Unstable Union

Summary

The web page discusses the unstable union of people in relationships due to their unique, special, and different qualities.

Abstract

The content of the web page presents a reflection on the complexity of human relationships, likening it to the mystery of living together. It emphasizes the inherent differences among individuals and how these differences can create conflicts or conformity with the desires of others. The text suggests that these differences can be both a source of attraction and a cause for instability in relationships. It also critiques the modern approach to relationships, comparing it to the use of social media and dating apps, which can lead to superficial connections and misunderstandings.

Opinions

The text suggests that people often have conflicting desires, which can lead to instability in relationships.
It implies that people often find relevance where it doesn't exist, creating false expectations in relationships.
The text criticizes the use of social media and dating apps, suggesting that they have replaced meaningful connections with superficial ones.
The author believes that people are unique, special, and different, which makes living together a complex and mysterious process.
The text suggests that distance can make people realize the flaws in their relationships.
It implies that people often neglect those who are open to receiving them for not being part of their time.
The author criticizes the modern approach to relationships, suggesting that it has turned the most sagacious minds into ruinous dismay.

Unstable Union

Every illusion is sweet, to the point that the taste comes to one’s mouth, to the point that we revere doubt as if it were something right in parallel with the extension of uncertain thoughts, a small part of us is reason, everything else is desire.

And if we have desires at different times, it is possible that the conflict or worse the conformity with the desire of another and the expectation of his. While one desires the body, libido and enjoyment, the other desires the breast, the bed, the comfort. There are those who will say: “I have lived all this”, others will say: “I would like to live this” and the desire conjugated in the first person of the singular will be singular, the verb conjugated in the singular does not meet the plural.

Funny how people find relevance where it doesn’t exist, make homes that don’t reside and decorate acts of courage that they never had, add to the pains and shameless acts they had for those who were unwilling and neglect those who are open to receive them for not being part of your time. Thankfully, they replaced the poison with Tinder and the Instagram photos, Romeo and Juliet with the romantic, rich and tender rapist, the mystery of flirting with a plaything that turns the most sagacious mind into ruinous dismay.

It is the prison deprived of emotional balance, of fasting pride, of the healthy body, of the most honest aspirations for the most disastrous souls. If we were not so liars, so false, so widely adaptable, we would make the image of people incomprehensible, the image of people unrecognizable, impersonal and infallibly equal, and they cannot be different. But we are names, colors, cultures, mixtures, flavors, beliefs. Finally, ideas that define us and make us unique and different.

These unique, special and different people have to live with other people as unique, special and different as they are, hence the unstable union of people so equal that they could only be different.

The great mystery of living together has to do with having lunch at a tannery, the other day a boy who works in a grocery store close to home told me that before working in the market, he worked in a tannery, but only now that he was away did he smell the horrible smell of the place when he passed by his old job. What makes us different is the distance and not the relevance of what we think when we see ourselves differently.