Trying To Win Others Over Is A Game You'll Never Win

Let people hate you for whatever reason they hate you for

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“You will never win at the game of trying to please everyone. Trying to “win” others over is a game only “losers” play.” — Maxwell Jordan

And hey, I get the idea of just wanting to be friendly and not an ass like everyone else.

The world is full of so much negativity; why add to it, right?

I hate being that “rude dude” to someone because you don't know what they have been through.

You don't know if your one smile can change their day for the better, and it doesn’t cost us anything to be nice to someone.

But there are some people out there who are not like this.

Some people out there assume, by the mere virtue of being themselves, that they are to receive all that is good in this life, and it “best be” served to them on a silver platter.

There are people out there who believe they have every right to throw temper tantrums, criticize those around them, use, hurt, and demand of others — and that people should try and win them over if they seem like they hate them.

And how ludicrous is this?

These legions of ordinary people, have this insane idea that people should work to make them like them — and they will dare get upset when others are not trying to win them over.

These are people who do nothing extraordinary yet think they deserve extraordinary treatment.

Stop and ask yourself this.

Why must you waste your time thinking about why someone you just met hates you?

What is the point of working to win someone over in a game that you didn't ask to play?

If someone hates you for whatever reason, they hate you, accept it.

Trying to win others over wastes time, energy, and self-respect.

Nobody should ever be so special to you that you give up your time trying to get them to "like you."

If someone is racist, OKAY!

Let them be racist and move on. This is 2022; if you have a racist boss or co-worker, just start your own business and be what they can never be.

A self-sufficient person.

If someone hates you because you are a man (and let's stop with toxic masculinity being the ONLY harmful gender), OKAY!

Let these "feminists" hate men.

When they get in their 30s to 40s, and their worth depreciates as badly as the US currency (Heyoooo), and our value appreciates as we begin to earn more and become wiser men, they'll regret wasting their years hating and following an ideology that duped them into wasting their lives.

Once they hit the wall, GAME OVER.

(I am talking about TOXIC FEMALES, not women.)

If someone is passive-aggressive towards you, trying to get you to lash out, OKAY!

Passive-aggressive people are just jealous and weak people who are trying to control and take you off your center.

You win against losers like this by not acknowledging them.

Playing this silly game of trying to win people over is a waste of time and a loss of self-respect — and it only fuels the idea to these "losers" that all they have to do is be a dick, and "others will try and win me over because I'm special."

No! No, they are NOT!

In this type of game, being a loser in their eyes makes you a winner in reality.

Stop trying to win people over.

Sometimes being hated for who and what you are is a win, not a lost.