Ways to Seduce Your Man in Every Day Life

Put your femininity within his reach in routine situations.

In one of my forays to a strip club in past years, I enjoyed a private dance from a woman who intrigued me. She was attractive but so were the other women in the place. There was a quiet aura about her — an almost detached quality — that drew me into her realm.

She shared a little about who she was, very little, and yet I felt a connection. I went back two more times specifically to see her in a place where we weren’t going to have much more than surface level communication.

Honestly, I really didn’t want to be there. The fascination of the places wore off because what I really wanted was to find seduction at home.

You don’t need the trappings of a strip club to get into a man’s desires; instead, create desire and arousal in daily living.

Seduction is an art form and not every man, of course, will react the same way. Here’s a disclaimer. Some guys don’t have a pulse when it comes to sexual thinking. Frustrating, I’m sure. Men typically don’t communicate well so you may not always know if the man in your life is admiring you or not.

Others, like me, have our arousal buzzing just below the surface — similar to flipping a switch and a light bulb goes from nothing to bright in an instant.

But now that the disclaimers are out of the way, I’ll share what I personally enjoy and what I’ve heard from others. Seductive teasing can keep the man in your life turning his thoughts to you.

Enjoy a seductive attitude

Life gets packed with the challenges of work and home. I get it. I also know that the longer you’re with someone, the easier it is to drift apart and stop communicating because familiarity breeds comfort. For someone like me, who enjoys an element of the forbidden in relationships, the dull routine can rob us of unexpected joys.

In this heading, I deliberately use enjoy instead of create or develop a seductive attitude. Find pleasure in seducing — not from a desire to manipulate but from a desire to strengthen a bond.

This is hopefully an empowering lifestyle. Attitude transcends the physical. Women whom I’ve found seductive don’t have to have a “perfect” body, either, whatever that means. An attitude that draws me in transcends the physical and I find women of all sizes and shapes appealing. My definition of a woman with a perfect body is a woman who primarily has a seductive attitude and carries herself well, regardless of body size.

Seduce with flattering eyes and a smile

Attitude is evident in the way you look at someone with a glance. Eye contact is important — playing with brief glances that reveal your personality. If you’re a normally shy person, you can play with shy and sly smiles.

A stronger personality can hold eye contact longer and let their feelings be known. How you look at others and how you smile reveals what you’re thinking internally.

Seduce while getting dressed and undressed

Take off your clothes slowly at night. Wear boy shorts on occasion and richly colored bra and panty set.

Bend a little more often and arch your back when getting dressed in the morning. If you buy something new like bikini briefs ask your partner which colors are the favorite ones.

A pose which always gets me — and one I envision in sexual fantasies — is a woman bending slightly and looking over her shoulder at me. She’s using the power of her curves and eyes to make me as weak as a piece of wet spaghetti.

Seduction in everyday settings

Consider this mundane setting: cooking dinner. You’ve rushed home from work and now the kids have their events.

In the meantime, you’re making dinner and your husband walks in to the kitchen. You take something of the saucepan or the microwave, swirl it on your finger and say, “Want a taste?”

Better yet, if given the chance, undo a button on your blouse. Wink and smile as you ask.

If your husband is cooking dinner, you could walk in, make eye contact, and say, “How about a taste?” Then smile and let your hand tease him along the waist.

My guess is this would feel slightly awkward to both of you, or perhaps to him. Which adds to the fun. Harness the awkwardness and work through it, but don’t avoid the sensation.

Later that evening, as you settle in bed ask, “Want another taste?” And then kiss him with your lips lingering on his.

Simplicity is powerful. Don’t pressure him or yourself to perform. Brief, seductive moments can certainly lay the foundation for deeper, ecstatic sex later.

You also don’t have to be a Seductress every day of the week. Seduction is like spice in cooking — a little can go a long way.

Seduce after bathing

Here’s an idea. You take a bath or shower and ask your partner to step into the bathroom. You hold a towel around you and say, “Would you mind helping me dry off?”

It’s an intimate request, isn’t it?

Accentuate the seduction by turning around and looking over your shoulder and taking your hands away as he grabs the towel. Or, enrich the moment by not letting go of the towel and then saying, “First, you have to kiss me.”

Can you see how playful and joyful these moments can be with seductive give and take?

Consider the many ways you can add seduction to your life. Wear a shorter-than-normal skirt when you step out and let him know you’ll be thinking of him.

Snap a picture of whipped cream and strawberries at the grocery store and send it to him with a text message, “Wouldn’t this be fun sometime?”

Seduction doesn’t mean you have to be a porn princess every time you go to bed. It’s really connecting and bonding by building your own sexual moments together in a language that you both get and understand.

Hopefully, it can make sex easier and, for husbands who are wrapped up in their work, sports, and hobbies, make them think and honor you and your feminine glory.

Take joy in your seduction and hopefully little sparks of arousal will keep buzzing between you and your partner.