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aware of can not do that. As a result, a truly normal, decent job suddenly becomes boring to the point of death and you, as the person affected, wonder if you are still working at the right job.</p><h1 id="0c4c">Intelligent people tend to be loners</h1><p id="e39f">Have you ever wondered why, unlike most people in your life, you give so little value to the company of your fellow human beings? Well, that doesn’t mean you’re rude, and you’re not weird either. Rather, the <a href="https://www.spring.org.uk/2016/03/the-reason-smart-people-tend-to-be-loners.php">British Journal of Psychology</a> refers to a study in which participants between the ages of 18 and 24 were examined over the long term. The result of the psychologists was that <b><i>“It can be a sign of above-average intelligence if you surround yourself with only a few people”.</i></b></p><p id="7ade">On the one hand, this ensures that you do not allow yourself to be distracted by your future-oriented goals. This makes people happier, and intelligent people recognize this. On the other hand, people with high IQ ​​are less dependent on other people because they can adapt to change more efficiently. <b>Social connections are important, but intelligence makes them less necessary.</b></p><h1 id="0736">Intelligent people have trouble making up their mind</h1><p id="48fa">Extremely intelligent people find it difficult to make decisions. It’s just because you over-analyze. In their heads, they paint all the scripts for all the issues of life. It is weighed, pondered, rejected. The pros and cons of something become an existential decision, the view of the whole is lost, but also of the relations. Not every question is decisive for the war — unfortunately for the highly intelligent, it is. This leads to delays in the course of action. Answers to the discussion may also take a long time to come, because such a person never sees plain black and white, but takes into account all shades of gray.</p><h1 id="ea42">Intelligent people hate small talks</h1><p id="5032">While others may talk for hours about the weather, the last vacation, or other trivialities, small talk is a torment for extremely intelligent people. Not only do they find such issues boring, but they also don’t know what to contribute. You can think of countless pressing problems in this world that would be worth discussing. It’s not just about rolling over problems. Highly intelligent people like to exchange views on diverse and complex topics. They could exchange ideas about art and philosophy and really related things for an eternity… alone — ​​the interlocutor is missing. This makes them strange to others, sometimes even rude.</p><h1 id="700d">Intelligent people appear arrogant to others</h1><p id="6558">Those who are extremely intelligent can accomplish things that others couldn’t do in twice as long. This is not a crossword puzzle, but an extremely complex activity that requires complex solutions. While the team may have been working on a solution to the problem for a week, the talented person takes a quick look and casually says what the previous mistake was.</p><p id="4f30">If this happens, you may still suspect a hit. If this happens regularly, you know you are facing a crack. It gets really awkward when that person downplays their accomplishments and pretends to be nothing when in fact they’re amazing. If so, you are probably acting out of humility. However, others who are constantly struggling are envious and rush to confuse you with arrogance.</p><h1 id="2222">Intelligent people suffer from perfectionism</h1><p id="abb0">Looking past unnecessary mistakes or ignoring a half-hearted solution is difficult to impossible for intelligent people. They pay attention to detail, they can detect errors and do everything in their power to fix them. When they know that something can be done better, they do not compromise with a different result. Such perfectionism is exhausting and is perceived as negative by those around you — especially when it extends to the work and results of others.</p><h1 id="2b7b">Intelligent people get fired more often</h1><p id="b649">Some things should be kept to yourself, for example, that you are highly intelligent. Because very few people can handle such information well. However, envy and resentment are not only limited to colleagues but can also cause problems on the executive floor. Namely, when your constant efforts to optimize work pr

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ocesses become fatal. Competitiveness is common in many workplaces and if your boss, for example, feels that his chair is being sawn, this often results in termination.</p><h1 id="785e">Intelligent people tend to be lazy</h1><p id="5c26">Do you have to listen to yourself over and over again that you are too lazy and that others do a lot more? Researchers at the University of Florida Gulf Coast have discovered something interesting that you can happily smear on your circle of acquaintances. A <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1359105314565827">study</a> has <b>revealed that simply doing nothing can be a sign of increased intelligence</b>.</p><p id="a595">But it is important that the lazybones don’t get bored. Those who can consciously switch off from the stressful everyday life and have this <b>time to think</b>, have a lot ahead of active people. Those who do nothing get bored much faster. Of course, all of this can also be wonderfully combined with late sleeping intelligent people. While others are already snoozing exhausted, you take your time to relax and think.</p><h1 id="b352">Intelligent people sleep longer</h1><p id="82a4">Do you like to sleep a little more and don’t let your alarm clock disturb you? This could be another sign of your intelligence. A <a href="https://personal.lse.ac.uk/kanazawa/pdfs/paid2009.pdfirect.com">ScienceDirect study</a> points out that <b>ignoring the alarm clock and staying in bed for longer periods matches people with above-average intelligence</b>. This is almost logically accompanied by an <b>increased feeling of happiness</b>. Being able to behave the way you want will automatically make you happier. It’s certainly difficult to implement during the week — after all, you want to keep your job. But on weekends you can wake up late if conditions allow.</p><h1 id="9abf">Intelligent people are free spirits</h1><p id="ca33">Highly intelligent people hate ready-made structures. This dislike runs through all areas and so it is no wonder that highly intelligent people do not get along very well with hierarchies. They don’t like to have to follow complicated official channels when problems would be much easier to solve through short official channels. Especially not when the hierarchy must be maintained for the sake of hierarchy, to satisfy the vanity of high-ranking superiors. Instead of being given patterns and rules, they prefer to find new innovative ways — and in this way to offend their superiors. It is not uncommon for highly intelligent people to become self-employed out of frustration.</p><h1 id="2b6a">Conclusion</h1><p id="2e63">As you can see, it’s not really a shame if things seem chaotic, you swear now and then and don’t take socially acceptable hours of sleep so seriously. You might just be smarter than others!</p><p id="49b8"><b><i>If you enjoyed reading this, you might also like these:</i></b></p><div id="42eb" class="link-block"> <a href="https://forge.medium.com/why-black-and-white-thinking-poisons-your-perspective-1d99cef992d3"> <div> <div> <h2>Why Black And White Thinking Harms Your Perspective</h2> <div><h3>3 ways to avoid impulsive behavior in response to extreme feelings</h3></div> <div><p>forge.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*EoTCXAXWSDpTwN2I_YN1oA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="3731" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-you-can-boost-your-self-confidence-in-just-6-minutes-f427173cfa43"> <div> <div> <h2>How You Can Boost Your Self-Confidence In Just 6 Minutes</h2> <div><h3>17 tips that will skyrocket your self-esteem</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*7BP24Dtktv-l5L-Up4VMzA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="5ed5"><i>Access <b>unlimited high-quality </b>content on Medium by subscribing <a href="https://antonisiliakis.medium.com/membership">here</a>. Your subscription directly supports me and other writers you read.</i></p></article></body>

PSYCHOLOGY

The Surprising Downsides Of Highly Intelligent People

12 Signs You Might Be Smart — Even If It Doesn’t Feel Like That

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Discipline, order, punctuality, and a friendly demeanor are considered the cornerstones of success in this country. Only those who appear orderly, punctually, and eloquently are successful in life and therefore automatically also intelligent — according to the widespread opinion.

However, various studies have found that this does not have to be the case. Apparently intelligent people are prone to chaos, staying up late, and swearing.

Intelligent people tend to live in chaos

“Order is for idiots, genius can handle chaos”

-A. Einstein

At the very least, extremely intelligent people are often very chaotic. This is simply because they have so many interests. For fear of forgetting something, numerous notes, newspaper clippings, and the like are kept. Furthermore, it’s not uncommon for them to drop out of university.

One course of study is very interesting, but then the inclination to study another subject is discovered and that promises to be just as exciting. They find it difficult to concentrate and focus on one thing, instead, they keep getting bogged down in different areas. Disorder and chaos are signs of heightened intelligence according to the research of The University of Minnesota.

If your home or office space looks like an exploded garbage dump, it could simply be because you’re focusing on more important things. Important thoughts and ideas want to be studied and not get lost in constant cleaning struggles. In addition, clutter on the desk is supposed to promote creativity, which you could explain to your superior the next time you throw up chaos.

Intelligent people stay up late

The brain recovers at night during sleep so that someone can concentrate as desired again the next day. You know that but do you still enjoy sleeping late at night? At first glance, this may seem absurd and even silly, after all, many people go to bed between 10 p.m. and 11 p.m. on working days. But the opposite seems to be the case. For example, Psychology Today picks up studies showing those night owls are more intelligent than larks, i.e. they wake up early.

Churchill, Kafka, Obama, and many other famous people prove that nocturnal activity does not diminish success, creativity, and intelligence. So if you’re only getting into your creative workflow late at night and you’re not completely tired, then let it flow.

Intelligent people get bored easily

If you are extremely intelligent, you will get bored quickly — not only in superficial conversations with others but also at work. After all, this is a central characteristic of charisma; new information and activities are quickly perceived and implemented. But it also means that extremely intelligent people always need new food for their brains. They want to be busy and let off steam creatively. Normal activities that they are already aware of can not do that. As a result, a truly normal, decent job suddenly becomes boring to the point of death and you, as the person affected, wonder if you are still working at the right job.

Intelligent people tend to be loners

Have you ever wondered why, unlike most people in your life, you give so little value to the company of your fellow human beings? Well, that doesn’t mean you’re rude, and you’re not weird either. Rather, the British Journal of Psychology refers to a study in which participants between the ages of 18 and 24 were examined over the long term. The result of the psychologists was that “It can be a sign of above-average intelligence if you surround yourself with only a few people”.

On the one hand, this ensures that you do not allow yourself to be distracted by your future-oriented goals. This makes people happier, and intelligent people recognize this. On the other hand, people with high IQ ​​are less dependent on other people because they can adapt to change more efficiently. Social connections are important, but intelligence makes them less necessary.

Intelligent people have trouble making up their mind

Extremely intelligent people find it difficult to make decisions. It’s just because you over-analyze. In their heads, they paint all the scripts for all the issues of life. It is weighed, pondered, rejected. The pros and cons of something become an existential decision, the view of the whole is lost, but also of the relations. Not every question is decisive for the war — unfortunately for the highly intelligent, it is. This leads to delays in the course of action. Answers to the discussion may also take a long time to come, because such a person never sees plain black and white, but takes into account all shades of gray.

Intelligent people hate small talks

While others may talk for hours about the weather, the last vacation, or other trivialities, small talk is a torment for extremely intelligent people. Not only do they find such issues boring, but they also don’t know what to contribute. You can think of countless pressing problems in this world that would be worth discussing. It’s not just about rolling over problems. Highly intelligent people like to exchange views on diverse and complex topics. They could exchange ideas about art and philosophy and really related things for an eternity… alone — ​​the interlocutor is missing. This makes them strange to others, sometimes even rude.

Intelligent people appear arrogant to others

Those who are extremely intelligent can accomplish things that others couldn’t do in twice as long. This is not a crossword puzzle, but an extremely complex activity that requires complex solutions. While the team may have been working on a solution to the problem for a week, the talented person takes a quick look and casually says what the previous mistake was.

If this happens, you may still suspect a hit. If this happens regularly, you know you are facing a crack. It gets really awkward when that person downplays their accomplishments and pretends to be nothing when in fact they’re amazing. If so, you are probably acting out of humility. However, others who are constantly struggling are envious and rush to confuse you with arrogance.

Intelligent people suffer from perfectionism

Looking past unnecessary mistakes or ignoring a half-hearted solution is difficult to impossible for intelligent people. They pay attention to detail, they can detect errors and do everything in their power to fix them. When they know that something can be done better, they do not compromise with a different result. Such perfectionism is exhausting and is perceived as negative by those around you — especially when it extends to the work and results of others.

Intelligent people get fired more often

Some things should be kept to yourself, for example, that you are highly intelligent. Because very few people can handle such information well. However, envy and resentment are not only limited to colleagues but can also cause problems on the executive floor. Namely, when your constant efforts to optimize work processes become fatal. Competitiveness is common in many workplaces and if your boss, for example, feels that his chair is being sawn, this often results in termination.

Intelligent people tend to be lazy

Do you have to listen to yourself over and over again that you are too lazy and that others do a lot more? Researchers at the University of Florida Gulf Coast have discovered something interesting that you can happily smear on your circle of acquaintances. A study has revealed that simply doing nothing can be a sign of increased intelligence.

But it is important that the lazybones don’t get bored. Those who can consciously switch off from the stressful everyday life and have this time to think, have a lot ahead of active people. Those who do nothing get bored much faster. Of course, all of this can also be wonderfully combined with late sleeping intelligent people. While others are already snoozing exhausted, you take your time to relax and think.

Intelligent people sleep longer

Do you like to sleep a little more and don’t let your alarm clock disturb you? This could be another sign of your intelligence. A ScienceDirect study points out that ignoring the alarm clock and staying in bed for longer periods matches people with above-average intelligence. This is almost logically accompanied by an increased feeling of happiness. Being able to behave the way you want will automatically make you happier. It’s certainly difficult to implement during the week — after all, you want to keep your job. But on weekends you can wake up late if conditions allow.

Intelligent people are free spirits

Highly intelligent people hate ready-made structures. This dislike runs through all areas and so it is no wonder that highly intelligent people do not get along very well with hierarchies. They don’t like to have to follow complicated official channels when problems would be much easier to solve through short official channels. Especially not when the hierarchy must be maintained for the sake of hierarchy, to satisfy the vanity of high-ranking superiors. Instead of being given patterns and rules, they prefer to find new innovative ways — and in this way to offend their superiors. It is not uncommon for highly intelligent people to become self-employed out of frustration.

Conclusion

As you can see, it’s not really a shame if things seem chaotic, you swear now and then and don’t take socially acceptable hours of sleep so seriously. You might just be smarter than others!

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