This Remarkable Thing Your Brain Does When You Have Purpose in Your Life
A simple test to prove it works

Who the hell am I to be telling anyone about having a purpose in their life?
I’ll tell you — I’m the last person.
Do you know who should be telling you?
You. That’s who.
You do know what your purpose in life is — don’t you?
It happened again
I was on the holiday of a lifetime. I was having so many new experiences. Every day was different. Every day was more fascinating and more exciting than the last.
Bang!
One phone call and my world collapsed.
For the last two weeks, I have wandered this earth not knowing what my purpose is — what’s the point?
I’ve had a vague notion I should be doing something. But I’m not compelled. Not engaged. Not interested. Not in the mood. Not here.
Staring at a blank space.
Then I remembered
This simple test. How it helped me before. How it proved itself. How I know for sure that having a purpose in life is so vitally important for our success.
It’s a simple test.
You can skip it, skim it, or skelp it into orbit — but if you do you will miss the point.
- Stop reading for ten or twenty seconds.
- Turn your chair around and look at your room.
- Memorise the position of anything that is black in colour — and do that before reading on.
Okay. You are either reading on without having tried it or you have carried out the test and are now eager to see where this is going.
- In a moment, close your eyes.
- Picture your room.
- How many objects can you remember that are yellow or red?
Most people will find this a difficult task. You will have searched your room for black objects and because that is your purpose, that is what your brain has focused on.
Scientists call this our Reticular Activating System (RAS). This is responsible for our wakefulness, our ability to focus, our fight-flight-freeze response, and how we ultimately perceive the world.
Although your eyes have passed over all objects in the room your brain stuck to the task of looking for black objects. It ignored the unimportant stuff.
If you have a purpose, your brain automatically filters out unnecessary information so the important stuff gets through. This varies for everyone, it’s personal. Your brain is geared towards noticing what is important to you.
If you own a red sports car, you notice every red sports car that passes. If you ride around in a beat-up truck with your dog.

You aren’t going to notice a red sports car, but you will pay attention to the dog on the footpath that is the same breed as yours. That is what is important to you.
There is too much information out there for our brains to notice everything. So your RAS filters out the background noise and highlights what is useful and important.
When you read the newspaper, you skim almost everything until your attention is taken by something relevant to you: A share you own has gone up in price, the team you support is sacking its manager, the laptop you want is on sale.
Your brain dutifully spots all the information you have deemed important. It works in the background: The answer to the crossword clue suddenly comes to you when you are doing a mundane chore.
Set your brain on course to find the right answers or the right opportunities and your RAS will help you spot these when they come along. If you have a strong purpose in life, everything relevant to that purpose will pop into your consciousness like magic.
To use your brain to your advantage you need clarity of purpose. It will assist you in spotting all the opportunities you deserve, but only if you are clear about what you want. You have to set it in action.
Untying the knot in your heart
I’m putting my energy into identifying my new purpose. I have stopped writing — what do you mean you didn’t notice?
I’m reading. I’m meeting family and spending time with them. I’m talking to friends. I’m walking my dog further. I’m taking my time. Savouring the important stuff. And I’m thinking.
I’m building my new purpose.






