
The Top 10 Skills People Want to Learn in 2019 and How to Learn Them
Real data collected from the SkillUp your Life program
*Are you worried about what to do during the pandemic? Please read this comprehensive guide:
In previous articles, I’ve covered the 3 most important skills and 8 timeless skills to learn to thrive in 2019.
In this article, I’m covering the top skills people have reported wanting to learn from the SkillUp your Life program. For each skill, I’ll provide suggestions on how to break it down, how to learn it and some resources or ways to find resources to help you learn them.
Feel free to skip skills that are not of interest to you. Bookmark for future reference.
*Refer to Appendix A and B at the end for universal tips that will help you with any of the 10 skills.
**Disclaimer: The results are slightly skewed due to the fact that people who join the program mostly know me through Medium and sometimes use the skills that I learned myself as an example.
#10. Drawing
My definition: Illustrating an idea.
Drawing is an art form that takes many years of practice to become excellent at it. Luckily, this is a very broad skill that can easily be broken down. The smaller sub-skills don’t have to take too long to learn.
Sub-skills
- Sketching techniques (paper or software)
- Line art (paper or software)
- Colouring techniques (paper or software)
- Software usage (Photoshop, Illustrator)
- Pencil gripping
- Controlling line weight
- Faces, People, Creatures, Objects, Scenery
- Shading techniques
- Realistic, cartoon, caricature styles
- Technical drawing (Architecture, Electrical, Engineering, Structural, Scientific, etc.)
- and many many more!
My story with Drawing
Drawing was the first skill I decided to learn when I started the SkillUp method. It was the one skill that I’ve always thought that I couldn’t learn and wanted to prove myself wrong. And I did.
For the period of a month, I practiced for 30 minutes every day, following tutorials online, mostly on Youtube. I practiced sketching, line and colouring techniques exclusively in Photoshop.
My results were a lot better than I expected them to be.
How to learn it?
Since Drawing is a very broad skill, I suggest aiming to start learning the basics of any of the sub-skills above with about 5 hours of paced practice (~30 minutes per day). With good online tutorials and consistency, it’s surprising how fast you can become good at most of the sub-skills.
Resources
Free
- Youtube.com
- Search Engine search: how to do
or best way to learn
*I opted not to link to direct resources since things change so fast and most of the time it’s a matter of preference.
#9. Being More Productive

My definition: Making the most out of the 24 hours you have in a day.
This is an ambiguous skill since productivity is an “abstract” concept. The key metric to measure progress then is based on time saved and the quality and quantity of results accomplished.
Being more productive is not all about work. It’s about spending time doing what matters to you. That can be family/friend time, work time, entertainment, etc.
Sub-skills
- Clearly identifying your passion/purpose
- Clearly identifying your values
- Adopting a growth mindset
- Developing self-awareness
- Focusing
- Going into flow
- Getting the Limitless Effect
- Crafting SMART goals
- Truly understanding the Pareto Principle (80/20 rule)
- Using the Eisenhower Matrix
- Career planning
- Time management
- Learning to learn
- Having KPIs
- Mastering max speed on trackpad or mouse
- Typing faster on computer or phone
- and many more!
My story with Productivity
Ever since I’ve been working professionally in software development 13 years ago, I realized I had developed habits that made it so I was more productive than most people on a computer. I wrote an article on that a few years ago.
Years later, I developed more self-awareness and then I started to get a lot more done in a lot less time. It is then that I decided to start writing on Medium.com. The first topic I wrote about was productivity tips.
How to learn it?
I suggest starting with sub-skills that help you increase your self-awareness first. Learn how to identify your passion/purpose/values, learn how to adopt a growth mindset, and learn how to use the Eisenhower Matrix. The reason for this lies in a quote by Peter Drucker:
“There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.” — Peter Drucker
This is, in retrospect, probably the best advice one can get.
From there, you should really understand the Pareto Principle and apply it to almost anything you can think of. That and learning how to set SMART goals.
Now that you know all the basics to starts accelerating your productivity, you can start to be a little more specific.
If you use a computer a lot:
- Start by learning to use your mouse or trackpad at maximum speed
- Learn how to type faster without looking at the keyboard.
- Learn all the keyboard shorts of software you use frequently. And that of your operating system (Window, Mac, Linux).
When you start, you’ll be a little slower, but within less than one week, you’ll pick up the pace. Only by learning this, I’m usually 2–3x faster than 90% of people when using a computer. It pays to invest time in this.
Resources
Free
- Article: 34 Quick Tips for a More Productive 2019
- Article: Completely and Consistently Smash Your Goals with The Limitless Effect
- Article: Smart Goals
- Article: Eisenhower Matrix
- Course: Learning to Learn (free)
- Article: Pareto Principle
- Article: How To Move Around Your Mac At The Speed Of Light
Paid
- Tool: Limitless Calendar
- Book: How we Learn (affiliate link)
#8. Playing the guitar
My definition: Learning to play the instrument.
Playing the guitar is the most popular of the instruments people want to learn in the SkillUp your Life program. The guitar is used for so many songs and is a blast to play at friend and family gatherings. With so many different types of guitars, it’s not hard to find a sound you like.
Plus, learning the guitar shows you many of the basics to learn most strings instruments.
Sub-skills
- Guitar terminology
- Knowing all types of guitars
- Guitar playing styles
- Reading music sheets
- Holding the guitar
- Positioning and moving fingers
- The essential strumming patterns
- The 4 most popular chords
- Playing a specific song
- Playing a specific style
- and many more!
My story with guitar
Oh man, that’s an embarrassing story…
I’ve been meaning to learn to play guitar for years. In fact, in my life, I’ve owned two guitars. I even have access to one in Colombia right now. I’ve never had the patience to learn it. I tried on my own many times when I was younger, but back then the resources were not as accessible. You either found a teacher or tried really hard from tabs on the internet (at 56k speed).
When I met my wife when I was 17 years old, I thought I’d be cool if I had a guitar. Little did she know that I couldn’t play it at the time haha. Nonetheless, I was “cool”. :)
How to learn it?
Because I don’t currently know how to play guitar, the following is based on observations of how I saw other people learn it, based on research, and based on how I would likely approach it. If you’re a guitar pro, please correct me in the comments below!
Basically, the way I would learn it would be by following the list of sub-skills I listed above, in order.
I’d spend at most 1 week trying to learn the theoretical stuff (the first four), using apps like Anki to help memorize everything. During that time, I’d probably dabble in learning how to hold a guitar and how to move my fingers on it.
The next week, I’d practice holding the guitar, moving fingers and learning the essential strumming patterns while dabbling in the 4 most popular chords.
The next week, I’d try to become really great at the things I learned the week before. I would start looking for songs that heavily use the 4 most popular chords. Preferably looking at videos or tabs as opposed to music sheets (that is another beast in itself!).
The following weeks would be about practicing a variety of songs.
Resources
Free
- Video: Reading music sheet for guitar
- Video: How to hold the guitar
- Video: Learn the 4 most popular chords
- Video: Fingers, Fret, and Strings
- Video: 5 Essential Strumming Patterns
- Article: Guitar terminology for beginners
- Article: 9 Types of Guitars Every Guitarist Should Know
- Article: How To Approach Playing Guitar In Different Genres
- Article: Choosing a Guitar Playing Style
- App: Anki
- Website: Tabs by Guitar Tabs
Paid
#7. Photography

My definition: Learning to use a camera to take good photos.
Photography is a very broad skill, much like drawing. More and more people are interested in photography due to the rise of smartphones and DLSR technologies. It’s now easier than ever to learn and is a great satisfying skill to both learn and apply.
Sub-skills
- Terminology
- Framing
- The rule of thirds
- Composition
- Reading the histogram
- Types of cameras
- Understanding the basics: Shutter Speed, Aperture and ISO
- Portrait photography (has many sub-skills)
- Landscape photography (has many sub-skills)
- Object photography (has many sub-skills)
- Action photography (has many sub-skills)
- Macro photography
- Long Exposure photography
- Photo editing in Camera Raw
- Photo editing in Photoshop
- Photo editing in Lightroom
- and many many more!
My story with Photography
I used to not care for photography at all. When I bought my iPhone 6 a few years back, it was the first time I was armed with a good enough camera. I started taking shots and playing around with them on various apps. I started enjoying it.
When I took a trip to Iceland, I decided I should probably step it up if I wanted to take beautiful photos. It turns out the little bit of research I did paid off and I started taking decent photos.
Then I travelled around the world for a year. I took over 15K+ photos on that trip. I got a lot better and people thought I was actually a photographer. So I decided to buy my first DSLR in India and continued the trip with it. I learned a whole lot.
I was later contracted to take professional photos of NGO operations for Sundara and the opening of a new WeWork location in Bangalore, India.
I’m learning portrait photography this month and will be practicing with these beautiful people: Carla Diaz, Diana Jabba, and Kevin Nguyen.
How to learn it?
The best 80/20 I found was to learn about the rule of thirds. You can learn that in less than 5 minutes and instantly, your photography is at least 2x better.
The rule of thirds is one of many framing techniques and it’s worth it to look into the other ones too. Many amateur photos are good but lack proper framing skills. Note that you can and should crop your photos during post-production to frame them better.
Another very important as aspect is to learn proper exposure. Learn what is perfect exposure, what’s underexposed and what’s overexposed. Learn to read the histogram. Learn to use that to your creative advantage.
Both of these things don’t require expensive gear. A DSLR helps for exposure, but you can expose a photo properly with a phone too.
For a month, practice a specific style you’re interested in. I started with landscape. In retrospect, I actually find it to be the hardest one to create photos that stand out.
When ready to purchase a camera, find one that comes with a lens that allows you to shoot the style you’re interested in. You’ll learn that, in most cases, the body doesn’t matter as much as the lens.
I’d suggest learning a new style only once a month. Focusing on one style at a time will give you enough practice to become good enough at it.
Resources
Free
- Article: 10 Tips for Taking the Best Photos at Any Event
- Article: 25 Common Photography Terms All Beginners Need to Know
- Article: Rule of Thirds
- Article: 10 Top Photography Composition Rules
- Video: How to read a camera histogram
- Article: A Simple Guide to the Different Types of Digital Cameras
- Video: If You’re Serious About Taking Better Portraits, Watch This
- Article: 14 portrait photography tips you’ll never want to forget
- Article: Lightroom Crash Course: Ultimate Beginner’s Guide To Lightroom
Paid
- Book: Scott Kelby’s Digital Photography Boxed Set, Parts 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 (I learned most of what I know from Scott Kelby’s books).
- Book: Mastering Exposure in Digital Photography
#6. Meditation
My definition: Learning to control the “quality” of your mind.
A lot of the world’s top performers have integrated meditation as part of their daily routine. There’s hardly a better way to get clarity of mind.
It can help you fall asleep faster, be less stressed, help you make better decisions, etc.
Sub-skills
- Understand the 7 basic types of meditation
- Breathing techniques
- Compassion and Love
- Body awareness
- Relaxation
- Lack of judgment
- Mantras (many sub-skills)
- and many more!
My story with Meditation
Meditation is one of those skills, like drawing, that I thought I would never be able to learn.
The problem back then was that I didn’t think of meditation as a skill, meaning I didn’t think I could learn techniques to meditate well.
I had the preconception that meditation was about not thinking about anything, therefore any time I had a thought, it frustrated me.
And I know I’m not the only one who thought that way. But it’s wrong.
Back in September, I tried meditation with a friend in Cambodia and failed miserably. It took me 4 months after that attempt to finally give it a go again. Once I had the right mindset and I consistently practiced, I actually became good at it.
How do I learn Meditation?
As a beginner, I strongly suggest guided meditation. I’ll list what has been most helpful for me in the resources section below.
What’s good about guided meditation is that it teaches you that it’s okay to have thoughts and guides you through a greater clarity of mind, which is what meditation really is about.
You learn to be aware of how your body and mind feel. You learn to relax, even when you feel like you’re too nervous to relax.
What’s important that a lot of people don’t realize is that it takes time to learn it. Don’t try once and leave. Meditate at least once a day for at least 10 minutes.
You’ll feel all types of emotions. In the beginning, I was bursting in laughter when instructed to count my breaths. Sometimes you’ll be frustrated. No matter the emotion, don’t let it go to your head. You have control over it. The more hours of practice you put it, the easier it gets.
It’s also important that you practice where you won’t be disturbed. And as a beginner, try where there isn’t too much ambient noise. Some people will tell you to sit to meditate but I started by laying in my bed, otherwise, I didn’t feel comfortable enough and concentrated on that.
So whichever pose they tell you to take, try it, but comfort is more important in my opinion, especially when learning.
Resources
Free
- Article: 7 Types of Meditation
- Article: UCLA’s Guided Meditations
- App: Insight Timer
Paid
- App: Headspace
#5. Spanish

My definition: Learning to use the Spanish language in multiples forms.
Did you know that Spanish is the world’s 4th most spoken language after Mandarin, English, and Hindustani? More impressive even, it’s the language with the second-most number of native speakers. In a way, it would make more sense for Mandarin and Spanish to be the universal languages.
Spanish is a most useful language to learn with 22 countries that have it has one of their official languages. Most in Central and South America.
Sub-skills
- Grammar
- Vocabulary (many sub-skills)
- Pronunciation
- Verb tenses (many sub-skills)
- Listening
- Reading
- Speaking
- Writing
My story with Spanish
I took a remote Spanish class back in college. This video summarizes what I learned really well:


