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The Subtle Art of Foreplay — Bedroom and Beyond!

Ideas that will drive you up the hill with excitement.

If you're thinking before you start reading “It Better Be A Good Enough To Turn Me On.” I promise you that it will leave you satisfied to the core.

The Promo or so-called buildup to any event is always the best part. It’s always the trailer that leads you on to the main. And if it’s not catchy – doesn’t make you hold your breath for a second or pull your heart strings, it surely isn’t worth it.

Foreplay has and has to always be seductive in nature. By that I mean, in simple terms – it should be able to turn you on. Awaken the Cupid in you so that, whatever you do, wherever you do and whenever you do, you do it with love, passion and immense excitement.

To be done right, the buildup should be as good as the main event. And that is where the best ideas for foreplay are needed.

“You need that sexiness verve that will drive up your nerve.” — Geetika Sethi

Always remember, as that is what will give you a hard-on. A hard-on that is most needed to be successful in your game.

The planning of these ideas is indeed the best part. You really will need to think out of the box and develop a quirky sense too.

“Foreplay is art and the more you practice it, you shall perfect it”. — Geetika Sethi

The subtle art of foreplay is very enticing indeed.

It’s all about learning to be playful, sensual, naughty, quirky, exciting and sexy too.

Ahh! Are you thinking now that you need to shut your bedroom door to read this further? Hold On – you don’t, as this is no sex story, the one that will take you to your fantasy world.

Foreplay is not just for the bedroom and sex. It’s way beyond. Foreplay is what gets you going. Foreplay sets your engine running and it’s the little ideas of foreplay that enable it’s reviving.

The engine I talk about here is the mind. Always remember that a bright mind will always carry its own light. And such people are termed interesting for sure because they are passionate — passionate about what they do and what they believe in. They never miss an opportunity to tell their story.

Imagine yourself at an interactive event surrounded by new people. Such situations are always the make or break kind because if you respond to questions from acquaintances in just short, boring and few word sentences, you will shut the door of opportunity forever.

Let’s take an example… You — Dr Mehmet Yildiz are interviewing me on Medium and you ask

Dr Mehmet Yildiz— Hello! I’m Dr Mehmet, the C.O.O of ILLUMINATION. Glad to meet you Geetika Sethi . So tell me what brings you here and what do you do?

Now if I reply like…

Option A Geetika Sethi - I’m Good. Thanks. I’m a writer. ( _____________ Long silent pause comes straight after.) So, isn’t that the end of the conversation? The end to the start of what could have been a good opportunity.

Well, this was abrupt indeed and boring too.

And then, if I have the atmosphere lightened and reply like…

Option B Geetika Sethi — Hello Dr Mehmet Yildiz! It’s so good to finally put a face to the name. I can’t tell you how happy I am to meet you. It was my wish to have a one-to-one conversation with you, and it has come true today.

Dr Mehmet Yildiz — Oh! That’s so kind of you. So Geetika tell me what do you do to keep yourself busy?

Geetika Sethi — Doc! Let’s grab a drink and chat over that because my life is pretty interesting and I will keep you long. (Haha …winks and giggles in the background) Dr Mehmet Yildiz, as far as I can remember, I’ve always been very creative be it arts, crafts and writing. Writing is the one that’s closest to my heart. I have been writing poetry since childhood and really enjoy it, and now thanks to you and illumination, I have taken to stories too. Other than this, I’m a full-time mom to 3 great grown-up kids and the only wife to 1 lucky husband. And not to forget, I am an Integrative Nutritionist too.

Well, this is seducing the other person with your passion and intellect, making them stick to you not just for now, but for life. This is making the most of the opportunity.

I feel above, I have managed to arouse the interest of Dr Mehmet Yildiz to stay in conversation with me and enjoy it too. This is because as it’s said — The first impression is the last impression, I just wanted to make sure to come across as a smart, confident and intelligent girl who is a go-getter.

And now this is what I call a perfect example of “The Subtle Art of Foreplay — Bedroom and Beyond.”

Now for the finale, let me share with you, my ideas. The ones that will make you master the art of foreplay, hone your skills and make you known as an extremely interesting and popular person beyond the bedroom.

• Pay attention, listen to the speaker so that you convey your interest.
• Make the conversation interesting by using words like — “Tell me, Oh my Gosh, What a brilliant … etc”
• Keep the conversation going even if it means discussing the weather, favourite foods and places.
• Be yourself, be you and thoughtfully express your genuineness. Never fake as they won't remember it if you meet them again.
• Don’t act uptight. Make yourself comfortable and make those conversing with you feel at home too.
• Empower your words and bring them to life because it’s not always what you say, but how you say it that matters.
• Never miss an opportunity especially when you are at an event. So, keep your phones in your bags, ladies, and gentlemen in your pocket so that you don't lose a connection on which you can build.

It doesn't end here… as now it’s time to enter the bedroom, but before you do let me tell you something — Do you think bedroom talks are always dirty? I don’t! I feel bedroom talks can be termed as Nerdy too. And that happens when you make love to each other's mind.

So, for this kind of foreplay in the bedroom, always remember to

• Look in the eye and always maintain eye contact through and through. Let them always remember that first spark they saw in your eye.
• Smile — it’s that silent language that says the unsaid with emotions.
• Light the bulb of Positivity focussing only on the good and happy times.
• Listen More and Talk Less so that the bedroom talks include both of you.
• Stay Simple and truthful and keep clear facts as no relationship can survive on a weak foundation.
• Admittance is the key to solving issues big and small. If you’re asked something and you don’t know about it, say so.
• Always be creative, try out new things, new talks and make each evening interesting.

Now tell me don’t you think that the sexiest bonding is that with each other’s mind? It is the only one where you connect on a mental level, experiencing an emotional high through your body language and talks, and that lasts forever.

©️ Geetika Sethi, March’2021