Trans Joy and Finding it Through Schitt’s Creek
For me, it was finding something funny to watch. To some, it makes a big difference in their lives.
I have transwomen friends, and they have always been friends first, and I haven't been in touch with them as much as I want to, as there are still days when even I am trying to make sense of the last two years.
A few days ago, in the group chat where I reached out to my friends, we talked about the movies and TV shows everyone is watching. I felt good afterward, we weren't talking about our feelings or how we are coping, but my friends who happen to be writers and filmmakers are talking about what they love — movies.
One TV show stood out, Schitt’s Creek, and I am watching it right now, I love it, and I know I will finish all six seasons in the days to come.
Trans Joy
As I was looking for articles about Schitt’s Creek, I came across an article penned by Gwen Benaway.
She starts her story with how she has to fight against transphobia and discrimination, and she knows she isn’t alone, as most transwomen experience the same regardless of where they come from. One can only imagine how tiring life could be if you must muster the courage and strength every day to get through another day.
This brings me to a story that I have written repeatedly, which is about Jennifer Laude, a transwoman killed by a US Marine. Later on, the US government intervened on his behalf, and he is now back in the US after spending jail time with privileges in the Philippines.
Jennifer Laude didn't stand a chance, not for her to get the justice, she deserved when her life was cut short, and not from the public scrutiny that she had to be tried in absentia by people who are transphobic and by both the United States and the Philippines for failing to stand against a hate crime.
Most of us will never experience what transgender people experience daily, and some will not understand the pain these people go through. Some would say it comes with the territory once you choose to live the life of a transwoman, but to them, it isn't a choice, but it is who they are.
I think joy is more essential to our survival and wellbeing in the world than is often recognized. — Gwen Benaway
I can’t agree more. It is helping us get through the last two years of uncertainty. I realized that I have to find joy in the things around me or the people around me because we don't have a lot to work on these days.
It is important to find your tribe, people who like the same things. For the transgender community to be with the same people, it is easier to find what is similar rather than explore our differences. The chances of finding joy are easier when we are with people like us.






