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The article emphasizes the importance of achieving a flow state for at least three hours a day to experience true happiness and fulfillment.

Abstract

The article "The Secret to Happiness Is Being in a Flow State for 3 Hours per Day" suggests that the key to a blissful life lies in regularly entering a flow state, a condition where one feels fully immersed and enjoying the activity at hand. The author, who self-identifies as an average writer, attributes their prolific output to the mastery of flow states. They argue that progress made during these periods of deep work provides a natural high, eliminating the need for external stimulants. Drawing on examples from Paul McCartney and Israel Adesanya, the author illustrates how individuals can train themselves to access flow states with ease, leading to enhanced creativity and performance. The article also touches on the importance of choosing activities that one loves and that have personal meaning, as this passion is essential for entering a flow state. Furthermore, the author advocates for seeking out relationships with others who understand and prioritize flow, to reinforce and sustain this state of being.

Opinions

  • The author believes that flow states are a natural source of happiness and can replace the need for artificial pleasures like sugar, alcohol, or drugs.
  • They suggest that flow states can be habitually accessed through practice and dedication, much like Paul McCartney's approach to songwriting.
  • The author emphasizes that progress in one's work during flow states is a significant source of happiness and motivation.
  • They assert that flow states are not effective if the activity is not enjoyable or is pursued for the wrong reasons, as self-deception hinders access to flow.
  • The author quotes Albert Einstein to support the idea that engaging in enjoyable work can make one lose track of time, indicating deep engagement and flow.
  • They express a desire to be around individuals who understand and value flow states, to avoid the interruptions and shallow work associated with traditional work environments.
  • The article promotes the idea of watching others in flow states as a method to inspire one's own entry into a flow state.
  • The author encourages readers to join their email list for further insights on achieving flow and improving one's life.

The Secret to Happiness Is Being in a Flow State for 3 Hours per Day

I’m a pretty sh*t writer and I’m okay with that.

Photo by Anna Shvets from Pexels

Flow states are the secret to life.

If I could only offer one piece of life-changing advice before I die it would be this. The feeling of bliss comes from the work you do. As you do the work you experience the sensation of progress.

Progress gives you a natural high.

No sugar. No naughty videos. No Netflix. No alcohol. No drugs. Flow states are a drug that offers real happiness.

We are happiest and most aligned in our flow state. Natural state of being — Godis Oya

Don’t wait for inspiration

Flow states are where your work feels effortless and hours pass by, yet it feels like only minutes have gone by.

Being in a flow state every day can feel hard. How do you access it?

Rock legend Paul McCartney showed me. In this video of him at 26 he starts a recording session with no ideas for a song.

Not long after a hit single is born.

Paul didn’t sit there and wait for inspiration to hit him. No.

He sat there and accessed his flow state habit. He put his mind into the same mode he’d done thousands of times before that recording session. Once in a flow state, he switched on his ability to be a creative genius.

The secret is Paul forced himself to get into flow.

You could say he demonstrated flow state confidence in this video that amplified the breathtaking results that look superhuman.

Coach Kavanagh noticed the same with martial arts legend Israel Adesanya.

“Israel seems to enter a ‘flow state’ with ease. It’s fascinating to watch. I can only imagine it’s from doing something he really loves.”

Israel’s mind is programmed to find flow. It’s because he spends 3 hours or more a day in this zone of genius. Now it’s child’s play to him.

Make your flow state easy to access. Make 3 hours of daily flow a habit.

Get addicted like this

Flow states have changed my life.

I don’t say that lightly. People think I’m a good writer, or a lucky writer, or a freak of nature. Nope. I’m a pretty sh*t writer and I’m okay with that.

My secret has and always will be flow states. I can publish ten articles a week because I’ve perfected the art of flow. It’s a science. It’s something I’ve studied in the same way historians study history.

It’s an obsession.

I work on my flow state like a marathon runner works on their practice sprints. Anything you do in life repeatedly can be perfected to exploit the upside.

The trick is to get progress from your flow state session.

Progress makes us happy. When we progress we feel phenomenal. Phenomenal feelings keep us coming back.

Alberto the mustache was right

What you do during a flow state is crucial.

If you pick an activity you hate or are doing for the wrong reasons, it won’t work. You can’t lie to yourself.

Your mind knows when you’re bullsh*ting a flow state, so it prevents you from accessing it.

Mr Alberto Einstein nailed it:

“That is the way to learn the most, that when you are doing something with such enjoyment that you don’t notice that the time passes. I am sometimes so wrapped up in my work that I forget about the noon meal.”

That’s how I feel when I write. Today I moved house. I discovered after everything was unpacked that my new shack is close to overhead powerlines.

Many people know these cause cancer.

Now I probably have to move again. What sets me free are flow states. All my worries evaporate when it’s just me, my keyboard, and the potential to uplift another person’s day.

It sounds cheesy as hell…

But accessing a flow state for someone else’s benefit gives your work meaning.

This is the work I love. If today is my last day on Earth then this is what I want to be doing — writing words for you. This is my bliss.

What you must do is find your bliss.

The secret club you want to enter

Happiness is best shared.

I’ve spent years searching the internet for flow state relationships. These are people that have discovered the same secret to happiness I have.

The reason I look for these people is because many people haven’t accessed flow states. When I talk about it they look at me with a screwed up face, on the verge of laughter.

It sounds like a secret religion to them.

Whereas there are people that get it. I want to be around flow state people. I want to transcend the useless world of traditional work that is built on a mountain of shallow work that produces unhappiness.

I want to be around deep work. Why? I’m afraid I’ll lose this feeling. I want other people’s flow states to rub off on me. I want daily reminders.

I don’t ever want to live a life where Slack messages screw up every flow state for the sake of someone else’s agenda.

Find people who understand flow states. Trade shallow work for deep work.

The fastest way to teleport into a flow state

I have a stupidly simple trick you can steal.

Watch others in flow states before you start a 3 hour plus flow state session. If you don’t know what people look like who are in flow states, watch the video above of Paul McCartney demonstrating it over and over.

Flow is the secret to happiness. It’s how you automate the progress of your goals and change your life forever.

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