Understanding

The Touch

Why Your Touch Now Doesn’t Feel The Same?

Love… What a great feeling.

There was a girl who fell in love with a nice boy.

The boy also loves the girl so much, but the boy lacks in expressing his feelings?

The boy and the girl both love each other like crazy.

The boy and girl both were working so, hardly get time to be with each other.

The boy works like crazy, like seven days a week. He was working 2–3 jobs at the same time. He has to support himself as well as his family too. Even the girl also has to take care of her family.

The girl wants to spend some time with the boy. So, when the boy is going from one job to another, the girl gives him company by train or bus and then she comes back to her home.

It was going on for one year.

A day came when they both decided to move in together to get more time with each other.

They got a beautiful house and decorated that house with love.

It seems like a happy ending story.

No, everything was perfect, but there was something that was not perfect.

The boy comes home in the night. The girl takes care of the house on her own.

The girl wakes up early to prepare breakfast, then go to work. The girl comes home from work, buys fresh vegetables, cleans the house, and cooks dinner.

The boy comes home late. The girl waits for him and serves him dinner.

They both come to the bed.

The girl waits the whole day to talk to the boy, wants to share what’s going on in her life, and wants to spend some time with him.

The boy watches some movies, videos or surfing his phone. She thinks that me-time is also essential, so the girl gives him that me-time as well.

Now it is 1:30 AM, the boy touch her and want to do sex with her. But why this touch doesn't feel good to her. She was waiting for him the whole day, and when he wants to come close to her, she says no.

She thought something is wrong with her. Why she doesn’t have the same feeling as before, she didn't tell the boy. However, she always denies it by saying she has to wake up early.

She searched on google that why this is happening. She is young, but why she can’t feel the goodness of love. It’s been one year now. She didn’t share this thing with anyone. She was so frustrated with what is going on. Is it she doesn’t love him anymore. She doesn’t want to accept this because she loves him. But the touch makes her uncomfortable. It was the same person, but the touch feels like a stranger.

The boy has a habit of giving a hug and a kiss in the morning when he goes to work. The hugs and kisses also irritate her.

One day, she decided to tell the boy about this. She said to him that now she can’t feel the touch. The touch irritates her. The boy loves her, so he didn't take it in the wrong way and tried to make conversation with her.

The boy asked her what is bothering her. He asked her is it something at her workplace, something at home, or did someone said anything. He was so concerned about her.

Now when he wanted to know what is bothering her, so he started spending time with her—taking her out. He tries to take a day off or half a day off to be with her.

It was missing—the feeling of being together, spending time together, talking with each other. Love is not F****** each other. Love is not complete with worldly things.

I visited the story girl last week. She looks so happy now and enjoying her life with her twins and her husband.

It is Love — being with each other, understanding each other, caring for each other and respecting each other. When someone comes into your life, we have to make a place for him. We have to spend time with them, love them, give them a feeling that they are unique. We should not take them for granted.

Now go out and spend some quality time with your loved ones. They don’t tell you because they love you and they know that you are busy.

Let’s share the journey together and help each other.

“Let’s rise by lifting others.”

Joy 😊