What Does it Mean to Be a Writer?
I’m trying to figure it out

I was called a mommy blogger a while ago. It was meant as a compliment, but that’s not how I took it. It offended me. At first, I thought it was a dig dressed as praise. But why did I feel that way?
Most writers know Imposter Syndrome just too well. You feel like you don’t belong, you’re not good enough, and perhaps you should give up. I’m no different; I’ve felt all that. But how do you battle this?
The big question is how you prove to yourself you deserve to be called a writer, despite how good you are. You see, it doesn’t matter if you’re the best writer ever or barely mediocre, and it shouldn’t matter where I am on that spectrum either. If you care about the craft, write often, and try to improve, you’re a writer. What else does it take to be one?
writer
[noun] “a person who has written something or who writes in a particular way.” — Oxford Languages Dictionary
That brings me back to that compliment. Why should I be offended to be called a blogger? It’s on me. Of course, I’m not confident enough in my writing. I know I have so much to improve, and sometimes I forget how much I’ve improved already.
Being called a blogger brings that feeling that I’m just playing at writing, I’m not taking it seriously, and I’m not good enough to deserve to be called a writer. I might never be on a best sellers list, and I might never earn enough from writing to pay for my life, but writing is part of who I am, and it won’t go away. So, I may as well call myself a writer.
Hard work, perseverance, constancy. That’s what it takes to be a writer, and you have it. Do not allow other people to be the gatekeepers of a perceived definition of what it takes to be a writer. If you think you’re a writer, you are.






