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As the youngest sister to seven brothers, all their friends, and later as a military spouse — I’ve always been surrounded by males. I don’t find males mysterious or hard to talk to or understand.
As the mother of three amazing young men — I know a thing or two about talking to boys and men. We need good men!
The media is targeting young and not-so-young men who are “involuntarily celibate” with a label and programming — but absolutely no solutions. Men aren’t complicated.
That’s vile and intentionally targeting an entire swath of unsuspecting men.
To counter-program the torpedo of destruction the Right-wing media is telling men — I’d like to offer a heaping dose of good common sense to the men out there from an experienced sister, mom, aunt, and friend.
Common sense and deodorant are readily available but seldom used by those who need them most.
Buckle-up buttercup, you’re holding the one article that can actually change your day.
The “Involuntary Celibate” Label Sucks
It means you’re not getting laid, and you’re probably pissed about it.
I can’t promise this advice will get you laid, but I can say that women won’t be repulsed by being in the room with you, and for many — that’s a hell of a first step!
I won’t coddle you here. If you’re serious about changing your life, you’ve got two options: tickle it with a feather and blame everyone else, or go full-on Hulk mode with a sledgehammer.
If you need a feather — I’m probably not what you want to read.
Your choice will reveal just how determined you are.
For those still reading — let’s dive in.
- Don’t be a dick.
- Just because you have a dick, don’t mention it, bring it up in conversation, and don’t point to it or constantly adjust it. That makes you look stupid to girls, women (and everyone). You were probably told not to pick your nose in public. Here’s your notice not to adjust your balls in public.
- It’s excellent to know some things; pretending to know everything makes you look like a dumbass. No girl (or boy) wants to make pillow talk with a know-it-all. Trust that!
- Humility is handsome. Cute is for dogs and puppies. Handsome comes from within.
- Cockiness is another word for bravado, fake and inauthentic. Don’t be these things, if you want friends. If your friends act this way, look at them — it’s unattractive.
- Badboys may get the girls — but they don’t know how to keep them.
- Be authentic. Be real. Don’t be fake about anything! Don’t borrow your parent’s opinions. Know who you are, what you stand on, and why.
- Misogyny is gross. No man should get more pay, better discounts, or unqualified advancements just for being a man — just like women shouldn’t be denied discounts, qualified advancements, and equal pay simply for being a woman.
- Recognizing and promoting equality benefits others and enhances your own worth. By valuing and uplifting others, you contribute to a more inclusive society where everyone’s intrinsic value is acknowledged and celebrated. And that, my friend, is truly empowering.
- Confidence is SEXY! Be confident in what you do know. Always be on the lookout to learn more and be more authentic. Your confidence will grow, and so will your sexiness.
- And always use deodorant! Always.
In closing, remember this fabulous quote by Emily Maroutain, You’re not stuck.
You’re just committed to certain patterns of behavior because they have helped you in the past. Now those behaviors have become more harmful than helpful. The reason you can’t move forward is because you keep applying an old formula to a new level in your life. Change the formula to get a different result.
What you’re looking for is not out there — it’s inside you!
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