Way More Dudes Are Into Pegging Than I Ever Thought

Summary

The article discusses the author's discovery of the widespread interest among men in being dominated and pegged, contrary to societal expectations of masculinity.

Abstract

The author shares a personal experience of engaging with a man interested in dominant women, which led to exploring new roles in the bedroom, including pegging. Initially uncomfortable, the author found the experience empowering and exciting. Surprised by this revelation, the author conducted an informal survey by messaging around 20 men on Tinder, all of whom expressed enthusiasm for being pegged, regardless of their public persona or prior experience. The article suggests that the desire for domination and pegging might be more common among men than typically acknowledged, challenging the stereotype of male dominance in sexual relationships.

Opinions

The author initially held a people-pleasing, submissive role in sexual encounters but found assertiveness and dominance to be exhilarating.
The first man the author engaged with respected boundaries and encouraged their enforcement, which contributed to a positive experience.
The author's roommate's boyfriend, perceived as hyper-masculine, also enjoyed being dominated, indicating a discrepancy between public persona and private desires.
The author's informal Tinder survey revealed a 100% success rate in finding men interested in pegging, suggesting a high level of interest in this practice among the men the author messaged.
The article implies that men who publicly assert male dominance may privately harbor desires for submission and pegging.
The author encourages a candid conversation about desires on Valentine's Day, hinting that partners might be open to roles beyond traditional expectations.

Happy Valentine’s Day. Fuck him.

Two years ago, at the beginning of lockdown, I matched with a man who was really into dominant women. I had never been in that kind of situation, and I told him so, but he still wanted to talk to me.

I had always been in the more people-pleasing, submissive role. But this guy wanted me to be assertive, aggressive, and even mean. It felt uncomfortable at first, but then…it started to feel really good. Exciting, even. Not only did he respect my boundaries, but he was begging me to enforce them.

After a few months of just chatting (remember, we were actually locked down and disinfecting groceries), we finally decided to meet in person.

He was into being spanked, degraded, pegged, and dressing in women’s clothes. He liked when I threatened and punished him.

I thought it was all novel and unique until my roommate told me that her super-masculine, gym bro-boyfriend also enjoyed being fucked. He seemed hyper-manly, and he was super buff. But still, when the pants came off, he wanted a woman to dominate him.

I decided to check out Tinder and see just how common it was. I messaged a ton of my matches…well, probably around 20…and simply said, “I’ve never pegged anyone before but I want to try. Would you be interested?”

100% success rate.

Every man I messaged was totally down with being pegged…and they were even excited at the idea that I hadn’t done it before. Some admitted to doing it before, and others said it would be their first time, too.

But they were all into it…which I was surprised to see.

I would be willing to bet at least some of the dudes out there ranting about King Men and being dominant over women wouldn’t mind a good domination or a good peg.

Hey, maybe they’re just being brats…acting out for a spanking.

So this Valentine’s Day, instead of getting dicked down…maybe ask if he wants the same?

The answer may surprise you.