The Prayer Habit: Finding A Reason to Talk with God
Make your bed and say your prayers
Did you know that there is a habit that can change your life?
According to Matthew Kelly, there is.
I’m not a Catholic. I’m Protestant; what I call a super-protestant. Haha, how does that happen, you ask? Well.. I have been a member of the following denominations — Southern Baptist, Independent Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, and Nazarene.
I’m just joking. There’s nothing super about me. At least spiritually, that is. As a mom and a wife, I have been known to exhibit a few superpowers. Prayer is not my superpower, to-date. I’m lukewarm-to-warm at this, but I want to be HOT. I long to be a prayer warrior like others in my church.
My neighbor, a Catholic, pointed me to the above-linked website. I’ve been watching the brief videos daily since and have been uplifted every day. The topic of the linked video is “habit.” What I love most about this entire series is the theme: “It’s not what you give up, but Who You Become.”
Wow.
I was raised in a home where habits were important. Get out of bed when the alarm goes off (no snooze alarm in that house!). Brush teeth, put laundry away, clean up after yourself. Of course, clean your plate. (Those starving children in China and India were conjured up weekly.)
Make. Your. Bed.
So, this is the one daily habit that aggravated me throughout my youth, though I was never disobedient. However, I vowed when I lived on my own, I wouldn’t make my bed every day. I got married and gave that silly idea a try. No matter how clean a room is, if the bed’s unmade, well, duh, the room’s a mess!
I make my bed.
I talked about this to a coworker some years ago. He reported to me and we were having a conversation about planning, being consistent, managing people. I raised the issue of developing habits. (He was a millennial. I know. I raised three of ‘em.)
He came back to me not long after. He’d started reading the book I’d recommended, The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business.
He also started making his bed!
Life’s essential daily habit, Matthew Kelly asserts, is prayer. Staying connected is important. God is our lifeline, isn’t he? He’s the power cord, the plug socket, the sim card…. right?
Do not worry about anything, but pray and ask God for everything you need, always giving thanks. And God’s peace, which is so great we cannot understand it, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6–7, NCV)
Prayer is not only about our requests, but also about our mindset. Setting our vision toward Him and His will helps us reset our perspective.
And resets who we might become. That’s eternal.







