Three and Out Dating

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m_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure>1. Tell him or her why you don’t like this rule.Let your partner know why you don’t believe that three months is enough time to determine the longevity of your relationship and ask him or her why he or she think that this timeline is necessary. Listen to what he or she has to say about this, and let him know if you don’t want to abide by this rule.<figure id="406e"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*KDidEaMjcqas5o3l"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@tolga__?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Tolga Ulkan</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure>2. Compromise on a new determinant.Talk to your partner about changing the timeline or getting rid of the timeline completely if that is what you feel like you need in order for the relationship to flow smoothly. Try your best to compromise with your partner on a new way to determine the success of your relationship. Let your partner know what your expectations are in implementing this new rule and ask him or her what his or her expecta

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tions are so the two of you are on the same page.<figure id="273b"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*P1YnjXmI6_N5BfvU"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@masonkimbar?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Mason Kimbarovsky</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure>3. See how things go.Reflect on your journey now that the three month rule has been changed. Are you more comfortable with your partner? Have the two of you grown closer? Is there less pressure to bond? Are things moving forward more smoothly? Talk to your partner about your insights regarding this change and see how he or she feels about it.If your partner has a rule that he or she only dates a person for three months before deciding whether or not to move on to the next relationship and you don’t agree with it, then talk to your partner. Let him or her know how you feel, and see if there is a way to compromise on a different approach when it comes to your relationship. If the two of you do decide to use a different approach, then reflect on how this new tactic affects your relationship.</article></body>

There are only three chances to make this work.

You might be dating someone and though you really like him or her, he or she might have the rule that if the relationship is going to grow, it should do so within three months. This might be a rule that he or she has used during most of his or her dating life, but you might not agree with that approach. So, how do you let your partner know that your are not comfortable with the three month rule? How do you approach this situation? Though the answers to these questions might be different for everyone, here are a few suggestions.

1. Tell him or her why you don’t like this rule.

Let your partner know why you don’t believe that three months is enough time to determine the longevity of your relationship and ask him or her why he or she think that this timeline is necessary. Listen to what he or she has to say about this, and let him know if you don’t want to abide by this rule.

2. Compromise on a new determinant.

Talk to your partner about changing the timeline or getting rid of the timeline completely if that is what you feel like you need in order for the relationship to flow smoothly. Try your best to compromise with your partner on a new way to determine the success of your relationship. Let your partner know what your expectations are in implementing this new rule and ask him or her what his or her expectations are so the two of you are on the same page.

3. See how things go.

Reflect on your journey now that the three month rule has been changed. Are you more comfortable with your partner? Have the two of you grown closer? Is there less pressure to bond? Are things moving forward more smoothly? Talk to your partner about your insights regarding this change and see how he or she feels about it.

If your partner has a rule that he or she only dates a person for three months before deciding whether or not to move on to the next relationship and you don’t agree with it, then talk to your partner. Let him or her know how you feel, and see if there is a way to compromise on a different approach when it comes to your relationship. If the two of you do decide to use a different approach, then reflect on how this new tactic affects your relationship.