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w.verywellmind.com/fear-of-vulnerability-2671820">Verywell Mind</a></p></blockquote><p id="2cf1">The fear of being vulnerable is a common fear among creators, isn’t it?</p><blockquote id="17d6"><p>To combat the fear of vulnerability, you must first learn to love and accept your whole, authentic self. <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/fear-of-vulnerability-2671820">Verywell Mind</a></p></blockquote><h1 id="1450">What’s Niharikaa’s story all about?</h1><figure id="6f37"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*ND65QCrCSzf7P_ujyc_Q8w.png"><figcaption><a href="https://twitter.com/NiharikaSodhi/status/1455964672369168386">Niharikaa’s Twitter account</a></figcaption></figure><p id="007b">It’s a bittersweet before and after comparison from Day 1 to Day 45.</p><p id="f231">She had to undergo surgery.</p><blockquote id="da35"><p>I still remember the first day I could stand, it felt like I’ve achieved something monumental.</p></blockquote> <figure id="b529"> <div> <div> <img class="ratio" src="http://placehold.it/16x9"> <iframe class="" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?type=text%2Fhtml&amp;key=a19fcc184b9711e1b4764040d3dc5c07&amp;schema=twitter&amp;url=https%3A//twitter.com/niharikasodhi/status/1455874015822696449/photo/1&amp;image=https%3A//i.embed.ly/1/image%3Furl%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fabs.twimg.com%252Ferrors%252Flogo46x38.png%26key%3Da19fcc184b9711e1b4764040d3dc5c07" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="281" width="500"> </div> </div> </figure></iframe></div></div></figure><h1 id="a415">400+ comments and 10K engagement</h1><p id="753e"><a href="undefined">Patricia Rosa</a> (she has a painful cracked rib) together with hundreds of others could relate to the author’s story.</p><p id="3074">I can imagine <a href="undefined">Carol Townend</a>, <a href="undefined">Michael Shook</a> <a href="undefined">Juana Flor</a> (who‘s playing it save :)) <a href="undefined">T Mann</a> and <a href="undefined">Natasha Israni</a> can relate too.</p><p id="9f40">Top writer Niharikaa is remarkable. Many are amazed by her courage and resilience.</p><h1 id="fbab">She even build a digital product and launched a pilot project within 45 days</h1><p id="78d3">I am glad Niharikaa kept being productive, instead of giving in to self-pity.</p><p id="e498">Within 45 days, she even build a digital product and launched a pilot project called ‘Summit21’ which I’m part of now.</p><blockquote id="cbe9"><p>In the last 45 days, I’ve:

  • realised who my true friends are
  • have tolerated much more pain than my tolerance
  • finished a few seasons of Netflix series :P <b>- built a product
  • launched a pilot run of a potential business</b></p></blockquote><h1 id="ecc4">Final Takeaways</h1><p id="720e">You’re only flesh and blood, like anyone else.</p><p id="050e">Writing isn’t all rainbows and sunshine. If you dare to be vulnerable and even show your face this can be a growth opportunity and lead to the best stories.</p><p id="d179">Your words can change your readers’ lives and mindset forever.</p><ul><li><b>Dare to get at least a little vulnerable</b>

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</li><li><b>Even share stories you’re nervous about.</b></li><li><b>Take the leap to get your words into the online world.</b></li><li><b>Don’t let your anxiety hold you back.</b></li><li><b>Try over and over again to push yourself through self-doubt and anxiety… and press publish.</b></li></ul><p id="4a49">I’m sure Niharikaa feels heard and seen now and her touching story has the potential to change the life and mindset of many people.</p><blockquote id="2e10"><p>If you’re reading this, take this moment to be grateful to have a functional body. <a href="undefined">Niharikaa Kaur Sodhi</a></p></blockquote><h1 id="9d65">Tell me your thoughts.</h1><p id="0842"><i>© <a href="https://kristinagod.medium.com/"></a></i><a href="https://kristinagod.medium.com/">Kristina God</a></p><div id="7c59"><pre>👉 Join Kristina<span class="hljs-symbol">'s</span> <span class="hljs-symbol">'Online</span> Writing <span class="hljs-number">101</span>' newsletter 📨!</pre></div><div id="a4ed"><pre>👉 New <span class="hljs-selector-tag">to</span> Medium? Become <span class="hljs-selector-tag">a</span> Medium member and support her!</pre></div><h1 id="9445">Here’s her LinkedIn story and her story on Medium:</h1><div id="5ec4" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-pain-of-my-first-surgery-led-me-to-ask-these-3-life-changing-questions-3681e96dc957"> <div> <div> <h2>The Pain of My First Surgery Led Me to Ask These 3 Life Changing Questions</h2> <div><h3>And they can help you through the hardships of life.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*SiTQITbM6RBnm27d)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="0a87" class="link-block"> <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6861692391691223040/"> <div> <div> <h2>Niharikaa Kaur Sodhi on LinkedIn: #sprinterstribe #summit21 #beforeafter | 429 comments</h2> <div><h3>Day 1 vs Day 45. The picture on the left is from the lowest point of my life, after my ACL reconstruction surgery in…</h3></div> <div><p>www.linkedin.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*B2YNgpkUti3F-7bp)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="2f28" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-secret-to-a-100-read-ratio-f4a930773c15"> <div> <div> <h2>The Secret To a 100% Read Ratio</h2> <div><h3>You’re only flesh and blood, like anyone else</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*HWe7Qfc7k_Ii5bj8r_Xvwg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

This Post Reached Over 50K Views In Under 2 Hours

Anything is possible when you dare to share your toughest lessons, be vulnerable and leave your comfort zone

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I’m an avid follower of Top Writer Niharikaa Kaur Sodhi.

I’m part of her first cohort called ‘Summit21’ where we create articles on a daily basis to build momentum and share our lessons learned.

Even Tom Kuegler is part of it.

Today, Niharikaa shared with us a tweet where she linked to her LinkedIn profile.

Something is happening to my LinkedIn. Over 50,000 views in under 2h

I didn’t even want to post this because I was awkward about posting my own picture + being so vulnerable.

What’s vulnerability and how to combat the fear of being vulnerable?

Vulnerability is a state of emotional exposure that comes with a certain degree of uncertainty. It involves a person’s willingness to accept the emotional risk that comes from being open and willing to love and be loved. Verywell Mind

The fear of being vulnerable is a common fear among creators, isn’t it?

To combat the fear of vulnerability, you must first learn to love and accept your whole, authentic self. Verywell Mind

What’s Niharikaa’s story all about?

Niharikaa’s Twitter account

It’s a bittersweet before and after comparison from Day 1 to Day 45.

She had to undergo surgery.

I still remember the first day I could stand, it felt like I’ve achieved something monumental.

400+ comments and 10K engagement

Patricia Rosa (she has a painful cracked rib) together with hundreds of others could relate to the author’s story.

I can imagine Carol Townend, Michael Shook Juana Flor (who‘s playing it save :)) T Mann and Natasha Israni can relate too.

Top writer Niharikaa is remarkable. Many are amazed by her courage and resilience.

She even build a digital product and launched a pilot project within 45 days

I am glad Niharikaa kept being productive, instead of giving in to self-pity.

Within 45 days, she even build a digital product and launched a pilot project called ‘Summit21’ which I’m part of now.

In the last 45 days, I’ve: - realised who my true friends are - have tolerated much more pain than my tolerance - finished a few seasons of Netflix series :P - built a product - launched a pilot run of a potential business

Final Takeaways

You’re only flesh and blood, like anyone else.

Writing isn’t all rainbows and sunshine. If you dare to be vulnerable and even show your face this can be a growth opportunity and lead to the best stories.

Your words can change your readers’ lives and mindset forever.

  • Dare to get at least a little vulnerable
  • Even share stories you’re nervous about.
  • Take the leap to get your words into the online world.
  • Don’t let your anxiety hold you back.
  • Try over and over again to push yourself through self-doubt and anxiety… and press publish.

I’m sure Niharikaa feels heard and seen now and her touching story has the potential to change the life and mindset of many people.

If you’re reading this, take this moment to be grateful to have a functional body. Niharikaa Kaur Sodhi

Tell me your thoughts.

© Kristina God

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