The Only One Thing That Arouses Women: With A Catch

Is it a sado-masochism? A dominance? A threesome? Or a gang-bang? Here are some real-world experiments to demonstrate it…

I heard the soft humming coming from the bedroom. I wondered what my beautiful roommate was up to in there. As I walked closer, it seemed that she might be reading a book or watching television.

It wasn’t until I opened the door wider that I understood why her voice was so hushed and why she seemed to be deeply engrossed in whatever she was doing. On the bed lay 50 Shades of Grey and my roommate’s hand moving quickly along her body as if imitating some of those scenes within the pages of this book’s black and white words.

When I opened the door, she was all flushed and embarrassed and started apologizing. I told her not to stop because I was enjoying the show.

When she saw that I had the same book with me, we laughed together and made some hot fantasies on our own.

Let’s see if you can guess how it all started.

For many women, 50 Shades of Grey is their first erotic experience. Yes, the book is poorly written but still became a bestseller. Frankly, I didn’t like the book but I liked the idea of the book and got interested in what is the is the one secret that arouses women and why we are so ashamed to talk about it.

Women get excited by anything and everything

The psychologist Meredith Chivers 2006 performed one experiment where women watched different scenarios including

After they were written down which scenario was most arousing to them and add the plethysmogram was recording the blood flow into their genitals to measure the vaginal arousal.

We can call it even the erotic lie detector. The results were interesting because women wrote down only what was socially approved to write, or what their sexual orientation was the plethysmogram has shown that women were aroused from all the pictures. The women were afraid to write down their authentic feelings.

Women and fantasy

Another study performed by scientists in Netherland proved that women were more aroused by fantasy than reality when they measured their brain activity.

Also, one sex expert from Sweden Katerina Janouch wrote a book: Swedish Women’s Secret Sexual Fantasies.

Domination and submission were the most common fantasy among women but the women acknowledged it was indeed a fantasy and not they really would like to experiment.

Women want sexual fantasy, not necessarily reality when it comes to arousal. For men, the visual site for arousal is stronger than in women. For them is enough to use imagination.

Other phenomena are women buy and read more books than men that is why erotic genre books got so popular because fantasy plays a big role.

But there is a catch that women do have fantasies but they don’t need those fantasies to translate to reality It can be only the fantasy. No more.

The power of fantasy is the secret to arousing women and 50 Gray of Shades was proof of this.

There is an old saying,

“the power of fantasy is the secret to arousing women.”

Yet, this intriguing piece of wisdom didn’t originate with the internet. Famed essayist and philosopher George Santayana wrote in 1905 that

“We can indeed, thank God for giving us dreams; even though they be sometimes but idle visions of things unrealized.”

It’s just that nowadays people don’t bother dreaming or fantasizing about anything more than their next meal, let alone sex.

And yet I find myself very curious about this idea. Is there some kind of truth behind it?

That’s when I had an epiphany!

Women want fantasy, that is all!

Men, sorry to break it to you, but women can have desires that do not include you.

Is it the truth , or not?

What do you think when it comes to what makes women go get aroused?