Twin Flames and Healing
The Secret to Twin Flame Union
Value the spiritual pursuits over the romantic.
Twin flames are a fascination to me, and I’ve had my own journey with the concept. My twin flame started coming back to me when I started committing to my healing. Nothing fascinates me more than the idea that the two flames can only come together when they stop trying to physically make it work. They turn their attention inwards and do some major spiritual work — and often realize early on that the spiritual work was all that ever really mattered. Spiritual pursuits are the path to twin flame union.
You may chase. They may run. You may try to distract yourself with other physical, worldly things. In twin flame separation, we are often losing our minds at the same time, and crying a lot. But the sooner you use your time and energy to look at the problems within yourself, the better.
You have to do inner work. Heal your trauma. Face your shadows. Acknowledge all the things you’ve been doing that simply don’t work. Restart the way you live your life. Shift the way you think. You have to be spiritually pure — not lying to yourself or anyone else — to be ready for twin flame union.
People think twin flames are about love. They try to understand them as mere soul mates. It’s hard to understand that someone can enter your life whose purpose there is more than the surface-level relationship you have. There’s a whole universe of our spiritual side that is hidden from us but is intricately connected to our physical existence.
In other relationships, it seems easy to say that the other person is a romantic interest. But with twin flames, it’s ten percent romance and ninety percent spiritual growth.
Twin flames come into your life to shake things up, spiritually.
Their relationship with you on the physical plane doesn’t really matter. They could act like they hate you or they could be avoiding you because they’re married. They could be living under the same roof as you. They could be your spouse. They could be dead and now in spirit. They could be incarnated as a sheep. Whatever the case is, their spiritual selves are all that matter, and how they relate to yours.
When you experience the pain of twin flame separation, this is a call to heal something really deep in your heart.
Twin flame union will happen when you’ve both healed, spiritually. Every day, let go of the past a little, realize who you are a little, and love yourself as much as possible. You just have to try to keep getting better — being the best human you can possibly be.
What you do on the physical level, again, doesn’t really matter. You may be in communication with them and you may not. You may be in the same country, or across the planet. What’s happening on the spiritual plane is what matters.
So, find a way to heal all the wounds within you. Live a balanced and authentic life.
Every act that is done in spiritual honesty with yourself and every choice to heal makes things a little easier for the two souls to come together.
Twin flame union shouldn’t be seen as a physical state. When you finally see clearly, you’ll know that it never mattered whether you were ever physically together. You were never apart spiritually.
Hi, I’m Emily. I’m a twin flame coach. For more about me, have a look at my website or book a session with me.
I am also the author of Twin Flames and the Love Story Within, available on Amazon. You may also be interested in the Twin Flame Support Group that I run.
The divine in me recognizes the divine in you.
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