We Are All Unique, We Are All Beautiful, We Are All The Same
Enjoy your individuality, open doors, don’t build fences
We are all individuals but we are also all the same. We are not as different as we sometimes imagine ourselves to be. Every person alive today has so much in common.
We all want the same things, the whole world over. A roof over our heads, food to eat, and enough love to share and compare our unique experiences with someone who cares, someone who has come to the same realization.
Humans are fascinating creatures, able to investigate and try to comprehend some of the biggest mysteries of the universe.
Like the connection between space and time, the frequency and duration of weather patterns, and the depths and mysteries of the oceans.
Curiosity is one of the driving forces behind all our thoughts and actions. We all want to know how things work, and like a small child, are always asking ourselves why.
We all seek emotional satisfaction, originally from our parents and as we grow and mature, from our significant others. We all crave the intimacy of physical touch, of hugging and kissing and holding each other.
It shouldn’t be that hard to achieve, to realize and satisfy our mutual desires. We shouldn’t put up artificial barriers between each other that prevent it, yet we still do.
We insist on dividing ourselves into countries, nations with different governments. We draw lines on a map to denote these different countries and their boundaries.
We grow up learning to speak different languages, even though we are capable of learning any language. This reinforces our sense of difference and isolates us even more.
We have different skin tones, produced by the melanin content of our skin.
People born in perennially hot countries develop a higher melanin content and darker skin to better protect themselves from ultraviolet rays from the heat of the sun.
People born in colder climes develop lighter skin tones to be able to absorb more vitamin D from the rays of the sun. Skin color is developed over centuries, with a slow genetic drift, and no proof of any real variations.
This provides another convenient excuse to feel different towards each other, but we are all still the same inside.
We insist on making political and emotional decisions based on skin tone, which is simply a matter of evolution over the years.
We develop different cultures and promote ethnic differences that are just a function of our customs, dependent on the country we grew up in.
They are not irreconcilable differences, they are just different. Again, some people all too often make this a basis for acceptance or rejection of each other.
We magnify these minor, natural variations of our common humanity into artificial divisions.
We use them as an excuse to discriminate against each other, to dislike each other, to wage war against anybody not exactly like us.
It is the source of the fear of “the other” that permeates so many of our different cultures. It is fear based on these artificial differences that really shouldn’t matter at all.
This is no way to live, people. There is no logic to it. There is no scientific basis for it. The proof is in the pudding.
It is the promotion, cultivation, and amplification of these minor differences that have led us to the state of the world we all live in today.
And it is all so unnecessary, so negative, so ultimately self-destructive.
We need to embrace, not reject these minor differences, caused only by separation and cultural acclimation.
We don’t need to make them a reason to war on each other, to dislike and even hate each other.
That is just giving into negative stereotypes and perpetuating the myth that we are all so very different.
The truth is, we are all the same. We all want peace, we all want harmony, we all want love.
We all seek joy, in all the small places and different faces that we encounter each and every day. In the end, we need to realize that we are all the same.
We are all more alike than different. Accept the reality. We are all connected…