There’s Not Enough Time for Everything — But Here’s Why That’s a Good Thing
When time is short and we’re spoilt for choice, we can be choosy

These days, I find myself constantly spoilt for choice:
- Too many YouTube videos to watch
- Too many Medium articles to read
- Too many Medium comments to reply to
- Too many ideas for things to write about
- Too many TV shows to watch
- Too many podcasts to listen to
- Too many things to do at the weekend
- Too many places to go
- Too many people to meet
Priorities and time limits
There’s simply not enough time to do all the things I could do. Or even all the things I might want to do. So I figure out what my priorities are and then set time limits for them.
If I know I have a limited time to spend on something, I know I need to be choosy. Then, once the time is up, I leave the rest.
When looked at in this way, things become simpler. I’m less likely to feel overwhelmed or stressed. It’s just a fact that many lower priority things won’t be attended to.
Too many YouTube videos to watch
When I’m on YouTube, I want to be entertained or informed. If a video does both, that’s even better. I try to avoid videos that don’t do either of those.
Sometimes I also browse YouTube for ideas for Medium articles. But the same type of approach still applies. I ignore any videos that don’t fit with my goal.
Too many Medium articles to read
Like YouTube, my goal with Medium is to be informed or entertained.
But also, I am on the lookout for inspiration for my own articles. Sometimes I read something which sparks a related idea. I might then stop reading the article as it’s served its purpose already.
Other times, I am looking to engage with the writer in the comments. This can also sometimes lead to ideas for new articles.
But if at any point I feel like my time is being wasted, I’m done. Medium is crammed full of content. I’ve got no time to waste on boring or badly-written articles.
Too many Medium comments to reply to
Some writers don’t bother engaging with their comments. This is a mistake. If one of my articles gets lots of comments, I consider writing a follow-up. Sometimes, a back-and-forth discussion provides enough material for a new article.
But sometimes, commenters can be troublesome time-wasters. It’s important to know when to stop if things are getting too personal or going around in circles.
Too many ideas for things to write about
I find it easy to come up with ideas for articles. And if I ever do get stuck, YouTube can be a great source of inspiration.
So, with limited time, what should I write about? Again, it’s all about priorities. When I’m writing, I want to feel excited about it. If not, it’s a waste of my time.
I often remove reasonably good ideas from my list. Why? Because I know how easy it is to find something better. I also sometimes abandon articles during writing or editing, for the same reason.
Too many TV shows to watch
I don’t watch many TV shows. Usually, I like to watch them before bed, which is why I prefer comedy. I like to laugh and get into a good mood ready for sleep. So, I don’t tend to watch dramas or movies. Dramas are too serious for bedtime and movies are too long.
Too many podcasts to listen to
There are two situations when I listen to podcasts:
- When I’m out on a walk
- When I’m in bed
If I’m out on a walk, I tend to prefer serious discussions. For example, Sam Harris or Jordan Peterson, or any podcasts about interesting facts.
If I’m in bed, I prefer something funny. For example, Richard Herring.
Too many things to do at the weekend
I spend so much time in front of a computer, in my spare time I like to get outside. I also enjoy being on my own a lot, or with a small number of people. So, crowded indoor socialising is not something I’m not going to waste my time on.
Too many places to go
I like exploring the British countryside, or a nice town or city. I don’t need to visit everywhere in the world. I don’t need to travel far. I just need to feel like I’ve had a nice day out.
Sure, I’m not the most widely travelled person, but so what? Do I need to be?
If I want to go somewhere very different to where I live, I occasionally visit London. There are a lot of different ethnicities there, so it has a far more multicultural feel than my town.
Too many people to meet
I do like people, but in small doses, and the right type of people. I like kind people, gentle people, calmly happy people, artistic people, interesting people, and oddballs. I don’t like obnoxious extroverts or stupid people. I don’t like manipulative, spiteful or overly competitive people.
I don’t have time for everyone, but that’s fine. The few people I do have time for are enough for me. And when they’re not around, I get by okay on my own.

