To Men Who Eat Pussy, You Guys Are “Real Deal”

The problem with the orgasm gap cannot be resolved until we talk about it.

When it comes to sex and women’s sexuality, no celebrity takes the stage more than Christina Aguilera. She advocates women’s agency and encourages us to take control of our bodies and sexuality.

She’s so good at giving sex tips and she has opened up about her private life too many times during interviews. She brags about receiving four orgasms in different parts of her vagina.

Just recently, Christina advised her fans to swallow chunks of cum as much as they can because it contains a lot of protein. She said there’s nothing more relaxing than a man’s sperm.

Yep! She said it.

And I agree with her. You see, I can’t imagine having sex without swallowing cum. I even add it to my recipe that if I’m not eating you, and you are not eating me, then we are not f*ckin. Yeah! I say it plain and simple. You can’t have me do the work in pleasuring you and then you leave me hanging. Nah…nah…nah…nah! I refuse.

Not many women can be as bold and brazen on air as Christina Aguilera. In fact, the culture of eating dick is one of women’s favorite recipes and some of us don’t bat an eye doing it.

What’s funny is that most men like having their dick eaten but won’t give their women the same satisfaction.

Even worse, they say is disgusting to eat a woman’s cunt. While some say it’s a taboo.

I met one of those unfortunate souls. He was all modest and polished so I thought eating my pussy won’t be a big deal. Imagine my surprise when he gave me that tenacious look as if I was speaking gibberish.

I don’t get why some men find it obnoxious to eat a woman’s pussy but won’t mind penetrating her when she’s menstruating?

And we women, we don’t see the big deal in giving a blowjob. Even if you have a 2-inches dick or watery sperm, we still eat you and make sure you are satisfied.

Anyway, regardless of the few who don’t eat pussy, many men do and they say is the appetizer of all cuisines.

To grandiose the whole thing, 50 Cent has a message for men who don’t eat pussy. He said, “Y’all should go kill yourselves.” And he is not alone in that thought. Men on Facebook went ballistic defending their love for women’s pussy.

Although 50 Cent’s comment triggered a lot of gay men, many women have confirmed this stereotype among men. Like they are all in about any sex positions, they can bang you anywhere at any time of the day, and they will finger you and do all sorts of crazy things with you, but their mouth or tongue won’t get in there.

There is nothing wrong with going down on your partner and giving them the orgasm of their life. It will only increase your bond and also introduce some tension into your sex life.

Oral sex can be viewed as a romantic way to express love for each other. It’s a great way to get close to someone and find out what turns them on.

Problem with orgasm gap

Most women orgasm through cunnilingus (pussy eating) more than penetrative sex. But due to ingrained sexism and objectification of women, men are seen as weaklings for pleasing a woman rather than using them for their own pleasure.

Research studies indicate that “men find pleasure in giving oral sex more than women.“

The same statistics prove that heterosexual women do not orgasm as much as partners in other sexual orientations. This could be because their men aren’t putting the effort into pleasing them.

What’s interesting about the finding is that more men than women said that giving oral sex was “very pleasurable,” which should be comforting to women who don’t have the courage to ask their partner to get down on them.

Despite the pleasure men enjoy from giving oral sex, far too many men shy away from reciprocating oral sex, which can be a problem in the relationship. Because you are leaving your woman, high and dry to suffer sad, orgasmless sex.

It’s a small setback in gender equality. While the orgasm gap isn’t as important as the gender pay gap, or the culture of rape or honor killings, it’s important because women’s sexual pleasure matters. And maybe, just admitting that there is an oral sex gender gap will be a start to finding a solution.

Imagine how happier the world would be if there were more orgasms. Fixing this one thing could make relationships last longer.

Men find pleasure in eating pussy more than women

Many guys see oral sex as a short pit stop on the road, rather than a main destination, so they don’t put much effort into honing their skills.

However, it turns out that some guys don’t just love giving oral sex, they are obsessed with it.

The myth that many men won’t perform oral sex on a woman unless she’s completely shaved down there, or that they do it out of obligation doesn’t stop men from enjoying the pleasure of eating, licking, and sucking a woman’s pussy.

They eat pussy out of reciprocation. With age comes maturity. Men feel a sense of reciprocating what they receive as they get older. Making women feel good makes them feel good and vice versa.

Oral sex helps build a stronger intimate bond. Getting to know a vagina up close and personal is an extremely intimate act. That intimacy often results in the rest of a sexual encounter, which can improve a couple’s overall chemistry.

“Going down on a woman is awesome. Especially when the sexual, physical and spiritual connection is there, it’s like two bodies connecting and expanding into a universe of sensation. It’s just all-around awesome.” — Alan, 33

Men get turned on pretty hard when they give oral sex. They enjoy seeing the woman moan in pleasure and an oral job does wonders for her. The sounds, the smell, the way she moves, and the overall pleasure she experiences heighten their arousal.

Since women take longer to orgasm than men, their arousal builds up which helps them orgasm quickly. If the woman is not in the mood for sex, getting your tongue down there can get her excited.

Oral sex before intercourse can significantly improve both partners’ experience. By attending to her hotspot, many women may be more open to trying other new things during a sexual encounter.

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