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Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Soulmates & Twin Flames

It’s a Soul Family thing.

I follow you through Dream Worlds, so I may always know you,

Dearest Soulmate.

Themes

In the last few days there’s been a theme coming into my world and I’ve been guided to shed some light on the subject of Soulmates. There’s actually been a couple of them, but we’ll start with this one and leave the EMPATH theme to another post.

It’s always a good idea to not only notice how the same themes come up, but tap into what you are to do about it. Ask for guidance, and be open.

Story Contents:

• The Soulmate Stories
• The Soulmate Story Is False
• What Is A Soulmate
• The Slimy Side of Soulmates
• What Is A Twin Flame/Twin Soul
• Twins: The Runner-The Chaser
• Love Issues
• The Real Issue With The Soulmate Story
• “The One”
• Love, In Conclusion

The Soulmate Stories

There’s been a few stories on Soulmates.

How to either know if you are with or

How to find or

How to get your Soulmate back if you know they are “the one”, etc. etc.

This narrative of there being only ONE Soulmate is forever old and it’s also not true. Not even a little bit.

You may love that statement because you either don’t believe in Soulmates or you reject the idea that there’s just one. Or you may really resist against the idea that there’s not just one because you’ve excepted this story and are engaged with that thought form, and it fits your story.

As with anything I share with the collective, you are welcome to accept or reject what I say. I am not here to convince anyone or argue anything. Take it or leave it how you are guided to.

It does not affect me, I have no stake in what you believe.

My job is to pass on information that I’ve been channeling down for years as I work with my Divine Counterparts and hand it over to the collective in the various ways that I’m guided to.

This isn’t new information from me. Not the subject of Souls or Soulmates or what is called Twin Flames or Twin Souls is how I like to call it.

There’s still many in the collective who have never heard of this term, and out of the ones who have — many firmly embedded in the spiritual community — are confused about how those relationships are designed and for whom.

I have been receiving messages and talking about these subjects for years now on my YouTube Channel, Podcast, Instagram, Website…This really is my wheelhouse.

The Soulmate Story Is False

Soulmate Love. It’s definitely a thing, and we’ve heard about it all of our lives.

I’m all about Soulmates as I said. This is probably because I’m a Soul Guide & Liaison, I help with Spiritual Guidance and being connected to Souls is my thing.

The fact that we each have so many is precisely what makes Soulmates so great.

All of us have many Soulmates incarnate-right now. You know some of your Soulmates. Soulmates are NOT just love partners. Oh, absolutely not. Our pets and animal friends can be Soulmates. Our friends, our family — Soulmates within those groups — most certainly.

And, we have Soul Groups.

That’s a group of Souls that incarnate together, born in different places — eventually, when the time is right-these Souls meet to do some remarkable work together upon Mother Earth, GAIA. This can mean an infinite number of types of relationships and Missions these Souls end up doing. And we’ll actually never know all of what we’re attached to and who’s in our Soul Groups because a lot of the time — we are unaware they are Soulmates.

Even when we are aware, we don’t consider many people in our lives Soulmates, because we have that one idea about Soulmates, that they are only romantic partnerships.

I bet you did and don’t consider your best friends growing up Soulmates, or one of those teenaged romantic involvements Soulmates (once you got older). Or the school librarian who you felt so safe and connected with, and seemed to really love you-a Soulmate.

Most people would not consider these relationships Soulmates, but they were in fact — Soulmates.

If you think back on your life to the people who you seemed extra super close with, when you met you felt like you’ve known them always. Or they were the person or people in your immediate or extended family that you had a very special bond with more than your other family members.

Maybe you have the experience of being in a family where there was no one you felt any kind of Soul connection with — but you definitely felt it with other people and their families.

What Is A Soulmate?

A Soulmate is someone who you have had shared time/relationships/history and Karma together in other lifetimes.

This is why you will feel so very connected with no time going by. Why you seem to be in sync, why you share the same likes and interests, why the sex is so good, why you’re psychically & telepathically connected. Why you get each other, why you feel safe, why it’s just so damn good!

Of course, we live in a dualistic reality and as such, we will be dealing with the opposite side of those lovely feelings above —

The Slimy Side of Soulmates

There’s also the other way that Soulmates can react to us and us to them.

If there’s some Karmic baggage, if there are pains, hurts and the like attached to past relationships/lifetimes.

Many times we incarnate with Soulmates in different relationship roles to balance out the energies and give us a take on things from a different perspective. Occasionally, we do this over and over again.

A Soulmate can be someone who you have had multiple different themed relationships with incarnate.

So, in this lifetime I am your wife, last time I was your husband, the time before that I was your daughter, the time before that we were brothers, the time before that we were lovers, but not family, the time before that we were frogs.

Maybe.

Listen, we have to look at all of this with LIGHT and HUMOR or it’s just WAY too serious with this Soul and Spirit stuff.

We’ve been other things too… Some of us haven’t just incarnated here — we’ve been many places.

For some people, this lifetime is their first upon GAIA, Mother Earth and for those sweet Souls, I wish I could kiss their feet for volunteering to be here at this time.

This mystery and maze we find ourselves in not remembering anything and feeling so alone and out of place. They have Soulmates too. Some who have been here before and/or some who knew them from their home systems/planets. There are lots of different dynamics that come into play with incarnates.

Not that the rest of us “repeaters” don’t deserve some Kudos for being here and going through these very intense lives — we most certainly do.

All of us Lightworkers, Light Warriors who have incarnated on Mission deserve the kudos for stepping up for humanity.

What Is A Twin Flame/Twin Soul?

A Twin Flame is one Soul who split and incarnated into two bodies. A Twin is usually a romantic partner, but doesn’t always have to be. Like stated above, we can have any combination of relationship types with other Souls, including the Soul and Twin kinds.

Here’s where people get extremely confused and caught up in something that truly is nothing more than a trap. A trap for people to laser focus on either the concept of Twins or that one person is your Twin.

The FALSE story about Twins, if you’re familiar — is that ALL of us have a Twin INCARNATE NOW.

This my friends, is as false as it is to say that Jesus was a white man.

So, if truth and fact are a thing of importance, then please understand that not everyone has a Twin Incarnate.

Only SOME Souls do, and it’s not a large percentage because of just what a difficult time it is for these souls, so they have to be “Advanced Souls” having been incarnated on THIS planet many times “solo”. That is how it typically is for several many incarnations, before ascending to a point to qualify to be without their other half on the other side.

We are ALWAYS meant to have our “other half” in the “Other Worlds”. When that is also here, then we are on our own.

It’s a lot harder to do many things with our Twin here. What that means is that we are much more reliant on our connection to OTHER divine sources of information. That we ARE connected to that TWIN incarnate, of course, just like we are connected to all Souls who are incarnated. However, we can feel the vibration of the Soul and that it matches us EXACTLY.

Twins Connecting

The one time that Twins can connect — whether they know of each other or not — is when they are sleeping and in Astral/Dream state. When the Soul leaves the bodies and unites in higher dimensions.

This can also be a problem when waking up.

People report feelings of great sadness and despair and the feeling of loss upon waking up without remembering or knowing why. Soulmates can and do meet in Astral too, but it’s different for Twins.

The best way I can describe it would be the difference between the love you feel for your niece or nephew compared to how you feel for your child.

It’s still love, it’s still family, it’s still wonderful — but it’s different.

Soulmates do not have this EXACT match in their frequency because they are and always have been separate Souls.

Twins are ONE soul, ONE vibration, ONE who SPLIT into two and decide to be born at relatively the same time.

The purpose of this ULTIMATE CHALLENGE is for various reasons, but like with all Lightworkers, the ultimate purpose of our Soul’s here is to DO STUFF together here that we cannot do unless we’re in a body.

All Lightworkers are incarnate light bodies who are here on a Mission of Service.

Service to Humanity and Service to GAIA, Mother Earth. How that may look for each of us is different.

Coming into existence here with the Mission being the priority, Advanced Souls chose to split to maximize their vibration and their Mission work.

Because they are truly ONE SOUL they have a potent energetic dynamic and when these Souls come together, stay together (that is usually never easy or the case), they can do incredible things together. Talk about alchemy and love magic.

You may be thinking, “If they are one Soul, wouldn’t it be easier for them to stay together?”

Yes and No. First no. Then yes, maybe…

Here’s the crux-deposition of being a Twin: it’s really weird. It’s really, really weird to be so THE SAME. Now this doesn’t mean that they are the same person. And that’s what makes it so hard.

They are different people with different histories and experiences in this life, they have their ick to clear and heal from, and they’ve been alone as well, feeling a pull to someone on this planet.

Many times, when these two people meet, it’s felt-big time — by both people, and it’s nothing like anything else. So much so that it is incredibly uncomfortable for most people to handle the energy of this dynamic. It’s super intense and the magnetic pull is often far too overwhelming for at least one of them.

There’s (almost) always one who is all in and the other that runs from the dynamic completely freaked out that this was all planned out and feels slighted by the imposition of not having “free will”. When that’s not the case at all, but it can feel that way — and does to many of the runners. At the same time, the “chaser” is left yearning for their other half, always chasing being “whole”.

And that’s how the story usually goes with Twins. There’s the Runner and the Chaser. Seriously-it’s a thing.

The Runner-The Chaser

One of the Twins freaks the hell out and makes the first excuse to bail on the entire thing. The other one is so on board about it that they are FINE with the concept and dynamic, regardless of what the circumstances are, where either live, who they may be with, what’s going on in their lives, etc.

They’ll do “crazy” things because they are working from The Soul Perspective they will dive in face first, make declarations, draw lines in the sand and generally act a bit obsessive and unstable, if even for a little bit. To most humans on the outside, it seems way too much and like something to stay away from.

For the Chaser The Twin Soul PULL is that hard, and they are willing to get together (on whatever level) to let things play out as they will. They are eager to get on with the Mission, and being together is the way to do it. While the other is “running” from all the LIGHT and heaviness that is felt between them.

Another thing to point out is that many Twin Flame Unions have large age gaps, which is another hurdle to deal with. Upwards of at least 10–20 years is the norm for Twins.

So even the most “Advanced Souls” out there have serious HUMAN ISSUES here.

LOVE Issues

Unfortunately, most people fear LOVE, at least the romantic kind.

They’ve been hurt and most likely, it’s happened several times, and most likely they haven’t completely healed or cut cords. Love has been traumatic in various ways with various people — being in what, we thought, were “love” situations or relationships.

We decide that LOVE is the enemy, and to shield ourselves from it as much as possible.

The Real Issue With The “Soulmate” Story

We hold on to the idea of “The One” so tightly with a laser focus on what or whom that may be that we miss the fact that they ARE NOT THE ONE.

We do not have just ONE. So there is no “The One”. That is a false narrative that humans have lived and died by — falsely because of just how much negativity it brings up for us and The Collective in general.

It carries many negative energies attached to more historical trauma that we, being “repeaters” are attached to. We have had this false story with us through lifetimes.

Twins Don’t Even Have “The One”

I will repeat that again:

EVEN FOR TWINS it does not mean that they are “The One”.

They might be called The Twin (again this is rare) but being called The ONE is a different concept. And I don’t mean those occasions where Twins are other types of relationships other than romantic because they are romantic most of the time.

The One Doesn’t Exist

Going back to Soulmates and having many — the people who have Twins incarnate usually do not “end up” together for various reasons.

Just because the two didn’t come together doesn’t mean it was a failed mission.

The Souls who go for this challenge know that it is not likely that they will unite.

Humans are so separated from The Truth and so scared of LOVE and vulnerability, and age differences, and are for the most part not healed.

The Twin union requires people to be in alignment energetically as well as vibrationally from their Soul Song.

If they are not, then THEY ARE NOT THE ONE.

That’s when a Soulmate relationship is the ideal one, and remember — we have many potential Soulmates we can couple up with — and not all of these relationships are meant to last FOREVER either! Refer to my story about parting ways below.

So, the idea that there is A SOULMATE who is THE ONE possible perfect person for us is really depressing.

This is a big world and the impression is that you’re lucky to find anyone you are compatible with-let alone that one person. This is why so many people give up on Love.

It is so defeating, it is so negative, it is so very hopeless.

But we try to put “The One” label on many people to see if they will fit our idea of what that is — Soulmate or Twin.

When it doesn’t work out we either decide they aren’t a Soulmate (they probably are) or we have lost our Soulmate. Causing great turmoil to us at the time but our lives in general.

When the fact of the matter is that we have NOT lost anything. It was a relationship that ended because it needed to.

I wrote a story about separating and how we need to stop seeing the endings of relationships as failures. They are not. Check it out here:

Love, In Conclusion

I hope you see that I’m not trying to pop any romantic bubbles, I’m trying to create real ones based in truth.

If you have a relationship that you are happy in-fantastic! That’s truly all that matters. Labels help for identification of people, places, things, and concepts. We need titles for things.

If you feel you are in a Soulmate relationship or even a Twin Flame relationship — congratulations!

If you feel they are the ONLY ONE who was ever made for you — good for you!

Ultimately, that’s what every successful Soulmate or Twin Flame relationship should feel like. For as long as it’s meant to. So cherish each other. Don’t hold back. Be vulnerable. Share. Be silly.

If anyone is a romantic that LOVES LOVE it’s me. I’m a romantic at heart, I love everything about romance and love and love partnerships and sexual love romance and expression and the magic it can create. I’ll write a story about all of THAT at another time.

For now, I hope this brings you comfort that we have many Soulmates, that if you think you are a Twin, you can approach it with the wisdom of what an Advanced Soul like you actually is.

That you see your life and Soul as infinite, with all the infinite TRUE LOVE that creation feels for it.

I hope that you want to seek your bruised-heart-parts and decide to let go of the ideas that support false concepts that continue to feed the energy of separateness, and fear — especially of LOVE.

Fearing love is like fearing the air you need to breathe. Our life force runs on Love Energy, so please…

LOVE LOVE, don’t turn away from it — ever. Love is what our Souls are made of, Love heals and Love is all our Divine Counterparts feel for us, Love is all our Twins there or here feel for us, and Love is all our Soulmates feel for us. Even if our humans are stubborn and ignorant and hurtful.

We love each other from our Souls and that is always real, that is always the truth.

I work with people to connect them to their Souls, to connect them to their Spirit Tribes, to help clear their energy and heal them of emotional or physical pain. So they can live the lives they were meant to live.

May you live the life you’re meant to live with the Souls you’re meant to connect with, here and in The Other Worlds.

❤︎ Thanks for reading my story.

Check out a couple of my other stories here on Medium, meant to guide you to greater wellbeing.

About Infiniti

I am Infiniti, a Divine Angelic Incarnate.

As a channel and vessel for Mother-Father God, Mother Earth GAIA, The Archangels, Ascended Masters, Dragons, Fae, Unicorn, Mer, Galactics, and Spirit Animals, together, we, The High Council, heal, guide and enlighten humanity to The Truth.

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