Unpopular Opinion: The High-Value Male Is A Myth!

Just another marketing tactic to make young men feel inadequate.

I’m sure if you have been on the Internet for the past few months you came across this new adage called the “High-Value Male”. If you haven’t just check out YouTube and see a ton of channels dedicated to teaching a young man or even a mature man like me how to become a so-called “High-Value Male”.

It’s surprising to me that there are so many men out there following these channels as if watching some Furu (Fake Ass Guru) is going to make you into some man that everyone will want to emulate. I have seen a few channels and I noticed that a lot of the stuff they are saying is more common sense than anything new.

Below, I will add my take on how this bullshit High-Value Man Myth is just another way for hucksters to make you buy their products and never really teach you anything.

I know I will get some hate from all those Red Pill, Incels, MGTOW whatever big toe you want, but I’m tired of people especially men spending hundreds of dollars on products that do not work.

There Is No Such Thing As A High-Value Male.

What is a High-Value Male? What makes a man a High-Value Male? They give you all these rules on how to become a High-Value Male and the people listening never once thought to themselves, how did this Furu get this information?

How did the Furu come across these ideas and do they work? I mean it's easy to put on a show on YouTube and act like you are the man and make people believe it, but are you actually that High-Value Man?

I hate when people put boundaries on themselves and act like someone else rather than act like themselves.

Humans are a complicated species and to say that to become a High-Value Man you need to do this and that because it's coming from your favorite Furu?

Fuck that!

In reality, life is not that black and white. We are all different in what we believe, what ideas we have, and what we have been exposed to, yet we aim to just fit in someone else’s mold. Why? Why not make your own mold?

You Already Know What You Need To Do To Become A High-Value Male.

Contrary to what you might see or hear on YouTube, you already have what it takes to become a High-Value Male. The issue for many of you is that you do not want to put the work in or are not sure if your ideas are worthy.

First, let me assure you that with anything in life you will need to put in the work! You want to be a High-Value man? Then get out there and play the game of life rather than hide behind a screen or smartphone. I can guarantee you that when you are out here playing this “Life” game you will learn to earn your stripes as well as what fits in your life and not what OTHER people tell you what you should be doing.

For me, from a very young age, I put myself out there. It was extremely hard for me since I was a shy kid growing up. But as I got myself into situations and events in my life it has helped me grow into the man I am today.

You want to have money? Be around people who have money and listen to what they say! You want to get into a career, then follow those who are already in a career and learn from them.

Quickly you will find as you get older that you already knew all of this shit these YouTube clowns are constantly promoting.

You Talk A Lot Of Smack, How Do You Know?

Just like you, I used to be a follower of the Red Pill way back in the days when it was still an underground scene. Back then, I began to follow them because it was all about mindset rather than the crap they are promoting now, which is nothing new and the majority of the stuff is all about getting women and treating women like shit and making men believe that they can do miraculous things even though their lives ain’t shit.

So, go ahead and wear funny hats and apply mean psychological tactics to get laid, soon you will discover that it's all bullshit in the end.

Trust me, my dudes! The only way to become a High-Value Man is by gaining experience; life experience there is no quick way about it.

You want to meet Women? Then talk to them. You want to make money? Then get into a career or start your own business! You want to be fit? Then go to the gym!

You see what I’m saying!

These are things and ideas that you already know! No need to buy some e-book or course to learn this when you already know it.

In Closing…

Forgive me for being harsh, but it needs to be said. You DO NOT NEED some YouTube clown telling you that you do not have what it takes to be a man! You have what it takes and then some.

The issue is that many of you are either stuck or do not have a clue on how to proceed. Like you, I was in the same position but I still moved forward and out of my comfort zone. Sometimes I won and most of the time I failed and I have the scars to prove it.

Be your own “High-Value Man”! Make your own rules and live your life the way you want to live it. Don’t worry about making mistakes because you will and you will make many. As you get older you will realize that you are comfortable in your skin and all these rules are just crap!

I’m 50 right now and I can tell you that I’m happier now than I was when I was in my 20’s. I figured out life and my role in it because I played in it, every day of my life. You will need to do the same and as you grow you too will look around at 50 and be like I love my life.

Remember, life is meant to be lived your way!