The Only One Big Requisite Men Expect from Women Yet Most of Them Fail Miserably

Imagine if we listed the expectations a typical Western woman supposedly has for her ideal man. It would be like reading a superhero origin story — dude needs to be charming as Captain America, witty as Iron Man, with the physique of Thor and the bank account of Bruce Wayne. Oh, and don’t forget the emotional depth of Aquaman and the work-life balance of, well, nobody.

It looks like most women out there in the dating market are chasing an unicorn. Personally, I’ve never seen a unicorn, but I imagine in some women’s delusions it does exist.

The thing is that women were taught from the beginning of their life on what to expect from men, yet not how to treat them. In the other side of the coin, men were taught how to treat women but not what to expect from them.

I smell a high degree of asymmetry here.

What do men expect from women then?

I’ll tell you straightforwardly with no filters, as usual:

Don’t be a slut

No, I’m not saying that every woman should be a virgin by the moment they want to engage in marriage.

I’m basically stating that women should be an exclusive treasure which isn’t available for everyone.

If your woman is half-naked on social media, I’m sorry. It’s not your girl, it’s ours.

It only takes 10 min of scrolling through social media to see tons of women exhibiting their physical attributes and duck faces just to lure weak-minded individuals to subscribe to their OnlyFans, Instagram, you name it. Or it could also be just an ‘innocent’ ego-game.

Why being a ‘slut’ isn’t good for you?

If you bought the Feminism propaganda, probably you don’t see anything inherently bad about having a ‘slutty’ approach to life, however I’ll tell you why long term it’ll hurt you more than benefiting you.

We, men, categorize women in two groups. For serious engagement and the ones for fun. If we notice that you’re a hot woman, promiscuous, easy to get, we’ll never consider you as a serious prospect for anything. Some men could say:

But we love sluts!

Probably they mean it, but just for fun. Here’s an interesting short interview from a P0rn star, when it comes to finding serious relationships:

https://ifunny.co/video/justsat-ac-famous-adriana-chechik-says-she-feels-lonely-and-FLyro1IhA

And that’s not the only one, I invite you to do a small research. That’s not an isolated case. ‘But wait I haven’t done porn!!’ sure, but we know quite well who are the easy and non-easy women in our villages.

Another important thing is that, the female’s mating strategy is about being prepared to be engaged by men. In this regard, if a woman in a relationship wears provocative clothes in public places, it’s absolutely analogue to a man who engages women in a bar. So if your woman does this and you aren’t there… she’s still looking for that unicorn, which isn’t you.

If I were you, I wouldn’t tolerate such a disrespect. Let the streets have what it belongs to them.

Concluding remarks

This small essay isn’t meant to hurt or judge anybody. You can do whatever you want in your life, however I’m here to open eyes. If you do something, you gotta be full aware of the consequences of your lifestyle, and assume the consequences altogether.

It’s kinda sad to see 40 y.o women who were absolutely promiscuous in their 20’s complaining that they can’t find a man, or that all men are trash, when she personally had that ‘slut’ credential in front of her face the whole time.

I didn’t do the rules of the game. Sorry not sorry.

The Fit Stoic