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id="517c">Other times, I am looking to engage with the writer in the comments. This can also sometimes lead to ideas for new articles.</p><p id="bdd4">But if at any point I feel like my time is being wasted, I’m done. Medium is crammed full of content. I’ve got no time to waste on boring or badly-written articles.</p><h1 id="34e2">Too many Medium comments to reply to</h1><p id="f732">Some writers don’t bother engaging with their comments. This is a mistake. If one of my articles gets lots of comments, I consider writing a follow-up. Sometimes, a back-and-forth discussion provides enough material for a new article.</p><p id="c243">But sometimes, commenters can be troublesome time-wasters. It’s important to know when to stop if things are getting too personal or going around in circles.</p><h1 id="1c44">Too many ideas for things to write about</h1><p id="2c4a">I find it easy to come up with ideas for articles. And if I ever do get stuck, YouTube can be a great source of inspiration.</p><p id="7fd2">So, with limited time, what should I write about? Again, it’s all about priorities. When I’m writing, I want to feel excited about it. If not, it’s a waste of my time.</p><p id="3b52">I often remove reasonably good ideas from my list. Why? Because I know how easy it is to find something better. I also sometimes abandon articles during writing or editing, for the same reason.</p><h1 id="3ff1">Too many TV shows to watch</h1><p id="2f23">I don’t watch many TV shows. Usually, I like to watch them before bed, which is why I prefer comedy. I like to laugh and get into a good mood ready for sleep. So, I don’t tend to watch dramas or movies. Dramas are too serious for bedtime and movies are too long.</p><h1 id="8a6b">Too many podcasts to listen to</h1><p id="7fd3">There are two situations when I listen to podcasts:</p><ul><li>When I’m out on a walk</li><li>When I’m in bed</li></ul><p id="0548">If I’m out on a walk, I tend to prefer serious discussions. For example, Sam Harris or Jordan Peterson, or any podcasts about interesting facts.</p><p id="9785">If I’m in bed, I prefer something funny. For example, Richard Herring.</p><h1 id="4958">Too many things to do at the weekend</h1><p id="c8e8">I spend so much time in front of a computer, in my spare time I like to get outside. I also enjoy being on my own a lot, or with a small number of people. So

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, crowded indoor socialising is not something I’m not going to waste my time on.</p><h1 id="075b">Too many places to go</h1><p id="80e3">I like exploring the British countryside, or a nice town or city. I don’t need to visit everywhere in the world. I don’t need to travel far. I just need to feel like I’ve had a nice day out.</p><p id="e125">Sure, I’m not the most widely travelled person, but so what? Do I need to be?</p><p id="12d8">If I want to go somewhere very different to where I live, I occasionally visit London. <a href="https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/articles/populationestimatesbyethnicgroupandreligionenglandandwales/2019#:~:text=London%20was%20more%20ethnically%20diverse,%2C%20and%20Indian%20(7.0%25).">There are a lot of different ethnicities there</a>, so it has a far more multicultural feel than my town.</p><h1 id="a3a6">Too many people to meet</h1><p id="e974">I do like people, but in small doses, and the right type of people. I like kind people, gentle people, calmly happy people, artistic people, interesting people, and oddballs. I don’t like obnoxious extroverts or stupid people. I don’t like manipulative, spiteful or overly competitive people.</p><p id="9ff4">I don’t have time for everyone, but that’s fine. The few people I do have time for are enough for me. And when they’re not around, I get by okay on my own.</p><figure id="868d"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*rbiQ_MyQNfdDpLremyG15w.jpeg"><figcaption>(If you’re on the Medium mobile app, you may have to switch to a web browser to subscribe)</figcaption></figure><div id="a2a2" class="link-block"> <a href="https://edward-john.medium.com/the-5-laws-of-stupidity-according-to-italian-historian-carlo-cipolla-9f178d584147"> <div> <div> <h2>The 5 Laws of Stupidity, According to Italian Historian Carlo Cipolla</h2> <div><h3>#5: Stupid people are the most dangerous people on the planet</h3></div> <div><p>edward-john.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*cTbuDeL_lFYKNK9o_n4Wbw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

There’s Not Enough Time for Everything — But Here’s Why That’s a Good Thing

When time is short and we’re spoilt for choice, we can be choosy

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These days, I find myself constantly spoilt for choice:

  • Too many YouTube videos to watch
  • Too many Medium articles to read
  • Too many Medium comments to reply to
  • Too many ideas for things to write about
  • Too many TV shows to watch
  • Too many podcasts to listen to
  • Too many things to do at the weekend
  • Too many places to go
  • Too many people to meet

Priorities and time limits

There’s simply not enough time to do all the things I could do. Or even all the things I might want to do. So I figure out what my priorities are and then set time limits for them.

If I know I have a limited time to spend on something, I know I need to be choosy. Then, once the time is up, I leave the rest.

When looked at in this way, things become simpler. I’m less likely to feel overwhelmed or stressed. It’s just a fact that many lower priority things won’t be attended to.

Too many YouTube videos to watch

When I’m on YouTube, I want to be entertained or informed. If a video does both, that’s even better. I try to avoid videos that don’t do either of those.

Sometimes I also browse YouTube for ideas for Medium articles. But the same type of approach still applies. I ignore any videos that don’t fit with my goal.

Too many Medium articles to read

Like YouTube, my goal with Medium is to be informed or entertained.

But also, I am on the lookout for inspiration for my own articles. Sometimes I read something which sparks a related idea. I might then stop reading the article as it’s served its purpose already.

Other times, I am looking to engage with the writer in the comments. This can also sometimes lead to ideas for new articles.

But if at any point I feel like my time is being wasted, I’m done. Medium is crammed full of content. I’ve got no time to waste on boring or badly-written articles.

Too many Medium comments to reply to

Some writers don’t bother engaging with their comments. This is a mistake. If one of my articles gets lots of comments, I consider writing a follow-up. Sometimes, a back-and-forth discussion provides enough material for a new article.

But sometimes, commenters can be troublesome time-wasters. It’s important to know when to stop if things are getting too personal or going around in circles.

Too many ideas for things to write about

I find it easy to come up with ideas for articles. And if I ever do get stuck, YouTube can be a great source of inspiration.

So, with limited time, what should I write about? Again, it’s all about priorities. When I’m writing, I want to feel excited about it. If not, it’s a waste of my time.

I often remove reasonably good ideas from my list. Why? Because I know how easy it is to find something better. I also sometimes abandon articles during writing or editing, for the same reason.

Too many TV shows to watch

I don’t watch many TV shows. Usually, I like to watch them before bed, which is why I prefer comedy. I like to laugh and get into a good mood ready for sleep. So, I don’t tend to watch dramas or movies. Dramas are too serious for bedtime and movies are too long.

Too many podcasts to listen to

There are two situations when I listen to podcasts:

  • When I’m out on a walk
  • When I’m in bed

If I’m out on a walk, I tend to prefer serious discussions. For example, Sam Harris or Jordan Peterson, or any podcasts about interesting facts.

If I’m in bed, I prefer something funny. For example, Richard Herring.

Too many things to do at the weekend

I spend so much time in front of a computer, in my spare time I like to get outside. I also enjoy being on my own a lot, or with a small number of people. So, crowded indoor socialising is not something I’m not going to waste my time on.

Too many places to go

I like exploring the British countryside, or a nice town or city. I don’t need to visit everywhere in the world. I don’t need to travel far. I just need to feel like I’ve had a nice day out.

Sure, I’m not the most widely travelled person, but so what? Do I need to be?

If I want to go somewhere very different to where I live, I occasionally visit London. There are a lot of different ethnicities there, so it has a far more multicultural feel than my town.

Too many people to meet

I do like people, but in small doses, and the right type of people. I like kind people, gentle people, calmly happy people, artistic people, interesting people, and oddballs. I don’t like obnoxious extroverts or stupid people. I don’t like manipulative, spiteful or overly competitive people.

I don’t have time for everyone, but that’s fine. The few people I do have time for are enough for me. And when they’re not around, I get by okay on my own.

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