This is truly excellent work Emily; people need to stop looking for someone to blame.

Then, it’s clear that the law of attraction is not victim-blaming. No blaming period. Do not victim blame and do not perpetrator blame. The whole situation was chosen to test one's reactions. That requires a soul to agree to play the role of perpetrator. In a past life, I have been a perp.

I have written about my breaking off relations with my father. Because of the blaming binary, my mother thinks I blame him for aspects of my life. False. It just is what it is. Cutting the cord from him is not blaming. It's spiritual growth. It's the flip side of law of attraction. It's a boundary setting that had to be as hard as I set it because a malignant narcissist with borderline tendencies will never respect another type of boundary.