The Problem with Referring to Women as “Females”
Referring to a women as “females” is a crime that men and women alike have committed. (Okay, maybe that was a bit dramatic.) The problem is not that women are not females. In fact, most women are biological females. The problem, however, is the derogatory way in which the word is used.
People who are not familiar with how this term is used today or people who use this term often may find themselves wondering why in the world it’s offensive. After all, isn’t it just a synonym for “women”?
Let’s start with the dictionary definition of the word “female”.
adjective: of, relating to, or being the sex that typically has the capacity to bear young or produce eggs
noun: an individual of the sex that is typically capable of bearing young or producing eggs
By definition, referring to women as “females” reduces them to their reproductive abilities. That sounds a bit degrading, don’t you think? In addition, a “female” could be anything, not necessarily a human. Your dog might be a female. Do you really want to lump your girlfriend and your dog in the same category?
From my observation, “female” is most often used by low-value men (and women) to debase, devalue, and criticize women. Reducing a woman to the level of an animal is not something that should be normal. Passive aggressively calling a woman a “female” strips her of her value and femininity and sends the message that she is replaceable and unworthy, neither of which are true. The disdainful and misogynistic word communicates the idea that the woman is not the prize and attempts to undermine her self-worth.
I’ve noticed a double-standard surrounding the word. Men who swear up and down that they mean no disrespect by using the word wouldn’t be caught dead referring to their mother or grandmother as a “female”. Why? It’s simple. They probably respect those women. They reserve the derogatory word for other women, perhaps younger women close to their own age, women who’ve rejected them, women who they have contempt for, or women who just simply exist.
Calling women “females” is downright distasteful and un-classy. If you’ve racked your brain but cannot think of another word for this type of species, try “women” or “ladies”. Lucky for you, they’re the same amount of syllables, too!
So, ladies and gents, let’s stop referring to women as “females”. Although the word holds scientific truth, social construction had rendered it a degrading noun, and women deserve more than that.
It’s come to my attention that this article has been circulating around Twitter for the past month or so. Over 50,000 views later, I’ve seen people say really kind things about this article (and me) and really not-so-kind things about this article (and me). I wanted to clarify a few things.
First, I want establish that I am not a feminist, so angry Twitter conservatives can stop calling me one now. I am not a liberal/leftist, either. I am a conservative.
I promote femininity over feminism, and as I stated in this article, part of the reason I have a problem with being referred to as a “female” is that it strips a woman of her femininity. I don’t support or promote the feminist agenda. The agenda of killing the unborn in the name of women’s rights, the agenda of emasculating men, the agenda of encouraging women to be loud and promiscuous. The majority of readers likely haven’t called anyone a female and probably haven’t ever been called a female. If you are not a part of or engaging with black American culture, you probably will never come across this. The only people I’ve heard call women “females” are young, black men, and most of the time the people who have a problem with being called a “female” are black women or women who are engaging with black culture. I don’t mean to point fingers at a particular race — there are people from all races who have called women “females”. However, I just wanted to clarify things for those who were confused. If you are not a young black man, there’s a pretty good chance you haven’t called women “females”. If you haven’t, this article does not apply to you and you can move on with your life. You don’t need to go on Twitter and call me a feminist or liberal, because I’m quite the opposite.