Want To Know Who Your True Friends Are?

They are not the ones who are with you at the bottom

This has been my realization for the day.

Don’t forget your friends who were with you when you were at the bottom. But please check if they are still with you upon reaching the top. If they are present in both instances, they are your true friends.

If they are with you when you were at the bottom only, they did it out of pity. They did it to feel capable and powerful. But once you reached your goal and stayed on the top, they feel resentful.

They don’t want you to get an inch ahead of them. They began biting you at your back or worse they begin telling you that you didn’t make it if not because of their help. They are not your true friends. They are insecure and they don’t want you to be happy.

When some friends appear only when you reached the top and you never saw them when you were at your lowest, they are not your true friends. They are go-getters. They begin to like you because they perceive some benefits from you. Remove the benefits and they will remove you from their friend list.

So don’t forget the 2 items on your checklist: Present at your lowest and at your triumphant stage. They are your true friends because they love you as the person that you are no matter where you are.

Have a nice day, my friends!