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Summary

The article reflects on the journey of a ring through time, exploring its shifting value and the loss of its original emotional significance as it changes hands.

Abstract

The narrative centers around a ring that, once laden with deep sentimental value, undergoes a transformation in meaning as it passes from a queen to various owners over centuries, eventually ending up with an antique dealer who is unaware of its history. The author, Erika Burkhalter, uses the ring as a metaphor to question the lasting value and resonance of personal possessions, drawing from Susan Meissner's novel "Lady in Waiting." The piece contemplates whether the essence of the original owner lingers with the object, and it challenges readers to consider the true worth of their own cherished items in the grand scheme of time.

Opinions

  • The author believes that the emotional value of objects can be lost over time as they change hands and their histories become obscured.
  • There is a suggestion that objects may retain an "energy" or "essence" from their past, potentially allowing future owners to sense their historical significance.
  • The article implies that the importance we place on our possessions may be transient and that their value is subjective, often tied to personal experiences and memories.
  • Burkhalter encourages a philosophical view on material attachments, proposing that perhaps it is better to let possessions "slip through our fingers, unfettered."
  • The author finds it poignant that the original intent behind a gift can be forgotten, highlighting the passage in Meissner's book that describes the ring's journey through time.
  • The piece concludes with a personal reflection on the author's own belongings, prompting readers to ponder the legacy and lasting impact of the things they hold dear.

Poetry, Life

The Ring

What is its worth?

“The Ring.” Photo ©Erika Burkhalter

A ring, once precious far beyond its worth in sapphire and gold — a treasure of the heart — a gift of the soul, an emblem of a future never quite lived, snatched away in a moment —

darkness descended.

And the ring changed hands. From a queen to a seamstress. And then to her daughter. From a niece to a nephew and on and on.

Until the meaning was lost? What was its worth — tucked into the binding of a sixteenth-century prayer book?

Three hundred years later the ring found its way onto the finger of an antique dealer, who knew nothing of the love it had borne.

That history — it passed in a flash. Like leaves in a river, just floating past. You can grab them for an instant. But they don’t last.

The things which we cling to — do they really have value, a history, meaningful to anyone but us?

Should we let them slip through our fingers, unfettered?

Or is there an energy — an essence of a life which clings to these relics?

Could the woman who found it sense the tether to the past? Perhaps feel the moment that the ring was first slipped on?

I’d like to believe it is so.

But, as humans, we’ll never really know.

I recently read a book, Lady in Waiting, by Susan Meissner about a ring which was found, tucked away in the binding of a book, by an antique dealer. The storyline went back and forth between modern times and the distant past.

The section of the book which struck me the most was the very end, where the author relayed the passage of the ring from hand to hand in a chronology of time. It was so easy to see how the original intent of the giver of the ring (and the feelings of the recipient) were lost in the shadowed recesses of time.

It really made me look around at some of the things in my life which seem so important now. What are they really worth? And if someone in the distant future ends up holding one of my precious things in their hands, will they be able to feel any of my essence still resonating through it?

Erika Burkhalter is a yogi, neurophilosopher, cat-mom, photographer, and lover of travel and nature, spreading her love and amazement for Mother Earth’s glories, one photo, poem or story at a time. (MS Neuropsychology, MA Yoga Studies).

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