Wake Yourself Up, Change Yourself, It’s All Up To You.

We spend our lives trying to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true selves.

There is no doubt that the process of finding oneself is a long and torturous journey.

Of course, once you have made your own way out of the complicated world, the rest of your life is bound to be a marvelous experience.

Bitterness followed by sweetness always runs through each of our growth journeys, not about external things, but only about the heart.

Therefore, they wake up on their own, bravely change themselves, and ultimately live out a kind of wisdom and ability to rely on their own, in order to truly get rid of the expectations of external objects, and the dependence on outsiders.

And then, rely on yourself, and live out the sharpness.

Wake Up Yourself

I once heard my boss say: “Waking oneself up is a very difficult thing.”

In fact, one’s top level of wakefulness is to wake up oneself.

What is the significance of waking oneself up? It is that we are not as bad as we think we are, nor are we as good as we think we are.

Therefore, we need to bring a normal heart to deal with the ups and downs, ups and downs in the world.

Because only in the process of growth, constant challenges, and in the challenge of constant gain, in order to let their eyes open up, and let their heart become bold.

Eventually, out of the comfort zone, expand the cognitive boundaries of the self, in the ever-changing world, to find their own piece of blue sky, to strengthen the self, and stand firm.

People in this life, there is helplessness, there is impermanence, there is hopelessness, but for this inevitable existence, that also can not be predicted, the only way we can live well is to wake up, not be taken off course, and not get stuck in.

In the end, life is like the sea, all rely on self ferry.

The premise of self-transportation lies in knowing how to manage their own emotions, adjust their own state of mind, and come up with self-awareness, self-discipline, and self-control ability, the initiative will be firmly in their own hands.

The playwright George Bernard Shaw said:

“Self-control is the instinct of the strongest man.”

People in this life, we can not be able to change anyone, but we can control ourselves not to do something laborious and unproductive.

Then, stop in time, stay awake, and wake yourself up, so that you can make meaningful changes in time, in the midst of the variation to find a breakthrough in the cardinal points of life.

Change yourself

The only way to change yourself is to grow yourself and fulfill yourself.

Change lies in taking out the executive force to verify and trial and error over and over again, and then keep repairing, integrating, and applying.

In fact, in this era, there is no lack of information, no lack of knowledge, only a lack of executive power.

A lot of people, in the darkness, have long been obese of information, one to their minds to pour the fragmentation of the so-called knowledge, but always did not come up with the time to digest, to absorb.

In the end, the day is still confused to the extreme, life as usual a chicken hair.

Changing yourself lies in telling yourself to take action.

Su Shi once said, “The ancient great man, not only has the talent of the world, but also has the will of perseverance and perseverance.”

Only if you dare to pursue your dreams, only if you take out actions to learn, to practice, to simmer, to grind, eventually the world will secretly give you a reward.

Always believe that even if you fall to the bottom, self-deception is abandoned by the whole world, but also be brave to polish yourself and change yourself.

In this way, boil out a brave and unafraid of the momentum, to create a kind of perseverance and willpower, and struggle to belong to their own piece of heaven and earth, living free and easy, easy and spontaneous.

The Analects of Confucius has said:

“A gentleman seeks help from himself, while a villain seeks help from others.”

In this world, no one can change you, no one can always help you, unless that person is yourself.

Change yourself, in order to rely on their own hands to paint a better world, to have their own more marvelous future.

Changing yourself also lies in finding the right way forward, otherwise, you will only be more embarrassed the more you try.

Find the direction, constantly trial and error, and then filter out the correct life path, and then adhere to go on, in time, you will be able to change, sharply.

It’s all up to you.

The real inner maturity of the people lies in doing as Feng Zikai once wrote: “not chaotic in the heart, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, do not miss the past, so well.”

In this way, living out the true self, living out the big self, but also in the world of ego, cozy and open life.

Of course, one goes to the advanced level and reaches the noble life, which lies in one’s own experience, resources, and strength accumulated through cultivating oneself, polishing oneself, and improving oneself in the early stage.

Then, even if you need to rely on yourself for everything in the days to come, you are actually relaxed, calm, and unperturbed.

Napoleon said:

“There are not enough people to depend on, to survive you have only yourself to depend on.”

In the world, no path is repetitive, and sooner or later, no matter how close and friendly the relationship between people is, there will be a time when they separate and leave.

So, it is all up to you, to lower your expectations, in metamorphosing yourself.

In this way, they wake themselves up, change themselves, cultivate themselves, fulfill themselves, and ultimately can rely on themselves to move towards a life of fulfillment.

Hope this helps, thanks for reading.