Victim of male ambition

Family therapy is family therapy, so that a married couple comes to it together, with a willingness to figure things out together, with a willingness to withstand distance and closeness!

However, most often women come and more often in a situation where it is already “finita la commedia”.

But the problem is not the end of the relationship, but the illusions about it. ..it seems that if

- stand corrected,

- take the blame upon yourself,

- apologize,

- change your image,

- go to a psychologist, then… everything will return to normal…

He might come back, but definitely not his own…

Sometimes accepting the fact of the end is the best thing you can do…

Recognize and move on, with pain in your heart, with excruciating anxiety, with a set of compulsive actions on Instagram*, washing floors and eating candy.

But the truth is that it’s true, to sober up, to show options… to choose and move on in Life…

Here’s a concrete example…

And now they are 18 . She is the “star” of the faculty, and he is a gnome 1.56..

She told him “no! I’m a star”, and he gave her flowers, gifts, TIME.

Instead of studying, he has a “no” in the background — a dubious business… The first million.

The star shone.

at 20 , lives with her mother, during a pandemic she goes to the village alone “there voooozhduhhh”

And our gnome grows up at work, rides in her car, does business, picks up girls, finds a coaching guru and sincerely believes “I’m injured, I can’t have a family,” “no one can do business with a trailer (he’s the one with his wife and child),” “money loves singles”…

And the star is on maternity leave, the star is solving the child’s problems, the baby is not an easy one… and he doesn’t know how to listen, he doesn’t give him the right kind of support, sex is ordinary (it’s her 1st and only one), and now he has what’s out loud You can’t speak, otherwise they’ll sweep you away and put you in jail…

He wants Divorce, she wants Love.

What will we get? Family therapy turns into personal…

Personally, burdened by alcoholism and the early death of his father, a ban on tears, loss of interest in the profession, a child with difficulties and his only support — his mother…

And I’m sure the Star will cope, because although the body and psyche are torn by her husband’s ambitions, they still remember what it’s like when the audience applauds you, your friends adore you and your lips crave a kiss!