The Quality of Your Relationships is Key to Your Success in Life — Do This to 10x Them!

You know it — your success is directly correlated to who you know, and how much they like you.

It is all about having great relationships! With your boss, your clients, and your colleagues.

Do you want to improve your relationships and get a boost to your career? Read on.

Why do you struggle in relationships?

The reason why you struggle in relationships is that you see people as threats.

When you go to meet a person you already have your guard up. This is something that the other person will feel, and as a result, the other person will also be defensive.

This is because no matter how you try to hide it your guarding is creating an air of hostility. It creates distance between the two of you.

This is a clear example of your thoughts becoming your reality. You feel that the other person is a threat. And he thus feels that you are a threat. You are now both a little bit scared of each other.

And this is how relationships deteriorate.

The solution!

So how to fix this you ask?

Well, the solution is to understand that you don’t have to fear the other person.

How to do that?

The important part is to understand yourself.

You are not a person, you are consciousness being aware of the person. Consciousness is impersonal and infinite. It can also never be hurt or diminished in any way.

Thus there is nothing possible to damage when looking at the real you.

And thus, there is no need for you to be defensive.

Instead, lose your guard, and live without fear. As what you are;

the unchangeable one.

Confirm for yourself that you have lived a misunderstanding!

The important thing is not reading this writing and trying to internalize it.

The important thing is to question this writing. To test the message out in practice. And maybe get to the realization that this represents truth.

The practical way to check this out for yourself is through self-inquiry. This means to look at yourself and try to locate the real or most profound you.

You can start by asking yourself what you are not. You are not your thoughts, but you are the one that experiences your thoughts.

You are not your body, but you are the one experiencing your body.

And so forth.

You are the experiencer — this experience or knowledge is made of consciousness. It also appears in consciousness. And it is known by consciousness.

That consciousness is impersonal, yours is the same as mine. This means that there is nothing personal to defend.

Also, consciousness does not change. Verify this for yourself. Think about yourself as a 3-year-old. What experiences your life then, is the same as what experiences your life today.

It has always been the same, no matter your state of mind. And it will always be the same.

It is the screen of the movie — intimately one with all that goes on in your life. The only reality of all that action. But at the same time never in any way affected by all that action.

So — you no longer have to be defensive or see other persons as threats. Because the real you is safe everywhere!

Conclusion — to your new life and success!

So do it!

Perform self-inquiry and see that you are not a person. See that you are impersonal. See that there is nothing to defend.

There is thus no longer any reason for fear, and seeing people as threats.

Forget about your personal self, you are everything and everyone. There is only one thing; consciousness.

Let your guard down — and start establishing close and open relationships with others. Relationships that are not built on pride or status. That needs no defense against potential attacks or threats. But that focus on courage and openness. That is based on truth.

Applying the above mindset you will notice that all your relationships will improve.

You will feel more at peace, and your voice will become clearer and more authoritative. People will start following you instead of the other way around.

Courage will be yours and people will be drawn to you.

Best of luck!

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