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alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called will power becomes practically nonexistent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago. We are without defense against the first drink.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="b97c"><p>~ The Big Book, page 24.</p></blockquote><p id="2733">I mumbled something about doing more therapy sessions to stay in touch with my baseline feelings, but my new sponsor was having none of it.</p><p id="e1c9">‘This isn’t an emotional issue!’ he said, cutting in. ‘This is a memory issue that no amount of therapy you chose to throw money at will solve.’</p><p id="1800">He even suggested that the mental blank spot could be similar to a form of amnesia or dementia that science hasn’t picked up on yet.</p><p id="4ad6">‘But why hasn’t science picked up on it?’ I asked, holding the phone tightly.</p><p id="26fb">‘Probably because this blank spot only happens at certain times. Most of the time, it lays dormant.’ he replied before warning,</p><p id="337a">‘And unfortunately, this dormancy feature gives us an illusion of power. We think we’ve got sobriety now because our memory and willpower function normally again. Until, the condition randomly comes back online, and we relapse, leaving us totally baffled as to why it happened.’</p><p id="a3e9">My new sponsor sighed deeply.</p><p id="f455">‘It’s heartbreaking,’ he said softly. ‘Especially if you’ve relapsed after being multiple years clean. But it is sadly needed to show you that you are genuinely powerless, regardless of how much you desire and want to be sober.’</p><p id="969d">My head was spinning. Every sentence felt like the jolt of an electric cattle prod.</p><p id="8e0a">Later that day, I looked back at my recent relapses. I found no real conscious memory of consequences before any of them.</p><p id="352f">It appeared relapse was happening to me, not by me.</p><blockquote id="8aba"><p>As soon as I regained my ability to think, I went carefully over that evening in Washington. Not only had I been off guard, I had made no fight whatever against the first drink. This time I had not thought of the consequences at all. I had commenced to drink as carelessly as though the cocktails were ginger ale. I now remembered what my alcoholic friends had told me, how they prophesied that if I had an alcoholic mind, the time and place would come — I would drink again. They had said that though I did raise a defense, it would one day give way before some trivial reason for having a drink. Well, just that did happen and more, for what I had learned of alcoholism did not occur to me at all. I knew from that moment that I had an alcoholic mind. I saw that will power and self-knowledge would not help in those strange mental blank spots. I had never been able to understand people who said that a problem had them hopelessly defeated. I knew then. It was a crushing blow.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="93f7"><p>~ The Big Book, page 41.</p></blockquote><figure id="7922"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*n4r4HuNFWSnCD_WU"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@alicealinari?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Alice Alinari</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><h2 id="287c">A Belief That It Will All Be Alright.</h2><p id="baea">Sadly, the ‘blank spot’ wasn’t all that was happening.</p><p id="7c3e">My new sponsor later explained that something else was happening in my mind, a kind of twisting of my thinking that I couldn’t see either.</p><p id="02a0">This is the other main feature of the relapse condition.</p><p id="da70">The Big Book explains it as follows:</p><blockquote id="f067"><p>But there was always the curious mental phenomenon that parallel with our sound reasoning, there inevitably ran some insanely trivial excuse for taking the first drink. Our sound reasoning failed to hold us in check. The insane idea won out.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="4ad8"><p>~ The Big Book, page 37.</p></blockquote><p id="da58">Anytime the ‘good idea’ of relapsing suddenly popped into my head, part of me would start to minimise the lunacy of this thought.</p><p id="e2c7">I would begin to rationalise this catastrophic idea with excuses and reasons why it would be, in fact, okay to relapse despite being in recovery.</p><p id="432a">No matter how insignificant and non-sensical those reasons were, they quickly became plausible and seemingly rational.</p><p id="6997">At the same time, the urge to want to relapse would start to surge.</p><p id="cdc4">A fear of missing out would relentlessly come crashing in like waves rolling in and out of my consciousness.</p><p id="b225">Thoughts and narratives of why it would be okay this time would dominate my thinking.</p><p id="fe2d">Finally, a tidal wave of justification would smother me into deep unconsciousness.</p><p id="c65b">Convinced of my rationale, I would carry out my plan, only to revert back to type and do everything I said I wouldn’t do, and again, find myself powerless to stop once I started.</p><p id="34a2">This twisted thinking was nothing more than a lie, but I believed the lie and didn’t see the flaw in the logic in light of my track record with partying.</p><p id="888a">To any average person, this kind of thinking and decision-making would be termed irrational, unsound, or even insa

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ne.</p><p id="d880">The Big Book calls this thinking an <i>‘obsession to beat the game’</i>.</p><p id="9087">Whether it’s a vague idea that this time it would be different, that I would do it differently and party like a gentleman.</p><p id="b075">Or the well-loved excuse that this will be my last relapse. After this final time, I’ll be done for good. I’ll get on with my life.</p><p id="be67">But, it never was different and that last time never did happen.</p><p id="149d">My new sponsor would remind me often,</p><p id="a62b" type="7">‘You aren’t changing your mind when you’ve decided to give in and party; your mind has been changed for you.’</p><h2 id="4c19">It Centers In Our Minds</h2><p id="f0e7">Of course, there is a body element for the addict.</p><p id="86b6">Naturally, as a consequence of the constant extreme usage of powerfully addictive substances and processes that are designed by their very nature to make you want more and more, addicts have developed a sky-high tolerance.</p><p id="2d70">But there’s this annihilation approach to our acting out and using once we start, which the Big Book describes as the <i>‘phenomenon of craving’</i>.</p><p id="01c2">In the Doctor’s opinion in the Big Book, Dr. Silkworth calls the phenomenon of craving an ‘allergy’, but my new sponsor wasn’t too keen on that idea.</p><p id="10af" type="7">‘If it’s an allergy, then why doesn’t the phenomenon of craving happen every time?’</p><p id="ae75">Regardless of whether it is an allergy, the body part becomes irrelevant, as most people with a severe peanut allergy don’t tend to keep repeating the total lost cause of trying to have another peanut to see if they will react differently.</p><p id="2e48">They don’t touch or go anywhere near peanuts because they remember how terrible it was last time.</p><p id="436a">Once or twice is enough.</p><p id="3796">Not so with the real addict because of the first two features of the disease; they will not only be back gorging on peanuts, but they will eventually take up residence in a peanut factory.</p><blockquote id="e3f6"><p>There is a complete failure of the kind of defence that keeps one from putting his hand on a hot stove. The alcoholic may say to himself in the most casual way, “It won’t burn me this time, so here’s how!” Or perhaps he doesn’t think at all.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="d5e6"><p>~ The Big Book, page 24.</p></blockquote><p id="5cb9">That’s why the Big Book says the real problem ‘centers in our mind’, not our bodies.</p><p id="22d4">‘What will happen now,’ my new sponsor forewarned, ‘as the relapses get worse, the time between them will get shorter and shorter.’</p><p id="6f0b">This condition is progressive.</p><p id="e8f1">Therefore, the blanking and twisting will naturally grow in scope and reach until you can no longer differentiate the true from the false.</p><h2 id="869b">Turning To Something Else</h2><p id="922a">If you believe in the disease concept of addiction, that this is a disease, a fatal illness precisely like any other life-threatening condition, then you have it for life.</p><p id="a2d8">There is <b>nothing </b>you can do to change that.</p><p id="d5f6">If you constantly can’t remember why or how you relapsed despite your honest desire not to.</p><p id="9aaf">Or if you continually relapse, believing some trivial reason or silly excuse to relapse while dismissing the genuine consequences, then you are a real addict.</p><p id="a47a">You have this relapse condition.</p><p id="840d">You <b>crossed a threshold </b>where, at certain times, your inability to use reasoning and rational thinking won’t even register for you.</p><p id="d8c6">The tragic truth is that once that threshold has been crossed, you have <b>no choice</b> but to relapse.</p><p id="0564">A compromised part of your brain will always fire the thought of using or acting out. That will never change. It’s wired like that for life.</p><p id="5fb0">There is no cure.</p><p id="fcca">Even this information won’t save you, as at certain times, you won’t be able to recall any of it when it matters.</p><p id="7fc5">So, let go of trying to change that.</p><p id="59f9">Let go of any old ideas around fighting it and instead get out of the way and <b>trust in something else</b>.</p><p id="b722">After all, that’s all you’ve got.</p><p id="5065">There’s nothing you or anyone else can do to stop this relapse condition.</p><p id="d1dd">But there’s everything you can do about everything else.</p><p id="5e51">There’s everything you can do about building a <b>spiritual dimension</b> to your life, by giving back, helping others, living in genuine faith and trusting in something greater than you.</p><p id="3096">There’s everything you can do to improve your awareness and intuition, raise your consciousness and develop another part of your brain.</p><p id="7598">And let this part of your brain grow bigger and stronger than that addictive part so that it can embrace and look after that compromised part.</p><p id="d2e3">Just like a bigger and wiser older sibling can care for and comfort a much younger upset sibling by giving that stressed child a big hug.</p><p id="da93">There’s everything you can do about deciding to take on a new attitude, direction, and way of life that will keep this condition dormant one day at a time.</p><p id="e415">If this article speaks to you, please follow, share and subscribe to me for more.</p><p id="fc50">Click <a href="https://twitter.com/TheDarrenJames">here</a> to follow me on <a href="https://twitter.com/TheDarrenJames">X</a>.</p></article></body>

War in the Womb: The Evolution of Pre-eclampsia

The most common serious pregnancy complication arises due to an ancient conflict between mothers and fathers

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It could have ended badly in so many ways. My friend, let’s call her Amy, in vibrant mid-twenties health, could not have been more ready for her first pregnancy. Apart from some nausea in the first trimester, she breezed through the first eight months. But as her due date approached, Amy’s hands, feet, and face puffed up with retained fluid. A Friday afternoon visit to her doctor showed high blood pressure and some protein in her urine.

By early the next week, Amy’s face had swollen so much that her eyes were almost shut, her blood pressure had rocketed to 160 over 110, and her urinary protein levels spelled a warning. Doctors watch for these symptoms because they often portend the most common dangerous pregnancy complication: pre-eclampsia.

The only known cure for pre-eclampsia is to deliver the baby. With only two weeks until Amy’s due date, the obstetrician didn’t hesitate to induce labor. After many long hours, a scare when the baby’s heart rate began to drop, and a dramatic forceps delivery, Amy lapsed into convulsions. Pre-eclampsia progressed to eclampsia, a mortally dangerous condition.

With modern medical care, fewer than one in 200 women with pre-eclampsia progress to eclampsia. Among those who do, many sustain massive damage to their kidneys, liver, or brain. Quite a few die.

Between three and ten percent of pregnancies are classed as pre-eclamptic, although their symptoms seldom match Amy’s for drama. Yet despite its high rate of incidence and the considerable suffering it causes, science knows remarkably little about why pre-eclampsia occurs.

Evolution

The causes of pre-eclampsia remain so murky that it is often called “a disease of theories”

As an evolutionary biologist, my job is to pose — and to attempt to answer — questions that begin with “Why?”. Questions like “Why are there two sexes?”; “Why do our bodies deteriorate as we get old?”; and “Why do our bodies sometimes not work sensibly, developing conditions like pre-eclampsia?”

Other branches of science ask different kinds of questions, equally valid and often more pressing ones. Like “How does pre-eclampsia progress?”, “ What combination of symptoms best predict which pregnancies will become pre-eclamptic?”, And “How should hospital staff treat a pregnant woman who presents with those symptoms?” Answering these “How?” questions leads to cures and management plans that save lives.

And yet we often remain no closer to a deep understanding of why our bodies work, or malfunction, in the ways that they do. The causes of pre-eclampsia remain so murky that it is often called “a disease of theories.”

The evolutionary conflict theory of pre-eclampsia’s origins is a sophisticated, multi-faceted beauty. It is built on the foundation of two under-appreciated facts. First, even our most profoundly loving relationships — between mother and child and between mother and father — bristle with conflicting evolutionary interests. And, second, a father is not always the biological parent of a child born to his partner.

Placenta of attention

Before we can get to these deep motives, I should tell you that we already have a suspect. Whatever pre-eclampsia’s evolutionary causes, the placenta lurks in the background like the suspect in a crime novel. Like many suspects, the fleshy lump of membranes and blood vessels embodies more substance than style. It might not be much to look at, but the human placenta ranks among the most exquisitely functional organs that ever evolved.

You might not want to look at a human placenta, but this is your chance. You have a moral obligation to know from whence your children come. Photo by João Paulo de Souza Oliveira on Unsplash

Roughly a week after a male’s sperm finds and fertilizes an egg, the resulting embryo nestles into the endometrium, a velvety carpet of blood vessels lining the mother’s uterus. Within days, cells from the embryo invade the endometrium like the first shallow roots of a germinated seed growing into the soil. These root-like outgrowths become the placenta. Four weeks into pregnancy, the umbilical cord connecting the placenta to the embryo is visible, and the heart starts beating.

A membrane no wider than the skin of a soap bubble separates the fetus’ blood from the mothers’. Oxygen, nutrients, and antibodies perfuse from mother to fetus. Waste products travel the other way, to be disposed of by the mother’s liver, kidneys, and lungs.

The placenta makes hormones that maintain the endometrium and ensure the placenta stays attached. The hormones also regulate the amount of glucose, fat, and protein in the mother’s bloodstream and, thus, the nutrients available to the fetus. In so many ways, the placenta mediates affairs between a pregnant mother and the new individual growing inside her.

It seems only fair, then, to venerate the placenta as one of the body’s unsung heroes. For nine months, it brokers a mother’s devotion to her darling, dependent offspring. People in many cultures revere the placenta, burying it in a sacred place. In a few societies, and some hippy circles, mothers even eat the placenta. Yet viewing the human placenta as a peaceful intermediary working harmoniously for the good of both mother and her precious, growing progeny ignores a more intriguing and conflicted reality.

From the perspective of a pregnant woman’s body, both the placenta and fetus are invaders. They intrude, like semi-welcome house guests, and take more than their polite share from the host. From the moment a developing embryo implants in the mother’s uterus, fetal cells set to work remodeling the mother’s arteries, limiting her control over blood flow to the placenta.

A human mother cannot reduce the nutrients that the placenta receives without lowering the overall concentration of those nutrients in her own blood. But the placenta can release hormones directly into her bloodstream, instructing her body to give the placenta and fetus what they want. These features give the fetus considerable control over the mother’s blood pressure and the nutrient content of that blood.

In mother-offspring negotiations, therefore, the human fetus has a decisive advantage: the placenta acts as the fetus’ agent. Or, as the reproductive physiologist E.W. Page put it way back in 1939, the placenta might better be viewed as

a ruthless parasitic organ existing solely for the maintenance and protection of the fetus, perhaps too often to the disregard of the maternal organism.

The nagging fetus

An unborn fetus manipulates its mother into providing more of whatever the fetus wants

Harvard evolutionary theorist David Haig certainly sympathizes with this view. Over the last 25 years, Haig’s ideas have rewritten our understanding of the relationship between mother and fetus. Instead of viewing gestation as a benign process to safely grow babies, Haig’s ideas reveal a womb that simmers with conflict.

Having one child is hard enough. Try seven. Photo by National Cancer Institute on Unsplash

Imagine a fetus that can persuade its mother to circulate a little more glucose in the blood than she otherwise would. Or perhaps a fetus that can trick its mother into raising her blood pressure. Higher blood pressure pushes more glucose, oxygen, and other nutrients across the placental membranes and into the fetus’ bloodstream. What I’m asking you to imagine, in a word, is a fetus that can nag. Exactly like a baby crying for more milk, or a toddler begging for a treat, an unborn fetus manipulates its mother into providing more of whatever the fetus wants.

If the mother delivers a high-pressure flow of glucose-rich blood to the placenta, the fetus will grow well and thrive. If she does not, the baby will be born small, with weaker survival prospects. So fetuses have evolved ways of persuading their mothers to increase their blood glucose and to elevate their blood pressure. Fetuses that successfully do so grow to be bigger and healthier at birth than less persuasive fetuses.

The most successful mothers in our evolutionary past were those that not only carried each baby safely to term but those that could then recover from childbirth and breastfeeding and do it all again. Pregnancy and breastfeeding exhaust a mother and sap her energy reserves. And for most of history, food was so scarce that mums struggled to eat for one, let alone for two.

Mothers who were taxed too much during pregnancy and breastfeeding by a demanding baby had less energy to care for their older children and took longer to recover and have another child. The baby might suffer a little from having a tired mother, but the mother would lose a lot more, in evolutionary terms, if her exhaustion limited the number of children she could bear. As a result, a mother should resist the nagging of her selfish unborn fetus and its ally, the placenta, providing just enough nutrients for the fetus to be born healthy.

The Virgin Adoring the Sleeping Christ Child. Sandro Botticelli c. 1485. In the National Gallery of Scotland. Public Domain.

This notion of pregnancy as a battle of physiological wills, between nagging fetus and resistant mother, undermines many cherished certainties. We can no longer look upon a pregnant mother as a benign Madonna-like incubator for an innocent new life. Without a change in perspective, it can be hard to understand why a mother and her offspring should battle one another so brutally? Surely both lose out if the mother suffers harm, or the baby doesn’t grow big enough?

To resolve the evolutionary paradox of mother-fetus conflict, it helps to imagine the point of view of the genes — rather than the individuals — involved. Evolutionary theorists find the strange mental trick of imagining a gene’s evolutionary interests incredibly useful. That does not mean we are imputing consciousness on pieces of DNA. Instead, it allows us to imagine what kinds of genes might have arisen in the past and been successfully passed down from ancestor to descendant. They are the kinds of genes that made our ancestors successful at becoming parents, grandparents, aunties, and uncles.

David Haig employed this method to imagine the evolutionary interests of the genes involved in pregnancy. A mother’s genes benefit from a successful pregnancy that ends in a healthy baby, but her genes benefit equally from future successful pregnancies and healthy babies. It takes more effort to imagine the interests of the fetus’ genes because half of those genes come from the mother and the other half from the father.

The genes from mum do well, in evolutionary terms, if the offspring survives and thrives. But they also benefit if the mother recovers quickly from her pregnancy and has many more children. That is where the relationship between mother and fetus gets complicated, because a gene that the fetus inherited from its mother will only be present in half of the mother’s other children. That gene has more to gain from the fetus’ success than from the success of its siblings. So we expect that natural selection would have favored some genes that allow the fetus to take more than the mother wants to give, as long as the harm to the mother is not too great.

The other half of a fetus’ genes, those that come from the father, should have even less compunction about harming the mother. And here, the fact that, throughout evolution, humans rarely mated for life becomes important. The genes that a fetus gets from its father have a smaller chance of being shared with other children by the same mother because there is a chance another man sired those other children. As a result, the genes that a fetus gets from its father don’t depend all that much on whether the mother flourishes. Haig argued that paternally-inherited genes should side decisively with the fetus and against the mother, taking her for all she can give.

Genes that opt-out

Each of us inherits one copy of each gene from each parent. In most cases, both copies get turned on — biologists say expressed — to make the body work. In some cases, only the copy that comes from the mother is expressed. For other pairs of these imprinted genes, only the paternal copy is expressed, and the maternal copy is silenced.

Geneticists disagree, often quite robustly, about why genes imprint. Only some plant and animal groups have evolved this trick. Reptile, birds, and the egg-laying platypus don’t have imprinted genes, so it appears that imprinting in mammals evolved along with the placenta. Many of the genes that imprint are somehow involved in pregnancy and fetal growth. According to David Haig’s theory, that’s because of the conflicts that pit the genes the fetus inherits from the father against those from the mother.

Silencing allows genes to ‘opt-out’ of doing something that would harm the interests of the parent from whom they came. When the maternal copy of a gene is silenced, it is opting out of doing something that would harm the mother, like pestering her for more nutrients delivered at higher blood pressure. Silenced paternal genes are usually opting out of defending the mother against a rapacious fetus.

The hormone Insulin-like Growth Factor II (IGF2) promotes the invasion of the placenta into the uterine lining and the proliferation of cells in many tissues of the body. It is precisely the kind of hormone that favors the fetus as it battles the mother for resources. As we might predict, it is the embryo’s paternal copy of the Igf2 gene that manufactures IGF2. The copy inherited from the mother is silenced, opting out of doing something that might damage the mother.

But mothers have a defense against IGF2: the H19 gene, which soaks up excess growth factor, preventing the embryo from invading too far and the fetus from growing too rapidly. The father’s copy of H19 is silenced, as you might predict for a gene that benefits the mother by limiting the fetus’ growth.

When a tiny biochemical mistake fails to silence the maternal copy of Igf2, the embryo makes too much IGF2. When the maternal H19 gene doesn’t work properly, it is unable to restrain IGF2. In both cases, newborns suffer from Beckwith-Wiedemann syndrome: enormous birth weight, a high susceptibility to cancers, and low blood sugar after birth.

Profound as the problems caused by mistakes in imprinted genes are, they are also rare. But they illustrate how conflicts between mother and fetus can give rise to more common afflictions, like pre-eclampsia.

Not invasive enough

Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash

In the very early days of pregnancy, the conflict between the interests of the mother and fetus already begins simmering. For the fetus to flourish, the placenta must invade deep into the endometrium of the uterus and remodel blood vessels called spiral arterioles. The mother, however, benefits if she can limit the placenta’s invasion and retain some control over the blood flow to the placenta.

Human fetuses require such deep invasion of the placenta that the mother’s immune system must make serious compromises to tolerate the fetal tissue. To the mother, an embryo attempting to implant is both a cherished potential offspring and a nasty invader from the outside world. University of Winnipeg biologist Scott Forbes calls the placenta a ‘natural born cancer’ — a tumor whose invasion into the uterus must be contained and whose growth must be restricted for the term of the pregnancy.

The tussle over how deeply the placenta invades early in the first trimester affects the chances of pre-eclampsia much later on, toward the end of the third trimester. The mother’s immune responses to the implanting embryo are known to affect the chances of pre-eclampsia. An embryo’s success in implanting and then invading depends on how that embryo gets along with the natural killer cells of the mother’s immune system.

Several identified sets of genes, including the IGF2/H19 genes, also affect how deeply the placenta can invade. If the mother wins, the placenta might not invade deeply enough into the endometrium, failing to alter the mother’s blood vessels sufficiently. For the first two trimesters of pregnancy, when the fetus’ needs are modest, this makes little difference. But late in the pregnancy, when the fetus’ needs start to tax the mother’s body, not enough oxygen reaches the fetus to nourish its growing body and especially its oxygen-hungry brain.

A deadly tantrum

The panicked fetus and the placenta throw a massive tantrum to get what they need.

Throughout pregnancy, the fetus and placenta bicker with the mother over her blood pressure. The balance of power rests with the mother early on, while both fetus and placenta are small. She keeps her blood pressure low and prevents the fetus from growing too fast. But as the fetus grows, the power shifts, and team fetus-placenta starts to get its way. As the third trimester progresses, the mother’s blood pressure creeps skyward.

If you thought toddlers could throw a tantrum, try a late-stage fetus. Image by Dimitris Vetsikas from Pixabay under the Pixabay license.

Every mother and fetus wage their private battle, but most fetuses receive what they need in order to grow. In pregnancies where the placenta hasn’t invaded sufficiently, however, the fetus struggles to get the nutrients and, especially, the oxygen it needs. Growth slows, and the brain begins running short on oxygen. The panicked fetus and the placenta throw a massive tantrum to get what they need.

Like a baby crying for milk, the placenta signals the mother’s body to raise her blood pressure. The higher pressure forces more oxygen and nutrients through the placenta to meet the growing baby’s needs. But if the mother’s blood pressure climbs too high, it risks damaging the delicate blood vessels that bathe the placenta in blood, as well as fine capillaries in the mother’s kidneys, liver, lungs, and brain.

Damage to placental blood vessels means less oxygen gets through to the fetus, leading to more urgent demands for higher blood pressure. On top of that, the placenta starts to die, and dying placental cells get into the mother’s blood vessels, clogging them up and making the problem even worse. This vicious cycle, left untreated, can damage the mother’s organs, leading on to fits of eclampsia and a risk of brain damage and death.

The consequences for the baby can be just as severe as they are for the mother. Reduced blood flow and placental damage slow the fetus’ growth so drastically that babies of pre-eclamptic pregnancies tend to be born desperately small.

Fortunately, my friend Amy’s doctors delivered baby Simone, brought Amy’s convulsions under control and lowered her blood pressure enough to avoid permanent organ damage. But for a cautious GP, a quick-thinking obstetrician, and a pair of forceps, Amy, Simone, or both might well have died that day.

Despite her traumatic introduction to motherhood, Amy walked out of hospital within days, carrying baby Simone. The battle that had caused pre-eclampsia had slowed Simone’s growth, leaving her so small that even the tiniest baby clothes were too big for her when she was born. Luckily she grew quickly, escaping the many problems that accompany low birth weight. By one year of age, she had attained average weight and height, and she grew into a robustly healthy, delightful young woman who excelled at school and on the sports field.

Postscript: Welcome to the world of sexual conflict

In this rather long and technical story, I have considered how a perplexingly complex condition — pre-eclampsia — might arise through conflict between a mother and her developing fetus. The very different evolutionary interests of the fetus’ mother and father, and especially of the genes the fetus inherited from each parent, sharpen this conflict.

In a fair and just world designed by an omniscient creator, the genes a fetus inherits from mum and dad would quietly get on with their important shared task of making that fetus into a happy, healthy baby that doesn’t cause its mother too much pain on the way out. Instead, the genes bicker and argue, with those inherited from dad trying to take the mother for every molecule of glucose and oxygen the fetus can get. The genes inherited from the mother defend her so she can have more babies later on.

A detailed look at the hormones, cells, and genes involved in pregnancy reveals a story at profound odds with the Hollywood script and the peppy tone of “what-to-expect” pregnancy bestsellers. While pregnancy certainly imbues some expectant mothers with a warm inner glow, within the womb there rages a mighty battle.

In coming articles, I will show how that battle’s rage is felt beyond the panic of pre-eclampsia, in the nausea of pregnancy sickness and the glucose highs of gestational diabetes. And I will reveal some big twists in the pre-eclampsia tale that might give wannabe parents a reason to have a lot more sex.

If the genes a fetus inherits from its parents can’t get along, then what hope is there for the parents themselves? Or for men and women in general? Those questions animate much of my writing, including my forthcoming book, and many of my stories here on Medium and elsewhere.

For now, Happy Mothers’ Day to all the mums out there!

Is this enough of a teaser for you? Photo by Maria Oswalt on Unsplash
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