The Ultimate Guide to Sexing Big Penis

A little tip on how to make the most of a bigger cock.

A friend once complained how his wife would give him oral sex but never penetrative sex. His wife said his dick was too big for her. It takes her four days to a week to recover whenever they have penetrative sex.

When I was dating my daughter’s father, his neighbor, a lovely, quiet guy, about six feet, always had an emergency whenever his girlfriend came over.

His girlfriend often passed out every time they had sex. I learned from my daughter’s father that his neighbor was very well endowed with a length of 27 inches and a girth of 5 inches. My ex acted as their auxiliary nurse. He would run to the guy’s apartment to resuscitate the girl when she passes out.

Some guys brag about her big cock like it’s a ticket to a female orgasm. Unfortunately, that is not the case. The average woman will prefer oral sex to penetrative sex if the cock is oversized. And by “oversize” I mean anything over 7 inches.

The average penis is said to measure 3.5 inches flaccid and 6 inches erect. According to a recent report, 45% of men were dissatisfied with the size of their penis, while 84% of women said they were satisfied with the size of their partner’s dick.

Many men are insecure or concerned about their size, and most seem to focus on length. But since the ‘G-spot’ is 1–3 inches into the vaginal wall, long dicks can be a turn-off for most women.

Do women prefer bigger penis?

I had sex with a guy who had what I’d describe as a cock masterpiece. It was so difficult to get it inside.

Every time we had sex, there was this awkward bit where we had to check if I was relaxed enough to get him in, then try more foreplay and apply lube, then check again, then foreplay and more lube, then check again.

It was frustrating. I was tensed up each time, and in the end, I never got to experience an orgasm with that guy. The highest I can take is 9 inches, or I’m out.

Giving a blowjob to someone with a hammer-sized cock is a real choking hazard. It’s harder to be versatile with positions and thrusting depth, while penetration can leave you sore.

Women prefer thick dick over long ones because thickness gives a feeling of fullness in the vaginal wall.

While, some women actually enjoy riding massive cocks, most women don’t. So if you are larger than your partner can handle, there are ways you can make sex pleasurable for you two.

First, you must get used to orgasming through oral or hand jobs. You can bring toys into the mix.

When you are penetrating your girlfriend, use a toy that will wrap around your shaft, so it feels as if you’re penetrating fully into her, then insert only the dick tips about two inches in.

The more she orgasms, the more her vagina walls expand. The vaginas is as deep as a penis, about 3 to 7 inches in depth. So if your girlfriend has a small clitoris, you may want to consider open relationship, so you do not bruise her cervix.

Practice kegel exercise

Kegel exercises improve blood circulation to the pelvic floor and vagina, and this can be helpful for arousal and lubrication.

Breathe in through your nose so that the air fills your abdomen. As you do this, consciously release your pelvic floor muscles so that they are not tense.

Exhale through your mouth while contracting your pelvic floor muscles. Make sure your breathing is slow and even.

As you breathe, try to keep your pelvic floor muscles contracted for three to six seconds. You can feel them getting tired.

Practice this for a few minutes every day. You want to be able to achieve that state of inner relaxation at will during penetrative sex.

Spend more time on foreplay

Foreplay prepares the body for penetration. A woman’s body usually takes a little longer to reach orgasm than a man’s.

Foreplay will help a woman’s clitoris rise, her cervix will rise and lengthen her vaginal canal, leaving more room for your dick, and her vagina will be lubricated, making sex more enjoyable and less painful.

Foreplay can help organize the moment so that everyone is happy.

More foreplay means more opportunities for your partner to experience an orgasm before penetration, leaving your bodies more relaxed and more open.

Avoid deep penetration sex

Women usually feel the pleasurable sensations at the entrance and the first two or three inches of penetration.

Deeper in, the vagina has no touch-sensitive nerve endings. Unless you hit the cervix, and that’s usually unpleasant or downright painful.

So avoid deep penetration positions like doggy style. Instead, try missionary, spooning, reverse cowgirl, side-by-side facing each other, woman on top to allow her have control of the thrusting.

Final thoughts

Not all women can have an orgasm just by having your penis in their vagina. In fact, only about 25 percent of women can climax without clitoral stimulation.

So don’t ignore the clitoris. And don’t be afraid to use sex toys with your partner. She could use one to stimulate her clitoris while you’re inside her vagina.

You can even make her have a G-spot orgasm in combination with a clitoral orgasm! That is something she will love.

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