aside time to prioritize your tasks because you feel like you only have a certain amount of time and it would be a waste to use some of it on a mental exercise (this is part of that clouded judgment).
- The cycle repeats as long as you’re so stressed that you can’t think properly. Or until your significant other knocks you on the head and helps you re-think things.
Your Solution, Summed Up
(One of the 5 million stress relief techniques on Google, but at least I know that it works effectively!)
Here is a technique that I have used as a case manager to help adults and kids reduce stress.
Imagine that you are holding up a thermometer that is numbered from 1–10. Ask yourself, “What is my stress level right now, if 1=low and 10= high?” Let’s say that it’s currently an 8.
Our ultimate goal is to get the thermometer to read at 4 or below. This is a manageable daily amount of stress.
Think of the top stressor in your day that is causing you the most anxiety. If you were to complete that task, it would bring you from an 8 to a 6.
- You have to name something that you actually have control over, not “climate change” or “make uncle Bob stop drinking”.
Now, do the exercise again for a second stressor. Try to bring the thermometer down to 5. Next, pick the 3rd stressor and drop it down to the number three.
Well done! You’ve just identified the top three things you have to prioritize today in order to lower your stress to a manageable level!
You will be the only one in the office calmly drinking tea and taking a 5-minute break in the middle of the day.
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