avatarAlex Praytor

Summary

The author's husband surprises her with matching white Puma sneakers, symbolizing their comfortable and enduring relationship as they approach middle age.

Abstract

While waiting for their car to be repaired in the city, the author's husband presents her with brand-new, matching sneakers he found at a second-hand shop for half price. The gesture reflects the ease and familiarity of their nearly decade-long marriage. Despite the potential to become "that" couple who match too much, the author embraces the quirk with affection, acknowledging their differences and the shared journey through life's ups and downs. The matching shoes represent more than just a fashion choice; they signify a couple that fits well together and enjoys being in sync, even as they teeter on the edge of what the author's younger self might have considered "cringe."

Opinions

  • The author views the matching sneakers as an endearing symbol of their relationship, not just a funny coincidence.
  • There's a playful acknowledgment that matching too much could lead to being labeled as "that" couple, yet the author is content with this path.
  • The husband's purchase is seen as thoughtful and considerate, using the author's "heart language" of bargains.
  • The author reflects on the imperfections and differences within their relationship but emphasizes the comfort and stability they share.
  • The idea of a shared Facebook account is humorously dismissed, suggesting limits to how much the couple will match in their expressions of togetherness.
  • The author recognizes the potential for others to see them as a stereotypically matching couple but is unfazed by this, indicating a strong sense of self and satisfaction within the relationship.

We’re Well on Our Way to Becoming “That” Couple

But that’s fine with me

Matching kicks. (And some littler yellow kicks behind us.) Author's photo.

“Look what I got us,” my husband said with a sneaky smile as he met me back in the park where our kids were playing.

Our car was in for repairs, and we were hanging out in the big city while we waited.

“I got them half price at the second-hand shop,” he said the words to my heart language. “But they’re brand new!”

He proudly pulled matching white Puma sneakers out of the plastic t-shirt bag. “They had your size and mine so I said I’d take them both.”

Matching shoes now, and next, we could have matching couple t-shirts, a shared Facebook account (nah, let’s not get crazy), and start wearing matching fanny packs on family vacations.

It’s a slippery slope.

As we hurtle toward middle age, we could turn into “that” couple my younger self would label “cringe.”

“Try them on,” he said.

They were so comfortable, a perfect fit.

I smiled at the unexpected surprise. “Love them,” I said.

For almost ten years we’ve been each other’s person. Like any couple, we can drive each other crazy. Like any two people, we’re very different.

We’re not perfect. But we’re a comfortable fit, riding out the ups and downs of life side-by-side as we wear-in some half-price matching kicks.

I’ll take it.

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